My Husband Wants Anal Sex!

   Well, there is nothing wrong with anal sex. It is important to you how you feel and whether it will give you pleasure. Still, it is very important if you want to do it.

   Hello darling and I experienced this for the first time 3 months ago and it hurts so much that I felt a real disgust with my husband. Now I would repeat it again because of him I would grit my teeth because if I don't give it to him he will look for someone else. Grit your teeth and so on. Then put it through his nose and tell him it's a big sacrifice for you. If he insists, tell him that you want to give him something to see how he reacts. Such are these selfish men. Ah, my anal sex was normal, but it doesn't hurt so much that it's not true. Good luck and write what happened

   You don't have to give it to him. After all, the anus is not for sex, but for some other things. This creates big problems for the future as well. The anus is narrow and is very likely to rupture and even start to leak over time. I say After Time! This is unpleasant and dirty sex, dotted with many diseases and worries. Your husband won't leave you for that, and if he's okay, he wouldn't go to a whore for anal sex. Have dignity and do only what you enjoy doing.

   Let him try, otherwise he won't leave you alone. Use moisturizers and there should be no pain. Good luck.

   To number 2. He is not annoyingly insistent, I easily repel his strange aspirations, but it's been a long time. I'm worried he won't find the good one elsewhere, you can't see how beautiful he is and how the filthy people spin like sunflowers, even when we're together. I often remember the words of a friend who I thought was just jealous of me, "What's this cool about, letting others fuck you, can't it be just yours."

   Don't let Him at all if you don't want to. And you have to be crazy to be afraid that he would go to another. To go where he wants, if he is not ashamed, you are not his slave. You will never allow these animals (men), at least they think of themselves as men, but they have nothing in common. Anyway, that's another topic. So my thought is don't let him manipulate you with anything. This with anal sex is the biggest humiliation for a woman. And for your husband, the best work he's ever done. I don't know what's great about him after he insists on it. But still you know.

   The attraction to anal sex is an example of the fact that the love between you is already gone and has transformed into a purely carnal instinct for intercourse. Do not succumb to animal passions, especially when your partner's spirit is suffering. Whether he will seek unnatural carnal pleasure from the outside is inevitable and does not concern you personally. Doesn't it seem to you that once he has hinted to you about this, he already treats you as an object, and not as a spiritual person to comply with. Are you afraid of losing it? You have already lost it. It does not belong to you in the true sense of the word. He has replaced the sanctity of your feelings with something extremely selfish, which is by no means alien to masculine nature. If your question is how to overcome his extreme selfishness, which in psychotherapy is qualified as a perverted deviation, I must tell you, that there is only one way: get into a role. Play, pretend, cheat on him, if necessary, refuse to save a dead and ignorant relationship on his part. Try flirting with more men. I say flirt, not sleep. Forget his persona and don't bother him. In any case, once he encounters such a deviation, he no longer treats you as an equal partner, but as an object of self-satisfaction. Forgive me, but you are not an erotic silicone doll, you are not a vibrator, and you are not particularly a sexual entertainer of his exhibitionist instinct. You are a person full of emotions that must be answered adequately, responsibly. Find out ANSWER! Do not hurry. Just leave the feelings and join the GAME mode. Here I mean to manipulate your partner, not to please his sexual habits. Be first and foremost a Woman, not a slave to his fantasies. Allow yourself loyal selfishness and demand no more. Things will adjust on their own. Otherwise, predisposing him to anal sex will damage his worldview, mentality and personal awareness in the future. Then you will be rebuked again for the moral compromise you make. Then he will probably replace you again, but with a trustworthy type of woman. It is your calling to turn the wheel in your favor. The reason is in you. You don't keep it short in a moral sense and you don't know how to manage his emotions. Be honest with yourself. The reason is only in you. As the above forums say, he will not go to the whores, because of the anal experience, he will go to them to flatter his male pride, or if he is a masochist to be hurt. It also creates an experience, albeit in a rather perverse way. Be alert. Leave your feelings and manage it like a withered pumpkin bush. Don't take it seriously and most of all don't expect anything. Take a break from your expectations of him. And then you decide. Such men are cultivated only with manipulative techniques and personal mastery. Don't be stupid. Take action. Success! :))) Such men are cultivated only with manipulative techniques and personal mastery. Don't be stupid. Take action. Success! :))) Such men are cultivated only with manipulative techniques and personal mastery. Don't be stupid. Take action. Success! :)))

   AUU number 7 sounds like this woman from 1894 just compare !!!

   My opinion is that there is nothing bad or ugly in anal sex, as if to say that a blowjob is a bad thing, but many do it even if they pretend to be virgins. The point, however, is to ask on both sides, not out of obligation or fear, if one man decides he wants to fuck another, he will do so if you want to be a sex goddess, so you shouldn't is fear. And I do not agree that if a man has asked for anal sex, it means that he has no feelings or takes it for granted, this is complete nonsense, for me it is a kind of diversity, something new and interesting. My advice is to decide if you want to try, but share your worries with him, and if he is a man on the spot, he will be careful and predispose you. I used to pull too, but now I definitely don't think it sucks. In the beginning it always hurts, but the pain passes as long as he is careful and resourceful.

   Fucking in the ass is a perversion. If the woman there is an erogenous zone is permissible. Very rarely does a woman like to be put in the back. I would still come across such a woman. With these porn movies, every boy thinks fucking is like shit. First in the front, then in the back and finally in the mouth. Do what you want. Your ass is yours. I will not be in pain and I will be pissed off in time.

   Hmm ... I think most of you are not in class at all, but that's another topic :) It's not about anal sex, it's about being a family and you can't talk about sexual topics. You don't seem to have evolved much, though. If your husband wants to fuck another, he will do it anyway, no matter what you give him in bed. But that's not exactly the problem. The problem is that you write in some stupid forums and expect advice from their stupid readers (I apologize in advance to those who are not :), instead of talking to your husband about the issue that worries you. Don't you feel that since you don't accept him as an equal person with whom you can share, he, in turn, will not accept you as an equal, but will treat you as a sexual object ... for example? Talk to each other, people, have sex so you both like it, live your life, what do you do with nonsense? PP May I had to visit the topic of insomnia ...

   You are very critical number 12 a lot!

   Number 12, I read your deep thoughts a few times and I didn't understand you because you're obviously a sectarian. Anal sex didn't matter. It was important that the other be equal. So while your wife is in the kitchen, you fuck her in the ass without asking her, and only then will you ask her the deeply meaningful question: Do you respect me? You contradict yourself a lot. Abe hey, the woman either gives or does not give in the ass.

   You have no idea how right number 12 is !!!!!! Your distorted minds consider sex a hoax or a perversion. Girl! Not only talk to your husband and express your worries, but take a try, but correctly. Use an anal shower a few hours before the act, go through all the phases during the act itself to reach maximum arousal. For the anal intercourse, use a HUGE amount of gel and warn him at the beginning that the first time is only 2-3 centimeters of penetration to relax the muscle. Then things will fall into place. Anal sex without strong arousal is painful and really ugly. And he does things for himself, not just for him. I wish everyone else a pleasant 3 minute sex in the dark with a nightgown on the bush! You are just pathetic and good that you do not know what you are losing.

   You women are very stupid - a man wants anal sex not because on a subconscious level he wants to turn a woman into a slave, nor because he is an animal / animals do not fuck in the ass !!! /, but because it gives him great pleasure. The problem is that most of us don't know how to predispose a woman to this. There are two golden conditions for good anal sex - the partners to have full trust and the woman to be as aroused as possible. No creams will help if it is squeezed like a chicken's ass. And mine didn't give me because it hurt, but now only the Anal one puts it on his back, and all sex is pleasing from the highest class, not the domination of the man over the woman, so stop the feminized cracks. If you don't fuck with us, become lesbians

   I like it, but after the birth I have hemorrhoids and they bother me a lot.

   it sucks

   It's stupid to make someone do things they don't like, let alone those that hurt. and my ex-boyfriend wanted a lot of anal sex .. it was his dream. He drove me many times and in the end I agreed, but it hurt so much that I literally fainted from pain and since then he stopped wanting :) after we broke up he told me that his dream came true, but it was just stubborn and not his has delivered such pleasure as he expected

   I am a man and I prefer anal sex, but since my partner doesn't want me, I can't make her do only what she wants and carefully

   Disgusting, I've done it several times for my partners. But looking at the current one, I will never give it to him, I think.

   ave I laughed with - THE STUPID excuses of many women on this subject, who know very well that what they are rejoicing in has nothing to do with the truth - but they have repeated it so much that they now believe it as naive as it sounds - and now are aware that everyone understands that it is not as they say - but women in general / there are exceptions / have a terribly stupid pride and can not admit

   If you are married, it is better! You need to be calmer! If he is careful you will like it and you will do it regularly - be sure!

   You men, why don't you look at your asses first and then speak so stupidly and incompetently .... And first learn to write and speak and then give advice to us "stupid" women. Because if it's not the women next to you, you can't wipe your own ass ..................... To all human beings-women, no one can make you or oblige to do something you do not want, if you predispose yourself and want it then everything will be fine. Good luck to all........

   hahahaha I read nonsense. Well, there were a few decent opinions :) anal sex is as normal as oral sex, we do not live in the 15th century, but sex is done for mutual pleasure. And if you're so worried about your husband ... that's not the way to keep him. He may ask you a lot more tomorrow. The male imagination is quite developed and when he achieves something, he seeks something else, something new;)

   There are many lesbians and male haters on the Internet who go around the forums as preachers. Even in one site "lesbian.bg" anal sex was described as an emanation of male impudence and atrocity. Horror for every poor, humiliated, crushed and murdered woman and grunting pig shit pride for every angry man. For all women who think so - just have not grown up and have no idea of ​​this pleasure. If you didn't enjoy anal sex, would there be passive fagots? This area is full of nerve endings, which applies to all people! But since the man has a member, it is more logical and normal for him to use it, and not the other way around. I have heard of dozens of cases in which a woman wants anal sex more than a man (!) And in which she cums 2-3 times faster with him. Of course, we are talking about long-term partners with experience in this type of sex = and for women who have long tried and mastered this type of pleasure. If you are 12 or 16 or 30, but you still have a cane in your ass, to like it you must first remove it from there. I don't know who said that. Good luck :).

   Male, reading the comments, I wonder how there can be so many congested people! Now children have anal sex too! Sorry, but you were born 100 years ago, when there was not so much information about blowjobs and anal sex! That he is a man, if he does not hurt a woman anal, he is not a real man. Your pussies are very wide, and even if you catch fungus and warts, you can do nothing but be fucked in the ass until it expands.

   With a little cream and a relaxed ass, and after a long exercise with a finger until it is completely relaxed, anal sex in most cases is quite pleasant for you women. Based on personal experience, I judge that most women do not like it because they have given their ass to someone who does not know what to do with it. You can't nail it all the first time and expect the girl not to let her eyes fly out .. Women, choose who you give your sweet asses to so that you don't give up this pleasure all your life :)

   Abe fucking in the ass is a big deal. Don't listen to those women who didn't give a damn. To fuck. Every man could find a woman who gives in the ass. And then the upper moralists should not chirp and complain that they have left them. To go to graze grass.

   Do it will be great for both of you. Just be careful, the parietal pat always hurts, but if you approach it slowly and with real care and tenderness it will be easy. Then 2-3 times it can hurt but then you will go crazy with fun :) SUCCESS ..........

   I have a new boyfriend. We had sex for the first time 3 days ago. We went through the bathroom first, she stayed there longer, maybe to wash her ass well. We made great love. Initially oral, then normal sex. When she was as aroused as possible, she herself made me shove it behind her. It was difficult at first. So I prepared it with two fingers and a little spit. Until now, I have not had a woman who wants anal sex. The chick howled with pleasure. I admire the sex we had, thanks to her initiative. So women, you lose if you don't do it from behind.

   If you can't give this pleasure to your husband, you deserve to spend the rest of your life alone. Hey, because of people like you, there is AIDS, prostitution, lost lives, broken families, single parents, etc. Understand, every prostitute, men's mistress, etc. will tell you that. You have to love sex with your husband, all kinds of being able to satisfy him at least until he turns 60, then you have to be able to cook.

   Well, when you say anal sex is good, but it has been scientifically proven that over time this muscle relaxes and no one will be happy to sneeze.

   I've read a lot of nonsense so far. If there is pain - it is very clear that it should not be practiced, but if it is by mutual consent why not. And everything depends on the person, some like it, others don't. It has both men and women for whom oral sex is a perversion, but I have had girlfriends who liked it the most in the ass. Not to mention that the ancient Greeks practiced it a lot with women and men, and animals also have it, I personally know about dogs (which I witnessed) and monkeys :-))) So if there is no pain and it is by mutual consent - GIVE.

   What about fagots who have nowhere else to fuck them but in the ass? And not only do they not complain, but they also die of pleasure when someone breaks their ring.

   If the only thing you experience from anal sex is the only and only disgust - then your loved one would hardly want to subject you to such a thing. If you get aroused at least a little by the thought of him coming in from behind, you can give him a try, but very carefully and gently. You need to relax as much as possible, because when the anus is tight - it hurts. Show him you want to please him. He will give up on his own if he sees that he is causing you too much pain or any other type of suffering.

   Abe, I think that women are bigger animals than men, because you are guided by instincts and emotions like animals, and not by logic like men. Come on, deny that.

   Up to 24 hello sexist men we are also human beings and we are not below you do you understand?

   my relationship is very good and i don't enjoy doing that. and we still feel great. this is nonsense.

   I have the same problem, I don't like anal sex..I tried ..it's not for me..unornately not him but I found..a man for normal ... it's great ..

   Why don't men start putting things in the back and then talking about women?

   I have a way, calm down. 1. You make an enema 2. you lubricate 3. you push something thinner, then thicker and when the anus relaxes your husband comes and inserts it 4. when you end up in your ass you make bubbles and he will have a lot of fun Aide Good luck !!

   Wow ... It's comments, it's a miracle. From my humble experience: we had the greatest pleasure with my friends who liked this type of entertainment. And I'm very happy that it's one of my wife's favorite things.

   Quite stupid and uneducated people write on the Internet. You can use it to learn this and that. Anal sex is a pleasure for both partners. I really like him. I am a woman. If there is pain then it is not done properly and the posture is not appropriate. Regarding hygiene - you do not need a special enema, you can use a finger or a bottle mixed with water and a little shower gel. You start with your fingers while you relax. And it should not be inserted and removed abruptly ... Good luck!

   We have been married for 12 years and my husband and I do it from time to time. I wouldn't say I'm thrilled, but it's not that bad. The obligatory rule is to do it only when I want. He agrees and does not insist. It sucks the first time and especially when men do not know how to do it.

   And I experienced this for the first time 1 month ago and it hurts me but I'm afraid he won't find someone else for it and I'll grit my teeth ... These are such selfish men. Mine says that anal sex was normal but it hurts.

   Part of the pleasure is knowing she's in pain and hearing her moan. The trick is to control the threshold of this pain so that it can relax and be pleasant, even though it hurts :) You don't have to grit your teeth. On the contrary. You have to relax and then the penetration will be quite easy. At first you can relax your anus with an anal toy and then penetration will be much easier :) Anal sex is something very pleasant. Trust me. Learn to do it for yourself. Not just because of him. Play with the vibrator to see how good it will be for you :)

   And I thought that it's not that men like it so much, they just like to know that a woman hurts her .... Neither I (I already have 3 anal sex behind her back) nor my girlfriends like it, we just use it as a "reward" for our friends

   An article talked about how, in the case of a lot of porn, at times when a woman was in pain, her face was shown up close. A kind of pleasure in hurting her. I understand your attitude, but I still do not cease to marvel at the frankness of some. It's better than blurring things up again.

   On the contrary. I like anal sex much more than vaginal sex. I also like the 2 options - to give my sexual partner great pleasure in this way or to "rape" her causing pain :) Both options are quite arousing, and I like anal penetration much more as a feeling :) I don't mind my partner not liking her and rewarding me in this way, but I would prefer to give her pleasure. I think your ass should get used to being "forced" in this way to start liking it and learning to relax :) However, a lot depends on the partner.

   It's easy to say he gets used to it ... it hurts a lot so far .. №49