To 1. As far as the author reads what she writes, the mother does not say what she does not like in the boy, does not speak openly, but only behaves badly and manipulates. So I don't see exactly what the author has to agree with her mother. If she is old enough to have boyfriends, then she is so old that her mother can share what she thinks, not try to manipulate and be silent in order to become hers !!! There are no children here, no children, children are people too! And talk to them! To the author, IF your mother doesn't really tell you what she thinks, but only shows how she doesn't like being with this boy, And by reading exactly what you write. IF the first condition is true, I say: Your mother is a manipulative bitch! Which means don't get attached to her numbers, don't feel bad when she's looking for a way to blame you, and then hold you accountable for controlling you. If you feel something like that, just ignore it. Don't do nonsense to regret, but be stubborn and show and build your character. I tell you this from personal experience, something I realized years later, when my mother did not have the strength to deal with people her age, she tried to recover what she had lost by manipulating me, so I lost faith and confidence in my own abilities, because my mother used to say the opposite of EVERYTHING I do so that she can build her character from a small child. Don't listen to her, believe in yourself, don't do extreme nonsense, show her that you can work with sincerity, but NOT with manipulations. If she manipulates you, show her that you don't care what she says until she opens up to speak sincerely. The suffering prince but be stubborn and show and build your character. I'm telling you this from personal experience, something I realized years later, when my mother didn't have the strength to deal with people her age, she was trying to make up for lost time by manipulating me, so I lost faith and confidence in my own abilities because my mother used to say the opposite of EVERYTHING I do so that she can build her character from a small child. Don't listen to her, believe in yourself, don't do extreme nonsense, show her that you can work with sincerity, but NOT with manipulations. If she manipulates you, show her that you don't care what she says until she opens up to speak sincerely. The suffering prince but be stubborn and show and build your character. I tell you this from personal experience, something I realized years later, when my mother did not have the strength to deal with people her age, she tried to recover what she had lost by manipulating me, so I lost faith and confidence in my own abilities, because my mother used to say the opposite of EVERYTHING I do so that she can build her character from a small child. Don't listen to her, believe in yourself, don't do extreme nonsense, show her that you can work with sincerity, but NOT with manipulations. If she manipulates you, show her that you don't care what she says until she opens up to speak sincerely. The suffering prince he was trying to recover what he had lost by manipulating me, so I lost faith and confidence in my own abilities, because my mother told me the opposite of EVERYTHING I did so that she could build her character from a small child. Don't listen to her, believe in yourself, don't do extreme nonsense, show her that you can work with sincerity, but NOT with manipulations. If she manipulates you, show her that you don't care what she says until she opens up to speak sincerely. The suffering prince he was trying to make up for lost time by manipulating me, so I lost faith and confidence in my own abilities, because my mother said the opposite of EVERYTHING I do so that she can build her character from a small child. Don't listen to her, believe in yourself, don't do extreme nonsense, show her that you can work with sincerity, but NOT with manipulations. If she manipulates you, show her that you don't care what she says until she opens up to speak sincerely. The suffering prince
1 SydneyH0t4u answered
Write first how old you are, because this is the most important thing! When you become independent, then you can impose your opinion. As long as your mother feeds and clothes you, you must comply with her. You will really understand her only when you become a mother!