My husband and I have been a family for 3 years. We live separately from the mother-in-law. We haven't been breathing since our first meeting. Such intolerance just doesn't exist, people ... She's not a bad woman, you know. On the contrary. And I'm not a bad girl. When we see each other, we are both kind to each other, as long as she doesn't drink, because then she only talks nonsense and insults me. Otherwise he is a good and honest man. We behave well with each other, even though we are fake and this is obvious. At first glance, when I saw her (this was long before my relationship with her son) and we didn't like each other at all. I don't know if it has anything to do with our zodiac signs, because we are both scorpions, and as you know, this is not an easy zodiac sign. Over the years, I have tried to be honest with my feelings and love her, or at least remove that intolerance of her. It cost me a lot to suggest that I like her, that we like each other a lot. Until, in which I boiled it to dig into my computer. He knows where I keep my personal belongings and how I hate getting into my space. She didn't see me and she didn't know I understood. Since then, he's been kind of naughty because he saw he wasn't hiding anything. I swallowed this too and, atypically for me, kept silent. If he was a person with whom it makes sense to clarify, I would do it, but in this case, it would get much worse, and they would quarrel with my husband. I have accepted our incompatibility, but I wonder what could be the reason. Considering that intolerance dates back to our acquaintance, long before she became her daughter-in-law. I swallowed this too and, atypically for me, kept silent. If he was a person with whom it makes sense to clarify, I would do it, but in this case, it would get much worse, and they would quarrel with my husband. I have accepted our incompatibility, but I wonder what could be the reason. Considering that intolerance dates back to our acquaintance, long before she became her daughter-in-law. I swallowed this too and, atypically for me, kept silent. If he was a person with whom it made sense to clarify, I would do it, but in this case, it would get much worse, and they would quarrel with my husband. I have accepted our incompatibility, but I wonder what could be the reason. Considering that intolerance dates back to our acquaintance, long before she became her daughter-in-law.
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Personally, I support the theory of "jealousy" even more so if your husband was an only child. In short - she is used to being the woman in the foreground of his life, and yet she is his mother. You know how all mothers like to be very worried, to know best what is right for their children, and so on. In my opinion, she will not find a perfect woman for her son. She will always find flaws, and the fact that she dug into your computer proves that she is looking for them. I wouldn't be surprised if she talked nonsense about you before you even met her. Just mother stories. That's what I think .. * Syndrome