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My Life Is Hell!

By the_snowwhite July 04, 2020 6 answers Last updated July 04, 2020

Hello. I am writing here because I no longer find comfort anywhere. It's about my father. I know it's a common story, but he doesn't care about anyone or anything. My mother works from morning till late at night as a bartender, he works as a taxi driver, but almost everything he earns "disappears".

 

Once again he proved that he didn't care when I called him and asked him what we were going to have for dinner (because my mother was at work, otherwise I would have asked her) and he replied "Don't bother me with such things" and hung up. Today is a holiday, but he hasn't been with us all day. And I'm sure he'll probably go home after I sleep with my sister. There is a small piece of cheese and ketchup in the fridge at the moment, and my sister and grandmother and I have to eat it. Mom does not eat after work.

 

And when he gets home, he'll probably start a scandal about why he has nothing to eat and slam the door. Tell me, is it normal for a father to know that his children are sitting hungry and doing nothing? I live in fear every day. I'm afraid to go back to us because I don't know what mood he will be in. It hurts me to watch my mom ruin her health so we have something to eat. I think she's afraid to divorce him because she can take our apartment and leave us on the street. We have no other housing or money. We have relatives, but we cannot live with them. We are in debt with loans because of its shoots. On top of that, I'm ashamed to share these things with even my closest friends. They all have good incomes, loving parents, a good life. I have shared many of the problems, but I have also saved a lot, because I am ashamed, and this is killing me! What can I do, I'm happy to live like this.

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karen_n_carlos_xxx answered · July 04, 2020
Advise your mother to divorce and the apartment will remain for you because the court will consider that you will live with your mother and need it. He most likely has a mosquito or alcohol problem as 70% of taxi drivers. I also drive a taxi in one of the big cities and work 12 hours a day and I don't complain because it's important to have a plan to follow and grow in business. Taxi is a way of life, I don't play mosquito and I rarely drink M37
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sex_hard_69 answered · July 04, 2020
How old are you with your sister?
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fetishboyfun answered · July 04, 2020
I don't know if your father's behavior is subject to change, but no matter how severe it is, you have a duty to yourself, to your mother and sister, to be strong and not weak. This life you have is harsh and nasty, there's nothing to lie about. But it is he who will strengthen your character, make you grow earlier, think more soberly and cope more easily with the trials of life. A blessing in disguise. This moment in your life is transient, but if you use it properly - you will achieve a lot. You owe it to your mother, your sister and yourself. Only forward and NEVER backward! PS People like you are very valuable to society because life teaches them never to bow their heads!
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xxoatmilkxx answered · July 04, 2020
There is always worse. Orphans in homes. In your case, if you are not ashamed, you can start work at 4 o'clock or hand out leaflets. You can get one of your friends to work with you. Maybe as a promoter in stores. There will be enough to eat. For under 18 is this. Jobs.bg has jobs for everyone. True, it sucks, but there is. In Kaufland they are constantly looking for you to deliver newspapers at the entrances .. but the money is ridiculous but there will still be something to eat.
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goddessdianats answered · July 04, 2020
When two people with children separate, the apartment remains with the parent with whom the children will live. Number 1 told you that too. So this is no excuse. Talk to your mother and tell her that you don't see anything good from this man. No attitude, no worries ... Only negativism. Just get it out of your life.
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brandeebankz answered · July 04, 2020
You don't write your age, but you'll probably have to endure all this hell for a few more years. Until then, no matter how much it seems to you that nothing depends on you, you can always do something to improve your situation. Start a job in the summer, try to save some money secretly from everyone, also emphasize your education, if you do not receive a student scholarship, do everything possible to start receiving it. Getting out of this nightmare will happen after you turn 18 or finish high school. Your father will not change, there is a vice - alcohol, gambling or drugs, no matter which of them the result is the same. Don't rely on him for anything, but be very careful when you grow up not to choose a man like him, because a lot of girls choose men like their fathers, no matter how much they have suffered from them.
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