I've been married for 29 years. I've only been out of work for four months. My husband is often out of work. We're renting right now, and I'm the only one working. I pay for everything. It's been running for six months. He justifies different things : he's going to have surgery, he's going to look for work, he's going to do repairs, I'm going to fix my teeth, and so on. His payment was completed by the exchange, which was only 4 months at 200. Now he gets nothing. As many times as I sat down to tell him he had no money and had to look for a job or have surgery - he only knows one thing - he's going to leave me and he won't weigh on me. No matter how many times I ask him where he's going to go, that's all he knows "I'm going to save myself. One night, a whole problem made him give him 4. I gave him back $5. to calm down. He just keeps saying I don't have any money. He's got everything. He didn't want to look for a job because he wasn't picked up and he was sick. I told him to collect documents for TELC, and he still disagrees because it costs money. He can't please him. Tell me, how do you live with a man like that?
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anita42 answered · June 19, 2020
You get up and you leave and you stop embarrassing yourself. What kind of women are you without an ounce of self-esteem standing with such bummers I don't know..
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babygirlxzcc answered · June 19, 2020
You're not telling us everything, what kind of surgery? If he is ill - he should not work, but seriousness is needed, to go to THEC, it will be a month until the decision of the commission, but when the decision comes out it will be known how much % have given him and whether he can work, if and what, since employers do not hire people over a certain age, and with disability, unfortunately, you are not working above normal opportunities (i.e. - can't they squeeze you like a lemon) - they can't.
If he can't work, collect his paperwork, work notes from all employers over the years, go to the NOAH, calculate years of internship and retire by illness. I don't know what qualifications he has, but I see that the supermarket guards are either slightly disabled or about 50 years old or retired - at least those in BILLLA and LIDL, other - parking security, but there are night shifts, if there is an education that is appropriate, it can also work in a library, as a passer-by, observe for the marking of the cards, or a wardrobe, or work in a punch to pay utility bills... still calm working. Help him if he's so un-proactive, because you're suffering from his condition, he's moaning family.
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weedelicious answered · June 19, 2020
Well, if you don't want to, then what's it going to be? Tell me you're stopping, so why are you the only one feeding everyone?
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mydickmyrules01 answered · June 19, 2020
and how did you live with him for 29 years??? at the first moment, I read that you were 29 and I was going to write you a run. But 29 !?!? Years?
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dirtyshasta1 answered · June 19, 2020
Can't he retire from sick leave?
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flowerbrtsxml answered · June 19, 2020
Well, let's go then. Soon there was a theme of a man who left him for another, he crashed and there were a lot of consequences and a telk - well, the man worked as a driver, even though he had one leg shorter. Yours is just looking for excuses, and as long as you put up with it, he won't get a job. Talk to him and move out, or you move out without a shred of pity - he doesn't feel sorry for you working and supporting him.
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hung_luke23 answered · June 20, 2020
5, more likely to retire.
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rockstarvixen answered · June 20, 2020
Hey, the first comment, if everyone thought like you, I bet you wouldn't have been born at all.
To the author. Help your husband with the TELK. The guy's in a bad time, you have nothing to say to him, you grab him and you do his job. Then, by taking £200, he'il feel a little more useful.
Hey, number, you're a total joker, you know. And you're the only one who's embarrassing yourself. The woman wants advice, not some kind of complex opinion.
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wwwsexyboy answered · June 20, 2020
You can't live at all. He's trying to complain. If he really didn't want it to weigh on you, he'd be alone by now. You must be a good woman, and you've been feeding him for a long time. Even sick people work. It's not a coincidence that it's said. Without work, one is neglected, including in communicating with people. I'm a young woman, I work for funny money. About my salary, I've heard from people a million times , "I'm not going to get my ass off the couch for that money." The difference between me and them is that they sit and sit unemployed, with no income, because they're lazy. You can't want to take 2,000- 4,000 right away, it's starting somewhere. Even for a little money, it's good to work. If there is an opportunity to take TELC, it is a pity that he is sick - but it is good to also use this chance for some small amount of a month. There are people pretending to be sick for a sick pension, it's a shame and a shame for him to be sick, but not to take the pension. You've obviously been like this for a long time and he's probably used to this situation and a little bit or more it's advantageous to him. But how long? Think of yourself, the kids, if you have any... I don't know what to tell you, I sympathize with you sincerely. Really.
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carol_bboobs answered · June 21, 2020
Well, don't live, it's simple.
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katiekinz1008 answered · June 21, 2020
Well, if he doesn't want to work his way!
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hotchub3 answered · June 21, 2020
Author, don't ask us! We have to ask you how to live with such a servitude for 29 years, and why you put up with it. And if he's found such a ballad like you, why work? Hey, I wonder where you find them such idiots, that you give birth to them too, that you watch them until you drop in fatigue, and you don't see that gratitude is there!