Hello friends, I am writing to you here to pour out my grief and see the difference. opinions my story is the following we are with her for almost a year as she follows in England we see each other vacations now all summer we are together she is a very smart girl educated and ambitious, educated everything is ok but before she was addicted to grass she said she stopped while is in England does not smoke but when he comes he starts again ... I am a 22 year old boy I have been training actively for 7 years fitness and I am against these things I smoke very rarely 2-3 times a year and it starts to drive me very often to smoke ... how to make her stop I love her maybe the problem is in me I'm too serious and I can't relax ???
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The problem is not in you, but in her - she is obviously still addicted. And it definitely affects you badly, since it insists that you smoke too. In your place, I would talk to her more seriously. It also depends on how serious your attitude towards her is. I personally would not tolerate such a person, but it is a matter of perspective.