First, I think you need to have a lot of confidence in the boy and make sure he doesn't fuck you up the first time. It is also good to mention to him that he is your first and ask if he has had others to make sure that he knows what he is doing. The pain was quite nasty for me the first time, I almost didn't cry, but because my friend really understood me, he was very careful. And for what to do the first few times you will be like a tree, because it will hurt you and the pain will be more than pleasure. And then, when you start to experience pleasure and orgasms, you will understand for yourself what you need to do to arouse your boyfriend. All men have different preferences for sex and lovemaking. Once you start trying new poses, and as others say you get to know your bodies, you will know what to do, where to kiss him, where to touch him, what to tell him, etc. You don't need someone to tell you what to do. Everyone has sex differently. But really, if you are under 17, you better not start with this and if you do not trust your friend or feel that he is not the right person. Just because you have a boyfriend doesn't mean you have to have sex. Don't listen to what he wants - think what you want and what you think is good :)
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First ... you have to be sure if you are ready ... and if you are ready ... you have to talk to him (if he has had other virgin girls, does he have enough experience), because the first time is very different from sex with virgin. The first thing is that you need to relax as much as possible and not be tight ... because the pain will be greater if you tighten .. the other thing is that your partner should predispose you as much as possible .. ie. to have a long love game before that (French love ... touching, kissing ... get to know your bodies ... so that there is no shame and inconvenience), wait until you get aroused ... and you are already acting on the issue ... but yes is gentle ... so as not to break anything other than your hymen: lol: ..... and do not be afraid of the pain ... it's not so scary ... you just won't feel as good as it did the first time ... but calm down ..