My Husband And The Adult Movies

That's why I'm against that nudity, men are oversatisous. It's a little bit for me once a week. Talk to me, it doesn't look like anything.

That's why should be banned. I feel for you. Fill up with those men's whores.

First of all, what do you look like about women in? Second, how do you rate the secessal contacts you have? Do you like women in? Third, how narrow are you? (This is a very serious matter) Fourth, do you make him want you? I mean, a man who doesn't try to keep you - becomes latent in his secalities. I've been to both extremes - wanting a woman 24/7 off saturation for years. And in the other, being with a woman I don't want to because I'm just not attracted to it the same way. I've come to the conclusion that the top four things are at the heart of someone wanting you the way you want to be wanted. It's Bratan.

He's polishing the cane and he doesn't have the strength for you. G.35

Well, talk to him necessarily. Maybe he's got some unfulfilled fantasy and he's ashamed to admit it, so a conversation is going to happen. Watching, okay, but everything on his phone is full of and following some of the seems a little extreme, considering he's a family man. And for what you wrote, Bratane, I couldn't see a meaningful word. How can you advise a woman to start looking and have sexual behavior of a actress?! First of all, you seem to be missing the fact that in these films everything is a script and in reality things look very different. Applying the learning of in real life is in most cases harmful, not a psychologist would confirm it. It also seems to me a very stupid idea to change just because of someone else's whims. The more likely thing that would follow after your advice is that the woman loses her authenticity, which her husband, I assume, fell in love with. And for how narrow she is underneath, her husband is entirely responsible, if she doesn't have another one.

If you don't have any kids yet, run this one. In time, you'il dream of sex once a week with this one.

You don't have the problem, honey. If pamela andersen is going to be, she'il still be like that. He's just like that, womaniser. He's prone to cheating 90% and keep an eye on him, don't give him much faith. It's not even about you, it's obviously pushing you and it makes you feel unwanted, it doesn't make sense, people like that don't change. Talk to him, tell him about everything that's bothering you. When you figure it out, if I don't get him kicked out, what do you need a man like that, and his eyes and minds are elsewhere.

You're going to answer all the questions. And no, it's not your fault!

If he doesn't stop after another year, he might not fit, and then you can jump on another pole!

Well, how do you take things like that without ever saying anything?! You sit down and ask him why he's doing it.

This guy's a mouse and a jerk. There's no communication and honesty. It's clear why. It's easier, in his fantasies, he's a master, and all the chicks adore him. He must have been addicted and lost touch with the real world. Offensive and degrading behavior in all paragraphs. There are two options: you leave him sitting with his hand in his pants, or, if you care a lot about it, you try to help him, including consulting a specialist, because it's no different than drug addiction and alcoholism. In the second case, prepare yourself for scandals, accusations that you're a witty and controlling woman and always in that spirit. No one likes to be told he's dependent. He's going to deny it, he's going to spit, he's going to hide. It all depends on how much nerves you have and how much it means to you. But even that has its limits. Don't sacrifice your life and femininity to men like that. At some point, it would be most sensible to leave him with his .jpeg wishes.

While for most women, sex is: I go to bed and dissolve my legs, that's how it is.

I'm a man, I want to do it with my beautiful wife every day or every other day, it's not like I'm not trying. If I don't tell her or show her I want sex, she might not think of it for a month. Usually 1-2 a week we do it and it's a full tree, it won't let me breathe in her hair so she doesn't get oiled or curled... and you think I'm going to leave her just for the sake of sex. well, it's not just sex. How with one hand you wrote off the man.

And why do you think the author is telling the truth. Don't you think that the author just wants to insult her husband, even all men. You're very naïve people, you believe everything you've written. See what SOLOMON says in Proverbs 14:15 "The simple one believes every word, and the prudent is careful in his footsteps." Or to put it another way, the reasonable one ponders in depth what is to believe and what is fiction. It strikes me that the vast majority of commentators believe everything written. What a pity.

If is so bad, why are women taking pictures of it?

From the author : First, thank you all for the answers. I would like to answer the questions that have been asked to me. First to number 4- (Brattan) : I don't think I should compare myself to any actress, they're not any criterion, the simplest prostitutes, but if you ask how I look at them, I'll just tell you that I'm an ex-gymnast, I'm skinny, tall and I have a nice face. Attention to me-it's not missing. It's never been missing. To your second how do I question, I wouldn't say it's bad. I'm a woman who loves sex, I like to diversify into sex (poses, places), I do everything I know will give him pleasure, I'm ready for sex at any time because I'm young and I have a desire, so I don't see the problem coming from here. To how narrow I am-to tell you the truth, I don't know. I just never knew what it was getting into. If I'm a man, I'll probably be able to make a difference in sensations when a woman is narrow and when she's not, but how can I know when I'm a woman and I have no experience with women, and men have never told me, you're narrow, you're wide? And to your last question of "am I trying to keep it." How do you mean? If it's if I'm sweating. Definitely yes. I'm a very vain woman. I always try to look good. I try even to look good for him at home, not to walk like a 5 for 4, a housewife with shaggy hair and a dirty T-shirt. I wear beautiful nightgowns, even make up when we're home, just to look good for him, because he's important to me. I try in every way to attract him and keep his attention. If I can't keep him with this, I don't know what else I have to do. I can't stand on the front stand. He sees and knows that I look good and that I'm a pretty desirable woman, and he's jealous when someone's just looking at me, but at the same time he knows I'm his (I'm very straight in a relationship and I wouldn't go out of my way while I'm with someone), he knows it and I just don't see him making much effort. (in sex) To number five, I definitely don't think he has the strength left for me from so polishing. And he's a little lazy in that regard, and so it's easier, quick and he doesn't sweat that much. I think number one is very right, and that's what I'm trying to say that men have become overwhelmed by so much nudity. She's everywhere. And it's this oversaturation that leads to the problem I have. He prefers the virtual to me. Because like I said, his phone is full of nudity. To number 6-About his fantasies, as I said a little above, I'm trying to do everything I know he likes. I know he's got a foot fetish, and I'm trying to satisfy him. To number 8- Do you think he'd cheat? I really believe he wouldn't do it, because aside from sex, he's nice to me and does everything for me. I keep thinking you wouldn't cheat, but of course nothing is certain in this life... And to talk to him, how do you do it? I know what the answer will be. He's going to say to me, Well, I'm not cheating on you, what's your problem, i'm watching, the other guys are going left to right, and you're complaining about. I couldn't understand your comment at all. What do you mean, I want to insult my husband? All I'm saying is, I want him to make love to me instead of going to the bathroom and doing it myself. I didn't understand what I was insulting him with. I love my husband and I want to know where the problem is coming from, not insult him and dump him. Finally, in conclusion, I'm going to say that I don't want it to look like I've banned him from watching. It's clear to me that all men and women are watching. I'm watching, too. I just do it when, for example, he's at work and I can't have sex with him, and I have needs. I just don't understand why my husband does it while I'm in the other room and don't just come and have some nice sex. Is self-indulgence with virtual women more exciting than your sexy-dressed woman in the bedroom? That's what I don't understand. I'd never prefer to watch and masturbate over having sex with my husband. Feelings are embarrassing, in my opinion. If you did it when I was gone, he does it while I'm there. That's the big problem.

And I'm a man, are a beautiful wife that I love and desire, but I also watch, incl. and photograph my wife naked. Watching naked female bodies is NORMAL FOR ANY MAN! Stick it in your head.

I understand more about the problem from the answers. Unfortunately, your husband has a dependence on pornography. I'm a man, and I speak from my own experience. For me, the problem was that when I am with my girlfriend, I have a continuous erection, but I can not reach euculation; more than an hour (I do not use Viagra). I got mad at myself and stopped watching at all. I even applied complete abstinence for 3 months to heal myself. Three months and now, even if I see my girlfriend in sexier clothes, I'm ready for feats. Clothes, not underwear! There's a movie about it: Don John (Don Jon 2013). I hope things work out, you deserve it like the wife you described as you are!

Again from the author... My husband continues with... Fix it, no. If you don't understand what I mean, I'm going to explain it. Then again in the history of his phone, I find that he was looking for one of them NAKED, and it happens every day... sees a woman on TV and then searches for her naked on the internet.. It was not Maria Ilieva GOLA, Zlatka Dimitrova GOLA, gymnasts NAKED... everyone he saw wanted to see her naked... I don't like knowing how my husband imagines every woman who sees a. I don't feel the need to watch naked men every day because I'm attracted enough to my own man, why I don't know him again. yes, I'm watching my and what ?!? What kind of man doesn't... and it's all over. Oh, please give you some opinion on it, because I'm freaking out.

Your husband has a very serious problem, darling. I tell you this because I am a man and I also struggle with such a thing. Don't leave him, because as they wrote above, it's like drug addiction, he will realize it sooner or later, but it is very difficult to find the strength to fight it. Imperceptibly and gradually you become a great slave, you grow together with it, it reflects on your whole life, on your health and distorts you until you feel you have sunk into a great abyss of darkness. It robs you everywhere, it alienates you from your loved ones, it makes you incapable of loving forever because of bad habits, monogamy becomes torture and the scary thing is that it breaks your life, it robs you of the people you loved, you can't fully enjoy life, because you are enslaved to a passion that burns your soul, does not give you peace from within. The Internet can be abused in many ways, this is just the beginning, everything is a poison that gradually takes away everything from you. 1. You do not have to stay on the Internet for a long time. If he works in front of a computer, he should take breaks of 40 minutes and after work he should not steam to a computer, TV, telephone. This is important to keep your strength, to keep your thoughts and eyes. 2. Change your regimen, getting up early and going to bed early necessarily. So there will be a fuller daily life and strength to fight it. 3. Physical diligence can also help the powers of the spirit. 4. Be careful with food, have discipline in eating without overdoing it. Be careful with alcohol and cigarettes, music. 5. Don't add oil to the fire - don't talk to him directly, because from what you wrote, I understand that there is opposition to it. It's like taking a drug from a drug addict, he can respond rudely, even aggressively, and that won't help much. Act indirectly, small, constant steps lead to big changes. 6. That you support yourself is very good, because in men who suffer from such a lewd passion, it can be used as a weapon. Dress attractively in front of him, find out what clothes he likes, what underwear he likes, emphasize your shapes. But one very, very important thing - the man likes to be a hunter, do not serve him everything ready, otherwise he loses interest, be free. Leave an element of mystery always, inaccessibility and at the same time be beautiful, laugh, smile. Not to wear a short skirt and lean in front of him, he has enough imagination for everything and wants you. It's not bad, in his eyes, to give the impression that you are valued by your friends, that there are men who pay attention to you (for example, that someone has looked at you, etc.), but at the same time do not provoke jealousy, because she is very dangerous, show him that you have morals and you are loyal to him. Also, it is very good to do sports, physical activity, energy will make you even more attractive to him. 7. It's good to talk about sex sometimes, find out what fetishes there are, fantasies. Hint to him about yours. These topics should not be taboo, because otherwise he isolates himself and searches for certain things on the Internet because he is used to eating them. Sometimes a word, a thought can ignite a desire in him, use that. 8. Try to slightly affect his pride in some way and thus expose him. For example, hint to him that most men on the Internet are chikhis, wrong that they are stupid things, instead of behaving like real men and having a woman who loves and makes him feel like a woman. 9. It is very important to realize that there is a problem. Talk to him, rebuke him. Be careful and delicate, hint to him, give him examples, delicately affect his dignity, it is only a matter of time before you show him that he is wrong with these actions and deeds. He will gradually begin to realize his problems. It is best not to force things, insert them, little by little. Do not press it, because it can have the opposite effect. He must realize that he must behave like a man in life, not constantly seek pleasure, fight and know that not every day he can beat his chicks and run away from problems. He needs to understand that you are a woman and he needs to fight and try for you, that you have standards and he needs to work hard every day and appreciate what he has to keep you. 10. After realizing the problem, it is necessary to have sobriety. You have to beware of these things, to keep your thoughts and eyes above all, this is very important. Gradually his love and desire for caresses will return, his love will intensify, he will begin to appreciate you as before. And that's where the next work begins - you have to try to keep the harmony, because it's very easy to lose and very difficult to build. Keep track of what he does, in no case fall into these things again, inner peace, harmony between you can be lost for a moment, the danger with him is very great, because he can open the Internet at any moment and start again he is immersed in these things - that is why I tell you that it is very, very important for him to realize the problem. Over time, good habits are built, you need to be consistent. 11. Porn, Facebook, Instagram and others, you need to exclude them from your life. Completely, throw them away as garbage, believe me, there is nothing good in these things - yes, you can use some messangers, etc. with whom to keep in touch with friends and relatives, but that's it. Set aside time for yourself, for example, do something just for you every week, the focus should be between the two of you - a walk, hugs, romance. Do something that charges you fully, has a focus on you. I hope something from what I have written is useful to you. I will follow the topic, do not despair, you need to have patience and help him, you will see that your work will pay off, you can be very happy.