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2 fedinuril answered
And why not try to find a job?
3 Toyboy913 answered
And how did you diagnose depression like that? At least do you have a definition for "depression"? Do you have the qualification of a clinical psychologist / psychiatrist?
4 zetao8 answered
Ave, I'm so inward, but I can't see it because of the woman. I fulfill my duties, I even force myself to have sex. When the woman goes somewhere for a few days, however, I do nothing - movies and porn. I made up an excuse and last summer I didn't go with her and the child to the sea and in ten days I watched 5-6 series in its entirety. I tell my friends that I am very busy and gradually we started seeing each other only on occasions. Otherwise I love the woman, even very much. I just imagined life differently at the age of 39 and I'm dumb. Excursions in nature and sports help me a lot, but winter is a great sorrow.
5 toothfairy18 answered
The same situation with us, I wondered at the beginning if I hadn't written it :( My husband has grown together with the sofa, it's sad, it's a pity, because he is a young, healthy man, in his prime. He doesn't want to he plays with his children, he can't sit - he just wants to lie down, he doesn't want to do anything, he's constantly tired, he's constantly not feeling well and he can't say for sure. and urine, everything was at 6.
6 pineapplejuiceontherocks answered
3 - Nerve, no, no no ... This modern nonsense, in which a person is forbidden to make any inferences without having 8 years in university, please do not push it on me. The woman does not make an official diagnosis, but there are many signs that every common sense and living experience will recognize as signs of depression.
7 jessepalmer answered
go to the doctor, the psychiatrist depression is not in the mood, is not "to tighten" may need treatment
8 scarlett_henderson answered
from number 3 to number 7: I wonder how a person without qualifications can report what is a sign or not of depression? How can a person without qualifications be sure that he knows what depression is? If there is modern nonsense, it is everyone talking about depression without knowing that the diagnosis of depression is something other than the colloquial word depression. And the woman, not making an official diagnosis, why she wrote for the title "My husband is obviously suffering from depression" instead of "Is it possible that my husband is suffering from depression" or "I suspect symptoms of depression", etc.
9 mesalina answered
Each of us can experience this collapse, it happens to many, so there is nothing to think about so much - you will certainly need professional help to stabilize.
10 Chanel-Young answered
Lazy him.
11 mommycurves answered
And instead of scolding him, did you ask him what the problem was? Even if it was depression, something still depressed him at first. I know it sounds exotic against the background of the traditional "animal like that, I'll catch a lover", but why not try to understand what the problem is and help him solve it? Obviously it doesn't happen with motivation and scandals, you need a deep digging to understand what is bothering him. If you are interested, well, because now he is the ideal scapegoat, so if you decide that you are breaking ... And he will be guilty, not you - a familiar logic! This is not the first time I have read such stories online. In such cases, we understand who we love more - our sexual needs or the person next to us. Because apart from them, you will not change anything else with a breakup - it will still be bad, all the worries will accumulate on your head, but the sex will be on a level.
12 ebonymilkberry answered
I don't know why so many people clung to the author's "diagnosis". Whatever her husband has is the problem, not how she or anyone else will qualify it. One thing is for sure, author, this situation is intolerable. Your husband does not show the will and desire to get better. I don't know if anything happened or he always tended to such a state. If he turns to professional help and tries to get out of the hole, there may be a chance, but if things continue like this, you better save yourself and your children before you collapse, both physically and mentally.
13 19redgoddess answered
10 -Do not think about it, but grow it all your life like a pot .... Along with the children.
1 shishova answered
Don't blame him, depression is worse than you think.