I am a 17-year-old girl who constantly has problems with her mother and I can no longer stand it. To begin with, I live only with my mother and grandfather, I do not have a father, because they divorced when I was 4 years old and do not maintain any contact. 3 days ago I had a birthday and I asked my mother to give me 40-50 euros to go to a restaurant with friends, but she told me that I would not go anywhere and would not give extra money. I didn't get a cake for my birthday, nor did he congratulate me on it, but on top of that he was out all day, he came home for a while and I heard her talking to a man on the phone because she was talking and arranging a meeting and said "I will I'm waiting, baby "and she put on her make-up and went out and didn't come home until the next morning.
And this is not the first time. Yesterday I took a T-shirt from the mall because I had collected the money, which he gives me for school (he gives me BGN 2 a day) and he shouted at me that I had taken such an expensive T-shirt, and the T-shirt was one of the cheapest possible in the mall and cost euros 7. And he called me to return it and some scandals and finally told me that I would see no more money, no clothes, nothing. I've been without a phone for 2 weeks because it broke down completely and I can't even turn it on, I went to several repair shops, but they said it couldn't be fixed and she hadn't taken my phone yet and said she wasn't interested. And I don't even have a place to call. I'm just tired of everything - to be deprived and the others are not. And don't say we don't have the opportunity - we do.
My mother only goes with branded clothes, jewelry, buys from boutiques, eats expensive food, and for me, it's second-hand clothes, some old food and that's it. And on top of that, she insults me in front of my friends, that I'm a freak and that she's sorry she gave birth to me. In front of the boy I like, and I went out once, and she called me in front of him with words like slut, idiot, and drug addict. What should I do now? I can not stand.
1 dayanna_sweet_ answered
Talk to the school psychologist or ask for the child's protection or call 116 111 from your grandfather's phone. On the telephone number 116 111 children can seek help or advice 24 hours a day from professionals - psychologists, social workers, educators.