If he's not taking anything, start looking discreetly at men with the likes of his BEFORE body. I hope that's what's going on.
He suffers from a serious lack of motivation. Something's not happy and he's stopped, you may not see it with the naked eye, but deep down there it is. If he finds himself without a wife/boyfriend/girlfriend to see how fast he'il pull himself together. Unfortunately, they're so relaxed en masse after they've moved in. It's nice to show him that you have self-esteem and you won't let you live with a fat pig. No one deserves it. One to maintain and the other to shake its visceral fat. Well, it's very obnoxious, and it's not about whether you love/value the person. He's self-esteem, and he doesn't respect you if he allows himself to relax. Talk to him openly. Those with an apology are not felt by such hints as a fitness card or swimming. Wow, what a shame I'd be if my girlfriend or my wife gave me a gym card. You have to have not even two grams of brains to know where you're driving it. What a shame I'm going to be... If I respect her at all, I'd ask myself to let her go to bed. Hmm..
Massive problem
He has to stop drinking first. Beer and others are the most caloric, bloated, human puffy and are bulky calories.
Second- over the years, metabolism slows down. Do not eat after 7 pm.
Reduce the salt and greasy in cooking.
Take a lot of walks. You can get a dog and so there will be reasons to go out at least once a day.
Fitness and swimming are not for everyone. I. I can't stand rooms with sweaty weak people around me and I don't think it's too much to have air
As for the poor-quality sex, it comes from the accumulated kilos and your husband has no self-esteem and no energy
He needs motivation. Buy tickets for next summer for a cool resort abroad and remind him that you need to be in shape
Do what you have to do together. Balanced diet with adapted physical exertion. Nothing complicated. A personal example is the strongest argument by interfering with another person's personal choice.
It's still on the expiration date, making a claim and returning it to his mother! If he doesn't want to get into the norms he's been in, then he doesn't want to comply with your wishes anymore, what do you need a man like that for?
I've decided to write in the coming days... my reflections on what is happening in the world between people (relationships, friendly or "love") and I have come to the conclusion that everything is materialism, as here, this theme of yours proves my thesis. Human love is material. It is built on material things. Many couples think that there is love between them, and in fact there are satisfied material needs and whims, and so the man thinks he has found the woman for himself, and the woman thinks she has found the man for herself. To some extent, it's true. You have found the person to satisfy you materialism, and who supports and approves of your material way of life, for he lives his own way. Not love, just common tastes and interests. It's true human love. But not true love...
Think about it, aren't you?
And author... every married man, no matter how good it may seem... weight! Get used to it. I've seen it many times.
Well, it's not that everyone's gaining weight. The suckers, mostly the Balkan meatballs, are gaining weight! I live in the West, yes. eh this West, when are we going to catch up with him? ... and you know what? Better come and see how people of any age are supported, sports, clothes, cosmetics, dating and 65-75 years old. You can't give it to them. And here we pass 50, and another 40, and we're already closing home, we're snorting, we're grizzling, we're rotting, we're stopping to learn, we're going to social events. Oh, what can I explain to you? It's down to culture, to self-esteem. And yes! Eh this West and the people there.
Number 7 is very right.
If you really love him, and it doesn't sound like it, you'd take it personally, not give him gym cards and walk himself, not write on websites... you'd take care of him like you were taking care of yourself! Another is the question that you probably do not take care of yourself, it is mirrored.
To remove dairy products filled with estrogen (female hormone), therefore, and there is also mass obesity in men in the areas of the breast and abdomen. He cooks him quality food, that's why you're his wife to take care of him, not with less fat, but straight - no fat, ground flaxseed or blended nuts (tahini) do the same job, potassium salt, drink more water, no alcohol, no canned soft drinks, juices, etc. packaged nonsense. Every day to eat raw fruits and vegetables, before the main meal, eat until 19h., move after food, walk in the park, ride bicycles. Have sex. Take a dog to walk it...
He's your husband, I don't know how you can ask strangers about your husband... can't you think of how to be useful to him?
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