Hello! I want to share with you my story, which is quite strange and I obviously can't decide what to do! So please advice! I had a relationship with a man for four months after which he proposed to me and so after a total of a year we got married! So far so good, but we lived together and at one point we were still hungry without money! So every month, because my husband takes his salary and within two days the money is gone, but there is nothing on the face! The lies that he gives money to his parents that he allegedly goes to coffee after work, etc., have also started! And so lie after lie! Patties disappeared every day and he still took out loans as justified as I was! In fact, it is not! And non-stop nonsense until the day he came home surprisingly much earlier from work, which is impossible (if he was there at all) and he was very nervous and I wanted you to call my grandfather! So I did not wake up and we called! Then we found out that the door to my grandparents' apartment was unlocked! My husband's reaction was very strange! He wanted us to go there as he was obviously not worried at all, but rather sounded very suspicious! When we arrived at the apartment, my grandparents and I found out that we lacked gold jewelry and money! Both mine and theirs, but the interesting thing was that the gold taken was only certain, not everything from the jewelry box! We called the police. When they came, they found out that this was not a thief, because everything was in order and there was always a close person who knew where what was going on! Now we doubt that he is my husband judging by his behavior! He was hellishly indifferent and terribly nervous during the police interrogation! This is a brief of my story and I ask you for help and advice! Your every opinion on the case is important to me! that the door to my grandparents' apartment was unlocked! My husband's reaction was very strange! He wanted us to go there as he was obviously not worried at all, but rather sounded very suspicious! When we arrived at the apartment, my grandparents and I found that we lacked gold jewelry and money! Both mine and theirs, but the interesting thing was that the gold taken was only certain, not everything from the jewelry box! We called the police. When they came, they found out that this was not a thief, because everything was in order and there was always a close person who knew where what was going on! Now we doubt that he is my husband judging by his behavior! He was hellishly indifferent and terribly nervous during the police interrogation! This is a brief of my story and I ask you for help and advice! Your every opinion on the case is important to me! that the door to my grandparents' apartment was unlocked! My husband's reaction was very strange! He wanted us to go there as he was obviously not worried at all, but rather sounded very suspicious! When we arrived at the apartment, my grandparents and I found out that we lacked gold jewelry and money! Both mine and theirs, but the interesting thing was that the gold taken was only certain, not everything from the jewelry box! We called the police. When they came, they found out that this was not a thief, because everything was in order and there was always a close person who knew where what was going on! Now we doubt that he is my husband judging by his behavior! He was hellishly indifferent and terribly nervous during the police interrogation! This is a brief of my story and I ask you for help and advice! Your every opinion on the case is important to me! My husband's reaction was very strange! He wanted us to go there as he was obviously not worried at all, but rather sounded very suspicious! When we arrived at the apartment, my grandparents and I found out that we lacked gold jewelry and money! Both mine and theirs, but the interesting thing was that the gold taken was only certain, not everything from the jewelry box! We called the police. When they came, they found out that this was not a thief, because everything was in order and there was always a close person who knew where what was going on! Now we doubt that he is my husband judging by his behavior! He was hellishly indifferent and terribly nervous during the police interrogation! This is a brief of my story and I ask you for help and advice! Your every opinion on the case is important to me! My husband's reaction was very strange! He wanted us to go there as he was obviously not worried at all, but rather sounded very suspicious! When we arrived at the apartment, my grandparents and I found out that we lacked gold jewelry and money! Both mine and theirs, but the interesting thing was that the gold taken was only certain, not everything from the jewelry box! We called the police. When they came, they found out that this was not a thief, because everything was in order and there was always a close person who knew where what was going on! Now we doubt that he is my husband judging by his behavior! He was hellishly indifferent and terribly nervous during the police interrogation! This is a brief of my story and I ask you for help and advice! Your every opinion on the case is important to me! When we arrived at the apartment, my grandparents and I found that we lacked gold jewelry and money! Both mine and theirs, but the interesting thing was that the gold taken was only certain, not everything from the jewelry box! We called the police. When they came, they found out that this was not a thief, because everything was in order and there was always a close person who knew where what was going on! Now we doubt that he is my husband judging by his behavior! He was hellishly indifferent and terribly nervous during the police interrogation! This is a brief of my story and I ask you for help and advice! Your every opinion on the case is important to me! When we arrived at the apartment, my grandparents and I found that we lacked gold jewelry and money! Both mine and theirs, but the interesting thing was that the gold taken was only certain, not everything from the jewelry box! We called the police. When they came, they found out that this was not a thief, because everything was in order and there was always a close person who knew where what was going on! Now we doubt that he is my husband judging by his behavior! He was hellishly indifferent and terribly nervous during the police interrogation! This is a brief of my story and I ask you for help and advice! Your every opinion on the case is important to me! When they came, they found out that this was not a thief, because everything was in order and there was always a close person who knew where what was going on! Now we doubt that he is my husband judging by his behavior! He was hellishly indifferent and terribly nervous during the police interrogation! This is a brief of my story and I ask you for help and advice! Your every opinion on the case is important to me! When they came, they found out that this was not a thief, because everything was in order and there was always a close person who knew where what was going on! Now we doubt that he is my husband judging by his behavior! He was hellishly indifferent and terribly nervous during the police interrogation! This is a brief of my story and I ask you for help and advice! Your every opinion on the case is important to me!
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He must be gambling ... or worse. Talk to him. If you understand something like this, get it out of your head until you have more children.
Drop it! There is no point in living with a thief.
tell him openly what you think about the case. if you hide and remain silent, you approve of his behavior. so talk. if you think he is lying again, tell him and threaten him with separation. be ready and leave him (if he is)
If I call you semi-literate, it will be a compliment. And yes, he lies and uses you, congratulations!
Hi, I think you need to talk to him. Obviously, there are problems. But you are a man and a woman, you have to hit him on the shoulder ... Greetings!
Very illiterate and incomprehensible, which leads me to think that a child wrote it and it is not true.
Both indifferent and nervous !?
Emmy, leave him ... what can I tell you, darling. You took absolute rubbish for a man. Other times he doesn't make that mistake. But as I read the story, I'm sure that the next idiot who misled the "big man", the "bad boy" do you understand ... ahhahahaha. Let it suck, darling. To know in advance that you cannot have a family with such people. I even wonder how the hell you tied yourself up to marry him ... but you know ...
Well, choose your product. It's not too late to change it!
To pass on a polygraph.
I think this person has a serious problem, whether he is addicted to gambling or something else, I don't know, but it looks like that to me. Try to understand what he is doing with all the money and then talk to him seriously. If you take action and change better, if not-divorce. Because now you are just the two of you and somehow you manage to live on a little money, but what if one day you have a child? what and will you leave the child hungry because his father does God knows what with his money?
Strange. And I would doubt it was him. Otherwise, what can I tell you - how can you marry someone you have only known for 4 months ?? It takes more time to get to know him, then to live together for a while to see what it's like to live with this person and then if you still love each other and want to always be together if you want to get married, what is it just 4 months after you met? Some of them haven't shown their horns even after 1 year, have you in 4 months? !! I'm sorry, I don't want to blame you, but I think this is a very stupid thing to do. From what I have written, it seems to me that you have no future with this person, and if you do, it will be the same - he will spend his money as now, he will sink into loans, and who knows what he spends it on, it will not be good at all you will suffer because you are with him.
He is a gambler. Run!
I work for a betting company abroad! Every day I meet all sorts of freaks who are subject to gambling. From your description I draw 2 conclusions - This idiot does not make money at first, and if he does, he does not leave them in his family for long! And the second on the second is a thief and a swindler and has serious problems with gambling or something like that. This is not curable. I see no other successful solution than to get rid of it, but as soon as possible. Don't be sorry, the future will only be better for you! If you do not have children, even better. Success!