G. at the age of 21. Two years ago I finished my secondary education and had to go abroad, where my family is. There I studied language in order to settle down (me to study and my friend to work). He was in Bulgaria and I was there for a year. We got together after this incredibly long and difficult year, we were very happy with this fact, but alas ... he could not find a job, and the way of life, the different mentality, etc. made me think more and more about the homeland. . I worked, he studied. Mn. I wanted to go back, but when my parents found out, they got mad. There were insults, threats against me and him. Now we are here, I start my studies, we furnish our home (fairy tale). And mom and dad no longer want to hear and see me ... I love my family very much, but maybe I met my prince too early.
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You serious? Are your parents angry that you have returned to your country and are living a normal life? Forget them - something hit their board. Try to get better, start learning something too - maybe in absentia and let them develop abroad. This is also a kind of restriction. It is not right at all for your parents to interfere in your life like this. One must always have a CHOICE. You are already 21 years old and your parents cannot take it from you. Look after your interests and life. If they thought well of you, they would support your decision and even if you make a mistake, they would be close to you. Your parents are either ku-ku, or they are angry about some benefits or some income you would take if you lived with them. Terribly mercantile people - apparently they had already planned like a golden hen and something did not live up to their expectations.
Don't be impressed by them at all. You will now try to appease them, convince them of your rights, and I don't know what else to do to reconcile, they will be angry and they will pass, but they will never apologize for their behavior when time passes and they see, that you were wrong and you are happier than your own choice. I tell you this from personal experience - when I was 19 I decided to marry my friend, with whom we were together before ok. 6 years, they were styles, they were dramas. I got married, now they are just looking for my husband for various services and they pretend that nothing happened, and I am still bitter. So - ignore them once you are convinced of what you want. In no case do not do what they impose on you, because if you regret, they will tell you - no one has driven you by force! In time they will get used to it and start calling you - send it to me, what are you from BG, etc.,
In order to mend your relationship with someone, you need to have a clear idea of why they are angry with you. It is not clear from your thesis why your parents are angry? Because you are in BG, or because you are with this boy? Only the reversal of your intentions is visible. You had a goal (me to follow and my friend to work), the opposite happened "I worked, he studied." It is also not clear now that you are here which of you works to support you and pay for your new furniture. Maybe the parents are angry about this, but until you explain, you can't get the right advice.
See. when time passes and your parents see how happy you are, they will accept your decision. They are your parents - they will always love you. Unfortunately, sometimes they do not allow that the interests and happiness of their children do not coincide with their plans and so without realizing it they go too far with the comments. Don't worry - they will be on your side. This connection cannot disappear like that. You look at the person next to you, your happiness and smile :). And do not forget that NO ONE has the right to decide what, how and who will bring you happiness. Only your heart knows that. :) Good luck!
Don't blame yourself, they will change in time ... And you live your life and move on! Pursue your goals, study, I believe that they would be happy and proud of your success.
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