My boyfriend is so jealous... I'm 18, he's 22, we're from one city, but he's a student in another.. and we see you on average every week and a half. When we're together, he constantly digs into my phone, reads chats on all the social networks I have (messenger, Instagram, Snapchat... ) and I get nervous when he does it because I don't know what kind of scandal he can make, so if I'm nervous, I'm hiding something, and I have nothing to hide. Although every time someone sends me an invitation or texts me, they keep asking me twice a day to ask if someone has written to me. On social media, I removed some of the guys who were in my friends so he wouldn't get annoyed and he thought I only took them off because I'd written with them and hid something from him. One day at school I was doing control, 40 minutes I wasn't on the line, and he texted my classmate to ask her what I was doing. And today I had an important phone call, and in those 10 minutes, he called me four times after I hadn't picked him up again and wrote to my classmate asking her who I was talking to and what I was doing so much... That's terrible. I'm talking to him, he's saying he's going to change and nothing. Is it possible to change, or will it get worse from jealousy?
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quarantinebabez answered · June 19, 2020
It's going to get worse. Now you're students, what about tomorrow? He won't let you graduate because he knows what the students are doing. He'il be waiting for you after work to get you home. And if he makes enough, he'il convince you there's no point in working. And of course he'il control you all the time. One older of you had written that her husband was installing cameras in their home. So are they.
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amasianmika answered · June 19, 2020
That sucks! Split up on time. My wife has been treating me like this for years, and I don't care if I cheat - and i feel guilty by default:)Little is quiet after I told her in a straight text.
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angellllina answered · June 19, 2020
From experience, it's going to get worse until it finally starts and keeps track of where you're going and what you're doing. He'il always know where you are and who you're with without telling him. It's stress.
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mas_moxxi answered · June 19, 2020
Get rid of that psycho.
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pumitahot01 answered · June 19, 2020
A girl no matter how much you love him, i don't think she'd put up with this for the rest of her life. At some point, you're going to get sick of it and start dating other guys like you're unconscious. It's not good for you. This may be a medical condition.
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thippy69 answered · June 19, 2020
These social networks are going to drive you crazy, kids! Are you kissing at all, or are you just wiping your phones? I'm not a fan of morals, starting with "we once... However, we used to go to the movies, gather to listen to music, I personally had a guitar and at home we drank gin and tonic and played. Of course we were mating with each other, but the tears came when the boy said he liked another pick. What on earth is wrong with you? What do you write and brier on these smartphones? Who cares who's on your friends list? And why should he care? My husband and I use a common password for all technical devices. That is, he has access to my email, to my Facebook account - which I use as a more organized notebook - to my bank account, etc. I have the same option for his stuff. I've never read his correspondence, and I guess he's mine. We just have enough tasks on our head that someone cares if they haven't written to a friend "Good day! How are you? Let's see you." You're small still, I understand that. But try, author, to impress this boy for humiliating himself, but your relationship with his laughable behavior. I'm not advising you to take sharp steps. They're all teenagers like that. And your next friend will be the same. Total infantile, unfortunately.
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stevie101992 answered · June 20, 2020
Haha, your friend's cute. I like guys like him. You know, you're going to miss that attitude if you come across a slob who doesn't care about you. Attention on his part, you can redirect him if you're smart and beautiful, to topics that are interesting to you, to him, to sex... Better too much than little or nothing... Wait, I'll quote: "The more, the more. " - Winnie the Pooh :)
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marian_delicious answered · June 20, 2020
Hey, it's been a long time since I've written here, but this story made me back on. The reason is that I was in a similar situation for 10 months. I want to share my experience with you. I've given thousands of explanations about past things, i've had suspicions about the present, I've already thought I'm in some circle from which there is no exit. And I'm a hell of a strong man. I knew I was honest and loyal to the one who blamed me all the time, and for a long time I was looking for guilt in myself that I didn't have. A few days ago we made a joke with a friend of mine, which was supposed to be comic, she spoke to him on facebook under someone else's identity, and he went on to talk to both of us for two hours, not knowing it was a trick. The bad news is, I knew, that's exactly what was going to happen. From a toy, it was crying! But at least I knew the truth. This man suspected and was jealous because he was judging me by himself. Two days later, I told him about the whole thing, I was calm, much of the love I felt for him was already gone. Chess and mat! He was ashamed, he was remorseful, but what's keeping me warm? Now- at a crossroads, can the lost come back, can I love it again as before? The answers I don't know, but I know for a fact that such suspicion and such jealousy only feels insecure, who judges his beloved by his actions, thoughts, and actions. Put him to the test, and you'il know the truth, so you'il get rid of the unfounded guilt he impeds to you once and for all. And I hope you read what I'm writing to you - the more explanation you give it, the worse it's going to get, so stop, just STOP!