My Mother Is Mentally Harassing Me.

The Story

I am a 16-year-old boy, I study and my success is good, I even take a scholarship for excellent success, but the obstacle that comes is my mother. Let me tell you exactly what the situation is. 8 months ago I started working with a girl, after a long time we became more than friends and we have been going for 2 months. My mother does not agree to go with her because she allegedly made me unhappy, my success in school and I generally think that she affects me badly. But in reality she doesn't approve of her because my mother is a racist and my boyfriend is a little darker - I can say that she is just dark-skinned (I can say that she is not a gypsy because there is a big difference between gypsies and her and I'm convinced in that ). My mother was determined to make me stop going out with her by taking my phone first, forbidding me to go out with her, threats against me, that she was going to issue a restraining order (although she could do absolutely nothing), then told me that she would go talk to my boyfriend's parents (otherwise they would argue, it wouldn't be normal to talk). After a while we agreed to see her but also to fix my success. After 2 weeks or so I went out with my boyfriend, before that I told my mother that I would go out with her and she agreed and told me at 17 to go home I said well. We were both with her and I saw that it was time to leave, I went to the bus stop but when I saw on the board the bus was early (I know when it comes and I know what time to be at the bus stop) and I had to wait for the other - I did not call to my mother because she would get nervous. I caught my next bus but it was much later so I was home at 17:40.

She had just come home and started yelling at me, told me to leave my phone, give my passwords and SIM card. Then she told me to give my boyfriend's mother's number but I told her I didn't have it (actually I did) and then she started telling me how she was going to go to them (to my boyfriend and talk to her parents). I scared him and told him not to. She got nervous, opened her laptop, clicked something there, and finally picked up her phone and went to sleep. I picked up my phone and went to my room, I called to chat with my girlfriend and at one point my mother came into the room (I quickly hung up the phone) and started calling me why I took my phone. He told me to go to her with the phone. I went and he started asking me where they lived. I kept refusing to tell her and she started cursing me and comparing me to my uncle who is a terrible person. She tried to get me to tell her, but I kept refusing. Finally she told me that she knew where they lived but just tried to tell me if I would tell her (she told me where you lived but it wasn't exactly like that the floor hit it but not the country), I thought she didn't know and she just wanted to make me to think I know she knows where they lived ... and so we talked she got up to go to bed she called me, we asked again, I refused again and she finally hit me in the face (she had hit me again and the first way), went to my room and started throwing chairs, clothes and kicking ... I was in the room. As he left, he pushed me toward the door. I want your opinions because I am thinking of turning to child protection (knowing that my mother worked there ....) If you are wondering what I mean by all this - to keep my boyfriend, the relationship with my family. (I add for my father, the first quarrel he talked to my mother about not going anywhere and letting me go out with her, but she hadn't even told him exactly what was going on, what kind of conflict there was at home, and I had to explain everything to him. He helped me the first time I hope he helped me the second time. My father works abroad) Most of all, thank you for your attention and I want your opinions and advice, please help because he is harassing me and suffocating me.

Last Updated
August 01, 2020
Author:
crazy_play

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