Hello! I want to share something with you and I hope you will help me decide on the issue that worries me. My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year, I love him really much, but there is one problem - we don't see each other very often. We are from different cities and we study in different cities, but we still find time for each other (although not as much as I want). In the summer he found a job where there was no day off and he couldn't even come to my birthday. It was very sad, but I tried and swallowed the disappointment. Now during the holidays I hoped to be together at least for a while, but alas ... The excuse is various problems with the car. Obviously, things can't go on like this. My heart says one thing, my mind says another. I want to believe that my friend's feelings are the same as mine, but the facts are against it and I still hope ... Please advice! What to do
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Dear girl, I know that it hurts a lot and it will be difficult to overcome it, but when a person loves there are no barriers. A good friendship is not obligatory, but you can expect nothing more from the real behavior of your friend.
Sit down with him and clarify where you want and you will get in your relationship. Just before you make a decision, talk!
There is nothing to be deceived, you have understood very well, although you do not want it to be so, but he looks for reasons, when a person wants something he looks for reasons, and when he does not want to look for reasons, I'm sorry, but he runs away.