How far can a man go to cover up his sexual infirmity? This is my case. When we met 15 years ago, he had the same problem again, apparently on a psychological basis he had a difficult childhood, it is difficult to relax in front of a woman, let alone have sex. He fell in love like crazy with me, he chased me for 6 years, but during that time we didn't have sex, I refused and I was in another city ... this moment it can be assumed that he was a virgin - 30 years. I'm quite sexual, he was inspired by that and things were fine for almost ten years we had no problems, he always told me that he loves to have sex and so it was. After I gave birth to our second child and the long stay at home was a little depressing, I decided to create a Facebook account, I received many compliments and male suggestions, he understood, because I later found out that he had a computer monitoring program and became very depressed, which again affected his potency and began to soften.
Many times I wanted to talk humanely to explain to him that I would not like to just communicate on Facebook with other people, but he is a very jealous, proud and depressed person, so he denied that this was the reason. Unfortunately, his mother and father have been against me since our first day, because I am different from their understanding, and we have never been able to become true friends, even though I really wanted to. The other is that I am white, and he is a little black, and his father always deliberately emphasized this in front of me in order to complex him and thus set him against me. When I married him, I looked at his intellect, not the color of his skin, because then he demonstrated such. Later, as the years passed, he became a copy of his father, and unfortunately his father is a very simple man, I would say mega ... but to be alive and healthy. So his father always told him that he had to find a black woman like him and so he would be calmer because white women cheated a lot, which in itself is incredible nonsense ... Separately, my second child was born completely squirrel and they immediately made a conspiracy that he was from another man ...
All this connected at the same time with my Facebook profile and became a great intrigue, the simplicity unseen by them. The whole family got organized and found him a semi-Roma girl, who they hired to live above us, then they heard that he was sleeping with her, and I know that's not the case, because you already know the background, to pass in front of people that it is from him and so to be even with me, and she the woman was constantly with someone, I don't know if she took money from them, but anyway, because before that there was a rumor that our second child it's not from him ... Terribly confusing story, but in the end, things are normal at home, only outside people eat us, I wonder if it's worth pretending to be something you are not, to ruin your life, your love and in the end to be frowning and dissatisfied again ... This story is not made up and such things happen between people, but in my opinion only between ordinary people, an intelligent person will do otherwise. If you break up, there is always a way to break up without anyone understanding and hurting you ... and here things are a big simplicity and family misunderstanding :) Unfortunately, I'm married to a man, who comes from such a family and although he is in a prestigious job, his root is a root ... Thank you for reading my topic. What do you think?
1 marcuspaige5 answered
Calm down and think a little. You write confused and illogical, it is difficult to understand exactly what is happening to you. I don't want to judge or scare you, but think about whether other people are wrong. Your husband is not impotent when he has sex with you. This means that he can have sex with another woman and expect a child from her. I do not believe that everything is ok between you, given that he has another relationship and is expecting a child. Wake up!