Hello! I am a 20-year-old girl, my boyfriend is 22 years old and we have been together for a year and a half. At the beginning (the first 5-6) months, my mother got along well with him and me. Then he started making trouble about not studying at university, that he had diabetes, that he only used me for one sex, and I was stupid and attached to everything, that I paid for everything (which is not the case at all, but she is not there and does not see him) and what not. She started asking about him, making people tell her what we do, where we go out, with whom, etc. (we are in a small town and everything is known). He started to set my aunt against me, as well as my father, but it didn't work out. We drive constantly and we have months when we don't talk, we don't eat together, and she just repeats to me that because of this relationship she has no daughter anymore. As for my father, he didn't tell me for sure if he liked it or not, but he told me that at that age he had no right to tell me what to do, and that I, like everyone else, would learn when I made a mistake. He doesn't mess with my relationship and behaves normally with my boyfriend. This whole situation is very stressful for you.
I don't want to quarrel with her, but I also don't want to part with him so that there are no quarrels. I think I am still young and this will not be my first and last relationship and I will have a lot more until I find the right person to start a family with. I only know that I feel good with him at the moment, but everything else on my mother's side comes in handy. There are many such cases, shared and unshared on the Internet. Can you tell me how to deal with this? I do not want to continue to hear insults to both me and him. I'm very sick, that his parents like me and my mother doesn't like him. That's why he doesn't come home, he avoids my mother on the streets, because most likely she will scandalize him or insult him with something. Please give me an opinion, guidelines on how to deal with / is there a way to stop this.
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Your mother is jealous of him. - scorpion