My Husband Is Obviously Suffering From Depression.

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Hello. I want to share about the problems we have with my husband and possibly get advice from someone who has experienced similar things. My husband is obviously suffering from depression. He has no motivation for life, he is lazy, he just watches TV. He doesn't care about anything and nothing excites him. I don't know how to help him. We talk, I motivate him, but the effect is short-lived, and the worries accumulate on my shoulders. I have given birth to children who are also not enough to motivate him to do something for them, for him, for the family, something other than sitting in front of the TV. He doesn't even move to have fun. We can't go for breaks and a word. And sex is once a year and it is such a weak performance, hardly simple, without any desire. You don't have a mistress, at least if I had one I would be calmer. He doesn't go anywhere without me, and we very rarely go anywhere. He takes pills for psycho attacks, which there was some time ago and they really stopped and he calmed down, but he became so bloated and depressed. No one knows about his problems unless I say so, because he communicates very little with his parents and shares nothing with them. Sometimes I get angry because I see us sinking into problems, worries, dirt, lack of money and I make him tighten up, and he says I'm pushing him further. And how can I not suppress myself, I take care of children, I eat at home, I work, at home I am a psychologist, a doctor, a teacher, a cleaner, a cook. I am calm and smiling most of the time. However, I also miss the fact that we do not make love. I don't think I can help him and be well at the same time. I've been thinking about other men lately, but I have a barrier that I can't overcome all of a sudden. I know that time will tell my way. But I want him to be well and happy. He is a very good man and I love him very much. But my children and I are clearly an obstacle to him being free and happy. And if he is free, he sits in front of the TV again, watching 3-4-5 movies one after the other without interruption. Movies all night until morning. Then he sleeps all day, plays movies again. This is his life.

Last Updated
November 07, 2020
Author:
MONIKAMONIKAMONIKA

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