My Husband Is A Mansion (or Is He Crazy?)

The Story

I want to share my story here, it will probably unite a lot. I fell in love with my husband when he was 34, an old bachelor, and even then he smelled a little psychiatric. I don't know how to enchant me, but he generally looks very good, plays sports regularly and doesn't run. We also had a child. As a person, apart from being a man, he is very polite and good. And here come some things. The first is that he ... doesn't change his wardrobe, that is, his clothes. I emphasize, he doesn't walk dirty, smelly, etc., he is extremely clean, he bathes 2-3 times a day, his clothes are also washed, etc ... but he wears his clothes literally until they become rags. He receives a salary of about 10 thousand levs and does not buy anything new, he has 2 pairs of shoes and 1 pair of sneakers, and his sneakers are 5 years old. If he buys something, it is obligatory ... from second-hand clothes! No kidding, go there and buy from there. I'm on the other side and I spend a lot of money in stores :). Sometimes I buy for him too, but he flatly refuses to wear these things. He makes up all sorts of excuses - he didn't get so carried away, it didn't matter to him, he was used to the second use. I start to feel ashamed as we walk the streets together. He is the same with food, he shows no interest in anything, he often eats things that few would like - for example he eats bread and onions if he is hungry, bread, onions and ham, he eats with it and then he is not hungry. for any pot. Otherwise, he makes protein shakes, that's what he sticks to. If I tell him something, he always answers, eat what you want, do I tell you what to eat, how much money do you spend, do I tell you what to buy ... I read somewhere that there is a mental illness associated with an obsession with old things. .. His wallet was torn like a rag with 3 out of 6 torn compartments, he bought it when he was 18 and became a student, now he is 40, 22 years old wallet, which he claims brought him happiness. It is the same with several sailor shirts with holes from moths, I emphasize, washed, clean, but with holes, which are also there - there are no 20-year-olds from the barracks, in Plovdiv he served with them and now they are more than a talisman for him! He has collected 5-6 such rags, he puts them under the sweater in the winter, in the summer he goes home with them, I can't look at him directly. There are other such things. For example, our car is a golf and it's a 3, I ask him - your salary per month is like 7-8 such as cars, why don't we buy something more normal ... answer - the car is to serve me, not me to serve it, do you know how much it costs, whether I will give our money to those (services). There are so many things, do you have similar images around you? Don't go crazy for something worse or it's a childhood trauma (he was very poor, both he and his brother, but his brother is radically different) ...

Last Updated
June 27, 2020
Author:
shantal_brown21

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