I am a 17 year old boy. I have never had good success and I have not worked hard to achieve it. It doesn't matter to me if I have good grades, as long as I push school. I have my dreams that I want to achieve, but they are not related to the things that are learned in school. The problem is that my mother doesn't understand that. Whenever I show her my notebook, which is full of threes, fours and a few pairs, she starts screaming and insulting. Today, when I showed her my notebook, she decided to throw it on the floor, insult me and say she didn't want to see me anymore. He told me he didn't care about me and wouldn't do anything for me anymore. She threatened to beg me and not blink. It doesn't stress me at all, but it's getting annoying. Is it so hard to understand that I have no interest in doing something that does not attract me.
1 andy_sf answered
Look now your mother, like everyone else wants you to have good grades and mine sometimes is. Since you are already 17, she is going to make her dreams come true when you graduate. And as for the grades, they are more worried that their child is ashamed of them and they blush afterwards. And that's right, it's not very nice to go to a parent-teacher meeting and hop some grades! As far as being angry is probably sensitive to these topics, try not to make her angry? We know that almost all mothers do not understand us, but we must come to terms with this and try to fix the relationship between us by finding out where the problem is!