Hello! I am writing here for the first time, I sincerely hope you will help me. THANK YOU IF YOU READ THE WHOLE STORY Overall I am a completely normal 13 year old girl. But for one year my life has gone a hell of a lot. I will try to be very clear. A year ago I was included in a fan group. There was a boy there that I liked very much. I wrote a personal message but he took me as a fan because to some extent he was "famous". I fell in love with him a lot, my friends advised me to admit it. I did it but he said it couldn't happen because you had a girlfriend and I was too young for him. I followed his life constantly, watched his stories on social networks, etc. Anyway, it was a simple thrill for 1-2 months. But now comes the big problem, I fell in love with his best friend. And by falling in love I mean constantly thinking about him, what does he do, how is he, who is he with? I told my friends about him, everyone considered him very handsome and I could not deny it. Even one of my friends liked him, it didn't confuse me because we both talked about him constantly and that made me hellishly happy :) Over time, my friend stopped being interested in him. But I didn't attach myself to him more and more. I decided to confess to him. He reacted well and didn't cut me off like his friends.
He knew me probably because he said I liked his friends. I was very embarrassed, I thought "well, now they will discuss me and laugh at me :( he wanted to make a group with him where to write there and then a few of my friends. As well as the girl who liked him (my best girlfriend). It was she after this group stopped liking him because he behaves a little arrogant sense has great self-confidence. But he was very nice to us if he was some other boy who wanted to "fuck us". We wrote to each other many times in a personal message, he told me that I was sweet, kind, tiny and such kind words. Just to say a little late but ... Both boys are 17-18 and are 15 km away from the neighboring town. One day the second boy came to my town with a few friends and offered to see me. I was very happy but I didn't have the courage. But in the end, we saw each other, although for 5-10 minutes it was the best in my life, he hugged me and sat down next to me, we talked as if we knew each other from childhood.
After this meeting, everything ended. I had to write to him or he wouldn't reach me. And I needed him. I understood everyone about him where he lives, where he works, with whom he went out, where he studied, some information he had told himself. One day he had accidentally offered me to go with friends for coffee at the place where he works. I wanted to take advantage of this, no one wanted to see him as if everyone hated him or was ashamed of him. So during this time I did not stop loving him for a moment, this is what ruined my life, I started to roar constantly. I felt terrible, unloved not only by him but by my family and friends. Then they took the problems in the family (our people didn't know that I liked this boy, I was afraid to admit it to them because he was a Turk and I didn't know how they would react). We had other family problems, I lost and close relatives (died) I had bad grades at school and ours fought normally. But at times I just want peace, I want the boy I like not to be in my life. I've tried millions of times to forget it, but it doesn't work. I emphasized my love life more because it bothers me the most! PS Please no hate, I need help and advice.
1 jojo_asia answered
Well girl see now. I'm sorry for the relatives who died, I think that from everything you listed this is the worst thing and the only thing that can't be fixed, but it is clear that the boy is a much more important problem for you (at least that's how it sounds to me). At least from what you've written, it seems to me to be one of those times where girls like a popular guy that everyone thinks is very cool. In general, you are one of the many girls who like him. This explains his ego, and the fact that he was nice to you in general may be due to the fact that you like him and are ready to forgive him everything that is not right, but later you will understand it yourself . The first one rightly said that you were too small for him. The man is already working, and you have not yet completed your primary education ... You probably still like him when he wants to see you, but believe me, popular junk like him (I don't know what he is, he may be decent, but most are junk even though a lot of people like them) they tell one person that he is terribly important, so they tell 50 other people, so being nice to him is not something very special. My thought is to get it out of your head as fast as possible because it only hurts you. I'm sure if you really want to you can, you just probably haven't really tried. Block it from everywhere and start doing something that interests you, go out with friends and if you want to fix your grades start learning. This is what I can tell you, everything else depends on you and your will. I wish you success. but most of it is rubbish, although many people like it) as they tell one person that it is terribly important, so they tell another 50 people, so being nice to him is not something very special. My thought is to get it out of your head as fast as possible because it only hurts you. I'm sure if you really want to you can, you just probably haven't really tried. Block it from everywhere and start doing something that interests you, go out with friends and if you want to fix your grades start learning. This is what I can tell you, everything else depends on you and your will. I wish you success. but most of them are rubbish, although many people like them) just as they tell one person that he is terribly important, so they tell 50 other people, so being nice to him is not something very special. My thought is to get it out of your head as fast as possible because it only hurts you. I'm sure if you really want to you can, you just probably haven't really tried. Block it from everywhere and start doing something that interests you, go out with friends and if you want to fix your grades start learning. This is what I can tell you, everything else depends on you and your will. I wish you success. to get it out of your head as fast as possible because it only hurts you. I'm sure if you really want to you can, you just probably haven't really tried. Block it from everywhere and start doing something that interests you, go out with friends and if you want to fix your grades start learning. This is what I can tell you, everything else depends on you and your will. I wish you success. to get it out of your head as fast as possible because it only hurts you. I'm sure if you really want to you can, you just probably haven't really tried. Block it from everywhere and start doing something that interests you, go out with friends and if you want to fix your grades start learning. This is what I can tell you, everything else depends on you and your will. I wish you success.