Hello! I want to share something with you and I hope you will help me decide on the issue that worries me. My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year, I love him really much, but there is one problem - we don't see each other very often. We are from different cities and we study in different cities, but we still find time for each other (although not as much as I want). In the summer he found a job where there was no day off and he couldn't even come to my birthday. It was very sad, but I tried and swallowed the disappointment. Now during the holidays I hoped to be together at least for a while, but alas ... The excuse is various problems with the car. Obviously, things can't go on like this. My heart says one thing, my mind says another. I want to believe that my friend's feelings are the same as mine, but the facts are against it and I still hope ... Please advice! What to do
Sit down with him and clarify where you want and you will get in your relationship. Just before you make a decision, talk!
There is nothing to be deceived, you have understood very well, although you do not want it to be so, but he looks for reasons, when a person wants something he looks for reasons, and when he does not want to look for reasons, I'm sorry, but he runs away.
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Dear girl, I know that it hurts a lot and it will be difficult to overcome it, but when a person loves there are no barriers. A good friendship is not obligatory, but you can expect nothing more from the real behavior of your friend.