Hello, a 20-year-old girl writes to you, so my problem is that at the beginning of the year I stopped the gym due to financial reasons, I was in shape and everything was ok. Then I gained a lot of stress, nerves, depression ... I'm angry that I can't find a decent job, my boyfriend and I had problems, but we got better, my sister was only causing problems and therefore I still treated her as older. And I relaxed, and I never got my hands on it again, because it's hard for me to just start a regimen and some sport. But now I have decided - I start with a friend to walk on different paths, to the forest and walks, remove the jam and bread and I will get in shape, because it is not good to work 20 kg up. And my mother just overdoes it !!! But what can I tell you, these were not comments like: reduce food, you need exercise, you need a walk, with this night meal you will not lose weight! And all the same, and I just repeat to leave me alone, I will fix myself and lose weight, because she has lost 10 kg, and already a big deal, but as she was fuller, I have not made such comments! Please tell me what to do, that she can't support herself, and now I live with her, my sister works and is staying in another city ... I also told her that I don't like it that way, it just stresses me more, and she answered, that she is my mother and will tell me things as they are, she will not laugh like the others, but she disappoints me a lot! It doesn't stop at all and it just makes me angry! I also said to support me, not to press me like that, to irritate me and stress me! But he doesn't understand me !! Even the boyfriend just asks me if you're okay ... I told him no, of course, I'll start exercising and eating healthy and he said ok, no sense in telling me such offensive and nasty things .... But she insults me like that! Please tell me what to do, that nothing happens, I'm just nervous! I figured out how to do this with weight loss, I just don't know how to deal with my mother !!! It drives me crazy!
1 oneplus_india answered
Find SOME JOB and as long as you stay home, you're a young man. Your mother will stop harassing you if you don't hang out at home and do meaningful things. Work at sea and abroad besides a lot, why do you stay? The weight will be lost when you move out of the house and start living your life. I recommend all types of low-carb diets and the most important thing is not to consume more calories than consumed, and if you want to lose weight should not be more than 1000 calories a day, mainly from protein and fat. Good luck