I met two years ago on the Internet with a very nice and pleasant, married woman from a big city. She came to mine to see me. Since then we have become inseparable - we wrote SMS, talked on the phone, shared what we are doing at a given time, we told each other what worried us, what we would cook, we chatted, we even went to sea as a family. Our meetings became more frequent.
Suddenly, two months ago, I felt a pull away from her — as if she couldn't talk to me like she used to. And her other phone kept ringing. I asked her what was going on. She admitted to me that she had an affair with a divorced man from her town and kept thinking about him. We started talking again as before, but our conversations were interrupted by the new friend. I knew her password in Global and accidentally logged into her account. I read my love text messages addressed to ... a woman. I was shocked. Divorce turned out to be divorced with three twins. I picked up the phone and asked her if she had a relationship with a man or a woman. He denied the truth again. I told her I knew what she was and I proved myself right.
We didn't talk for a while. He called me and admitted everything from a needle to thread. She also told me how she felt while lying to me. The truth struck me. I texted her that I no longer wanted to hear about her, but she kept saying that she valued me very much as a friend and needed to talk and share with me.
Her lies shook my confidence. Nothing is like it was before. I even wrote "Goodbye" but she doesn't want to accept it. It is right that she is no longer among my friends, but what can I do when I get used to her presence and I am very empty without her. I am so confused ... I love conversations and meetings with this woman.
What to do?
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mia_seduction answered · July 06, 2020
I don't think the fact that she's the other way around should bother you. She remains your friend.
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therealde4ll answered · July 06, 2020
Absolutely (from above). I even had a longtime girlfriend who did it with women for a change, it suited me, considering they could be men.
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userinca answered · July 06, 2020
She may be secretly in love with you, and because of that she does not want to quarrel :))
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dave19704321 answered · July 06, 2020
I don't think she's dishonest about your friendship. She didn't tell you the truth because she was afraid she would lose you, and she shouldn't have, because you're not really a friend. First - digging into her personal belongings - supposedly by accident, which is a terrible act! And secondly, after you understand (in an absolutely unworthy way) that her sexual orientation is different from yours, you treat her as if she were a leper. Did I understand correctly? If so - sorry for the sharp tone, but you do not deserve to have friends. I can't give you advice.
I would tell her to continue her life as she sees fit and to be careful what kind of "girlfriends" she trusts in the future. I hope I was useful to you after all.
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johan_johanrr answered · July 06, 2020
No, I can't treat her like a leper because I care too much about her. That's why I suffered so much that she didn't tell me the truth. I thought there was nothing we couldn't share. We talked a lot after that and clarified everything. We remain friends. I am convinced of her sincerity. I told her about the unworthy things I had done and she accepted them as a normal reaction. After everything that happened, it was as if we became even closer.
I am convinced that there is nothing stronger than female friendship! Thanks a lot for everyone's advice! Please don't judge me so harshly! Everyone is wrong. The important thing is to forgive each other and look ahead. :)
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faroa_55 answered · July 06, 2020
Male friendship is stronger and when it comes to something like yours, the friendship ends because these are ..... things!
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naughtybellats answered · July 07, 2020
Indeed, friendship is a very important and good thing. That is why it should be appreciated! Faithful friends are not everywhere and at all times.
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ester_and_eric answered · July 07, 2020
Stay friends it's not bad.