My Mother Treats Me Like A Maid

   Well, she's your mother. And if you don't like her, she decides right now. After all, she feeds you, gushes, wipes your ass as a child .... and so on.

   Child, you are confusing something in your conclusions about being someone's maid. It's just that your mother teaches you that just as she takes care of you, it's normal for you to take care of her, so you're a family. The family is a group of people who take care of each other. Is your mother your maid if she goes to work and spends what she earns for home, is she your maid if she cooks, washes or tidies up, is she your maid if she wakes you up for school or buys you things, right! Yes, she is obliged as a mother to take care of you, but you as a daughter are obliged to respect and help your mother, and if you are useful to her by combing or holding a massager, you should be happy that you are helping the person who you love the most. And the problem with going out has to be fought, to find a way to convince her to let you go with the children. To find by her logic convincing arguments that she should allow you. For example, if she gathers with friends, start from the fact that you also need girlfriends, if she does not gather with friends, you can convince her in time that she does not have many girlfriends because she did not go out as a child, if you have well-developed logic you will find the right one. approach, you know her best, at 14 it's time to learn how to manipulate.

   Tell her he's hurting you with this attitude.

   And not on her, and it was easy until you grow up, how many sleepless nights, how many I can't because I have a child, how much attention, strength and care. I understand you, for the insults my mother was also a bit extreme, I cried a hell of a lot years ago that she insulted me, but I know one thing I did not become like the others a league, I learned to do everything. When she screams and insults, she is tense, talk to her, say and, mom, I love you, I want to help you with everything, I want not to make mistakes, but I don't want you to insult me, I'm sick. Explain it to your friends, too. try to talk to her at least once a month, let her out. It's more canned, but on the one hand it's better, I did what I wanted at your age, I didn't get over it, and believe me, I suffered a lot from this arbitrariness. Precisely because someone went out and I wanted to, but nothing good happened. Others like you did not let them go, they were angry, then they were crazy for us, but now I see that they have studied, the time has come when we are 19, we go out, discos, boys, and we seem to have already experienced this without time. She's a little overreacting, but she's probably worried, at least talk to you sometimes to invite them, and tell your friends the truth, don't let them think you're avoiding them on purpose. She loves you, she is a mother and she will understand you, if you probably don't have a grandmother, talk to her. Your mother is obviously going through a difficult period or is like that, but she speaks quietly and calmly, give something of yourself, and ask her to compromise by explaining your things and feelings. don't let them think you're deliberately avoiding them. She loves you, she is a mother and she will understand you, if you probably don't have a grandmother, talk to her. Your mother is obviously going through a difficult period or is like that, but she speaks quietly and calmly, give something of yourself, and ask her to make a compromise by explaining your things and feelings. don't let them think you're avoiding them on purpose. She loves you, she is a mother and she will understand you, if you probably don't have a grandmother, talk to her. Your mother is obviously going through a difficult period or is like that, but she speaks quietly and calmly, give something of yourself, and ask her to compromise by explaining your things and feelings.

   It's time to show character! Otherwise, they will crush you in a similar way for life. That's how it starts, first the parents, then the friends, the employers, the husband, your children, and one day you say to yourself that you lived as a jerk and the backbone of everyone else. Tip: Always stand up for your opinion and right, even if you are left alone, it will be worth it!