My Mother Is Cheating On My Father

Hello! After reading many uploaded stories on the subject, I was even more confused and decided to ask for advice. I will start the story from afar. One day about 5 years ago when I was 10-11 my mother had forgotten her phone. I didn't touch it, I just got a message from a man and I saw it, it said, "I love you." Of course I was small and curious and I read all the messages with this man and so I realized that he was her lover. I don't know if they met, because the man is from Sofia and we live relatively far from Sofia. I didn't know what to do because I was little and I didn't want to be separated from my father. There were calls, Skype writing, even when we were on a family vacation (I know because one day at the pool her battery had dropped and she came in from my phone, and then she forgot to come out and I was getting out of the way when we were three). I was sick, but I was also small and over time I decided that I didn't care, I got older and I decided that they had the right to privacy and gradually I started pretending I didn't know. By the way, about a year after I found out, my mother started deleting messages with this person, maybe she felt that I knew. At the same time, shortly after I found out, my father went to work abroad and I said to myself, she must be lonely without him, so she wrote to him. I don't know what happened, they wrote to each other for a long time, she received messages and talked, but now the problem is different. After what I know I would not pay attention, but now she is cheating on him with another man (again I found out quite by accident from a message) and the problem is that this man lives close, knows his father and is a close friend of the best and a friend of the father my problem is that I'm afraid my father won't understand. I really didn't want to interfere because I didn't know how things were with the first one and I can't sue my mother if your father may have cheated on her and I just didn't know, but now it's different this man also has a family and a wife . Men are unpredictable, but if they get drunk and tell someone in a small town like ours, everyone will understand. From the messages I understood that he was lying to me to meet him, I didn't read much, I just wanted to make sure that I didn't misunderstand. I want to prevent a possible problem. Since I know the daughter of the man in question, I'm thinking of talking to her. Should I do it? Sorry for the spelling I write from the phone. Men are unpredictable, but if they get drunk and tell someone in a small town like ours, everyone will understand. From the messages I understood that he was lying to me to meet him, I didn't read much, I just wanted to make sure that I didn't misunderstand. I want to prevent a possible problem. Since I know the daughter of the man in question, I'm thinking of talking to her. Should I do it? Sorry for the spelling I write from the phone. Men are unpredictable, but if they get drunk and tell someone in a small town like ours, everyone will understand. From the messages I understood that he was lying to me to meet him, I didn't read much, I just wanted to make sure that I didn't misunderstand. I want to prevent a possible problem. Since I know the daughter of the man in question, I'm thinking of talking to her. Should I do it? Sorry for the spelling I write from the phone.