My Friend Is Done In 5 Minutes

   I had a similar problem with my husband. However, it can end in a minute sometimes. As you said, at first I was too in love and did not pay attention to the problem, but ..... after a while / in which we managed to get married /, the problem came to light. I tried to talk to my husband, but the effect was a blow to his self-esteem and his reluctance to have sex. I saw that there would be no effect, I started to deceive him that everything was fine, and I stopped wanting it ... and of course I started wanting another man. I have had a lover for 7 years, and my husband's quick end is already welcome. But I do not think this is a solution to the problem. If you still want this person, if he is the object of your sexual desires ... don't refuse to talk to him. I know how difficult it is because I have been through it myself, but reconciliation is not a solution. If you need to see a sexologist, seek help, but do not give up. In fact, the worst thing in this case is that the man does not realize that he has a problem and you have yet to convince him that it is so, which is a big blow to the ego, men are so sensitive ... I wish you success! And one more thing ... if the problem is not solved and things are not good with sex, in no case do not agree to marry him. Sex is of great importance to a bricklayer believe me!

   Jump on the topic. My loved one is now with a girl who went with a guy who finished in 3 minutes! definitely that's where the problems come from. My acquaintance is not a flower to smell, however, and gives at least 1 hour of quality sex every day, and things are great. In my opinion, there are 2 options, either you break up, or you find a partner for sex, and you keep the relationship if you stick to it.

   Seek advice from a sexologist. There can be many reasons for a quick ejaculation, but in my opinion you should first seek help from a sexologist. Or you may break up, but if you hold on to each other, overcome the problem if possible. Success!

   Well, what do you want from a man. 80% of men in the world are like that. I doubt that he just caught another man. He can't go to a sexologist.

   I want to thank you for the advice. We solved each other's problems by parting :)) I personally feel better :)))

   There is certainly no other friend of yours, but it just ends quickly and he likes it at the thought that he should abstain during sex and it does not start and that is why you do not have sex often. I may be a quick one, I know, here's my mistletoe. [censored]

   well, obviously you excite him too much :)

   It's not just about women's needs. There is no point in throwing it away if you love it. Why not try condoms with NANOXINOL? Or you wait 3 minutes for it to end and after 30 minutes it is your turn to enjoy the mattress and the man. I've heard it said that you should try sex on the ground and on the bed, and on the bed men cum more slowly. Not bad to try and I hope I'm not too late.

   I have the same problem. I don't know if it can be fixed. I just wonder where I dozed in the beginning and didn't pay attention to this problem. In fact, he always had this problem, I just didn't think it would be a big problem for me. If it calms you down a bit, mine very often ends in less than 5 minutes. Straight - I did not start, he finished! And for the comment of 7 - men still justify themselves. If you can - change it. As rude as it sounds, it's not right for you to hurt yourself because of it. Be selfish - many health problems can occur due to poor sex. I still don't have that courage. But it is easier to give advice from the side.

   The fact that it ends in five minutes is not a bad thing if it has driven you crazy in many other ways before - you will need exactly five minutes to experience everything, and in such cases the men are then quickly ready to re-enter. double so there is nothing scary, THE IMPORTANT THING IS TO HAVE DESIRE AND PASSION - the rest to technical details.

   The problem is that you only have sex once a week and it collects a lot of semen and gets aroused quickly, so if you do it every day, I don't think there will be a problem, there won't be so much semen and it won't end so quickly. . Good luck, try it!

   I have this problem too. I love him and I can't leave him just for that. If you can, offer me pills to slow his ejaculation.

   I think that there are no pills, this is a problem and we can't put up with it, I hope they find a cure, if you don't take measures you will find a lover, these are the options. I know that there are men who know themselves, I only knew one of them. I COULDN'T BELIEVE

   My boyfriend is very good to me. We don't have sex, we just hug. He is a fifth grader

   I love my friend very much. He is a great dude and he is my sweetheart. His name is Ryzhko. He captivates me!

   This is for men: stuff your check before knocking and it lasts at least 20 minutes if you don't have an erection problem, and more importantly beat more checks so that when you knock you don't finish quickly and there are condoms for durex for longer pleasure (no I'm kidding, I've tried it)

   12, try Viagra 25, or the Bulgarian Eroton25. It prolongs my first act and after half an hour it happens again and then I can last an hour. M50 +

   The dirty whore left him, little man! Lower work are the women, what can the boy do! Horror

   N: 19 do not offend the girl. It will be like pretending to be a man, but it turns out that you can't do the most elementary thing! And you don't even admit it ... I'm sure that now the girl is happy with someone who wants and wants her, and not with that stump deprived of male hormones!

   Hello and for me sex is not one of the greatest experiences. Sex with my ex-boyfriend was magical, I finished every time, we even ended up together. I loved doing it and it charged me a lot. But he had other flaws and we broke up. My current boyfriend is a very good and responsible person, but sex is super bad. I no longer feel pleasure and my orgasm is gone ... a complete tragedy. I don't want to let myself in anymore. I feel offended. And something my desire disappeared: ((((((

   And have you tried licking MINE IS MAGIC LIKE A GEYZER

   Yes, that's right, but he doesn't like this type of love. It messes things up a lot. And that kills everything. Abe ... as I wrote above ... things are bad.

   Well, in fact, there are some retention sprays that slow down. They work wonders, you just have to follow the instructions carefully. Jump to the nearest sexwell and inquire. Otherwise, there is another tactic - as you should understand - each subsequent completion is slower than the previous one, if you do not mind you can hand him the first and faster and only then move on to the act. . Given its endurance - this gymnastics will not take you much time. Good luck.

   There are sprays, but almost all contain lidocaine (sold in pharmacies as a cream). If you are not given a lot of money. But the most important thing is to talk and solve the problem with each other. I know it's not easy, but try it. As a move, I recommend that before you get aroused, you help him with his hand or mouth to finish. Then smoke a cigarette, a bath, something, and when it's ready, start essentially.

   It is important. I had five married women as lovers just because their husbands ended quickly. A woman who once feels dissatisfied with malnutrition does not calm down until she gets fucked properly.

   Women just sit with open legs and wait - we do all the work and then complain :) the only thing we can do to make them sick is facecontrol, sex ---> asshole and the next and some above wrote that premature ejaculation is due to lack of male hormones in this comment ---> hahahaha Everything is mentally based and on experience with more women every man can endure more time I say it because I also ejaculated faster for 5-10 min, but after I had more boyfriends I gained self-confidence and experience - I know how to control myself and endure a lot. With more sex, but with different ones, I recommend it to everyone with this problem, because when you sleep with someone and expose yourself after you drop her, you will not hear her negative assessment and it remains a number you have done and brings you only self-confidence. If you feel hesitant in your skills, it affects sex ... and the women you supposedly hold on to your men - at least make them feel like men. The key to good sex for you is in your attitude towards us

   Sex is done by two, not just pumping between two legs. The relationship must be bilateral.

   Abe 2 women and 3 ducks make a whole fair. They just want me to sit at home and their husbands to carry the money. And it's very nice for women when they marry a rich dude and then tell their girlfriends that they've made that money and they deserve it. You know - a woman was walking and met another snake! 1

   Hello! My girlfriend and I have been in a relationship for 3 years and we love each other as if we are just falling in love. During this time, she has not experienced an orgasm even once, as before we met. Although it is very difficult for her, she never accused me or anything about it. We just try together and we always have a good time during sex and after. The duration of the whole act, including the love game and everything else, is in the order of an hour or two, depending on a bunch of factors, such as getting up early for work, etc. You can't really love the person next to you and dump him just because he finished fast! Check if the damage is not in your TV :-), as they say :)) Causes of premature ejaculation pain. Reasons for lack of female orgasm - many! My member is an average of 19 centimeters and there is a risk that it simply does not fit the vagina of the beloved. Hihiki :) Yes, such thoughts have occurred to me, but I did not go looking for a new girlfriend with a narrower vagina! Love yourself and remember that sex is important for a healthy relationship, but do not go to extremes! Greetings and more happy Bulgarians :)

   Try a foreplay before the act. It does a great job. ;)

   Hi, I'm a 24 year old man. I can't complain about sex with women, but sometimes I spend up to 3 hours without finishing. My "secret", try to get him not to get too aroused, about 80%, without softening him (if you understand me), 2nd option, holding spray. It is sprayed 2-3 times on the head of the penis, because 95% of the excitability receptors are there, the 3rd option arouses him, but make him not think only about you. From personal experience, I think 80% for the woman and 20% for some stupid and nasty things, it helps me hold more, 4th option, if the above do not help you stop the act 30 seconds before it is over and pull the balls firmly forward. The first 2-3 times it is quite painful, but he will get used to it, and it will not hurt later. The goal is to delay ejaculation by abruptly expanding the genital tract :) SUCCESS!

   Let's all read now with this problem! There is hope! Until recently, there was almost no solution to this problem except with antidepressants, and they have many unpleasant side effects and drastically reduce libido. Anyway ... I will not go into details about what does not work, but will go directly to what is working. You take a pack of fastum gel or something similar in its action and purpose. Apply twice daily in the area between the testicles and the anus. Rub well from end to end. The last lubrication should be one or two hours before sex. There is simply a muscle directly responsible for ejaculation and in some men it is too sensitive. Fastum gel is intended to reduce exacerbated conditions of muscle and joint pain, but in our case it simply reduces the sensitivity of the muscle responsible for the rapid ejaculation. I `m not joking! This works for 80% of people and has recently been prescribed by some of the most famous specialists in Bulgaria. If we add a whistle from the lady half an hour before the actual act or just masturbation, then the performance later is brilliant. Some people may have additional problems with an unstable erection and will wonder how to lift it a second time, having barely managed the first. There is also a cure for them and it is not Viagra or Levitra. Not that these two do not work, but have a very short effect, and the first and serious side effects. The best and relatively harmless drug at the moment is Cialis (tadalafil), which lasts up to 36 hours after taking it. Not that you will walk 36 hours in full combat readiness, and you will be able to lift it with minimal sexual stimulation. This works wonders. If you do not remember how hard it was for you when you were 18 years old, take a pill and you will remember :))) I do not recommend buying it from Bulgaria because it is very expensive here and almost not found. There are foreign sites that offer it at affordable prices. I will say the following to the women here - if you really love this man and you have decided that you want to help him deal with this problem together, then never, but never show that you are dissatisfied with him in bed. I know it's hard and somewhat unfair, but believe me, the man next to you wants to prove himself in bed more than you do, and it kills him. If necessary, simulate orgasms, but never sulk and always say that you are very happy. Explain how good it is and how you like to fuck you, how you have enough, but of course you wouldn't refuse to fuck even longer because it's great. We men are very stupid creatures and we believe a lot in imaginary compliments (because we rarely get them, unlike you). Don't use words like "problem", "I don't mind so much", etc. If you get him to worry about ending fast now, expect him to ejaculate in minutes, sometimes seconds. I have been struggling with this for a long time and I have fully understood the essence of the problem, looking for all sorts of ways to solve it. Definitely the partner is very important, because I have had ones that I always drive with for 15-30 minutes without finishing and ones that I finish with in 5 minutes. The truth is, the more a woman arouses you, the more time you last. If you are half-excited, you finish very quickly. If you are tired, you end up fast again, if you are worried again. Those women who abandon their husbands because of this problem do not understand them. I had a longtime partner who had to have her breasts cut off. I was with her until the end. I didn't even think to leave her because she was disfigured! I don't know if these men are not for you, but you are definitely not for them!

   Eh .. typically in Bulgarian on this topic there are ugly comments :( The girl shared her problem to seek help! Number 19- "dirty whore" as you called her left the man next to her, because hell is a woman to feel systematically dissatisfied.The same goes for the man-imagine her having sex and every time you remain over-excited and dissatisfied !!! This can go crazy and hurt! Number 28-what for the craziness we lay we were women with open legs and we have been waiting for them to do us good! What age do you live in ??? I personally do my best to make my husband go crazy in bed.I don't wait passively.I am passionate and proactive.He is really in seventh heaven when we make love Many other women are also ACTIVE and creative in bed, and sex is a pastime that should bring mutual satisfaction.and not a pleasure for just one partner.

   And I finish quickly, but before that or with me I make my wife finish. And she is not slow. Love game, toys, camera, camera, etc. and everyone is happy. Don't be selfish and have fun.

   Hello, a 28-year-old woman from the town of Kardzhali writes to you, I would like to share our problem with you. I have been married for 5 years, when my daughter was born, because she was crying a lot in her sleep, my husband moved to sleep in the other room and so we no longer gathered as a man and a woman in one room and in one bed, and this has been going on for 4 years. and a half. We are currently divided, precisely for this reason - the lack of any sexual contact between us and he is the one who avoids them or rather is afraid to have such. In the few cases where sex has taken place, it happens so that he gets a sexual interception or, to put it simply, he can't be aroused enough to get into penetration, I apologize for explaining it in this direct way, but I want to I explain it as it is so that you understand me correctly, and nothing comes of it. He went to a urologist and was told that everything was fine and due to a mental condition. We are currently separated because he, in turn, did not seek any competent help, a specialist to help him.

   On the subject, my friend also cooks for up to 5 minutes, but the problem is that we don't do it often. I noticed that if we repeat then the duration increases. If we do it every day, there are big improvements over time. I am 28 and he is so old, but it really depends on how often you do it, whether you are tired, etc. This is what happens to me sometimes, it depends on what kind of active life you lead. AC is happy with him and I don't see what a big problem it is that even if we separate, we've known each other for 5 years, we've lived together for 3 years and it doesn't always happen that something is done to us every night. So when you are asked to do it regularly, it is not necessary to repeat the act or every day, and for a short time it is still fun.

   39 You better not say you're 28. that when I look at elementary spelling mistakes you make kakino. "also svarshva", "produlzhitelnost", "vav vremeni" "As sam na28", "AS sam" 2nd time, "zadulzhitelno" (SHAMANA)

   Well done 28, he told them

   You are not well. You often watch porn. How long will this man finish? In 1 hour? Don't you see that in porn movies the actors run out after 20 minutes, but for those 20 minutes they can't harden it, which means that it's at least for the third time in a row. The first orgasm normally lasts less than 5 minutes. Each one is getting longer. You watch a lot of movies

   the big ... it's done by rested men who don't go to work or it's light, who don't work hard mentally, I'm sorry, I don't want to attack you but you women why do you blame us, it's more important to you how much I fix you or how hold?? , from 24 hours the man in your fantasies can fix you 23 ??? , otherwise on the subject, darling take your vibrator, or make money and make it rest (a long time)

   The easiest way to prolong the act is alcohol. The bad thing is that you have to hit the dose, for me the measure is when I get up from the table to stand on my feet, then I last for hours.

   I support 43. I have read all the comments and I notice that most women have a misconception about our sexuality. Every healthy man ends up in about 3 minutes, if he has not had sex recently or has not masturbated and has not used any means to control arousal. And when we're done, we lose strength and excitement. The repetition of the act depends on our health, mental, emotional and physical condition. We can't come back from work mentally or physically (or both) every day and expect to be like the men in the porn movies. And in other topics I have said it - go instead of us, and we rest all day and look after our health and fun and almost every night we will satisfy you. : D

   Hmm strange, the last time I had sex I finished in 45 minutes, but I was circumcised, and before that I masturbated, otherwise before I was circumcised I finished in about 20 minutes M19

   You haven't done it for a long time, my husband and I have been together for 1 year and have sex every day for two hours. Sometimes even twice a day.

   I really don't understand why you argue about duration, is it the most important thing? I can personally bring my wife to orgasm in about 15 minutes, before she has finished once while licking her. My control is that I can always finish with her at the same time. After that, both of us have their caps softened and we lie down not because of long flattery, but because of the violent and simultaneous orgasm, and even when we are not at work we do it more than once a day. The one-hour rants are for movers and record lovers.

   If you stick to it, I advise you to do it more often or consult a sexologist. Otherwise, I had the same problem and I understand you very well. I am a woman of 27 and I have little experience in this. I didn't cut it off, I just started having sex with another person, who satisfies me a lot more time and has quality sex. My partner keeps doing it for two, three to five minutes, but let me tell you, that's his problem. Otherwise, I hold on to him and I don't want to ruin my marriage for the sake of five minutes of pleasure. I found a partner to get my sexual needs and the fact that my husband can't achieve this and doesn't want to is his problem, he has a head with which to think as well as a penis to control when to end. At least I think so and you have to understand it. When there is passion and thrill, this should not be a problem. If there is no passion between you, just split up and find the sex stallion you dream of. But they are rare or already busy. It's up to you to judge ....

   Why don't you advise him to visit a urologist? My friend and I have the same problem, I talked to him a lot until I convinced him, but he listened to me and made an appointment. At first I was very dumb, then my desire for any contact with him disappeared and we started arguing a lot. Good thing he decided to see a doctor.

   I can keep it whenever I want and it's big. Is there any interested 28 year old? :)

   These women who dump their husbands for this thing are not worthy of any respect and at least in my opinion they are lower in the hierarchy even than prostitutes (I hope the administrators excuse me). You do not deserve a serious relationship with a man, because you do not appreciate your partner, you do not respect him, and there can be no question of love! And by the way, very few women, from those who wrote above, mention something about love as a factor in their relationship ... Only sex is commented, as if nothing else matters to them, but only to scratch one place ... And how did love evaporate from the moment you stopped having satisfying sex, dear ladies? This leads me to think that there was no love at all, because if there was love it would not evaporate so easily. There may have been passion and sexual desire on your part, but they should not be confused with love! A separate issue is that rapid ejaculation is not a medical problem (as some ladies try to get rid of it), but it is obviously something completely natural and normal for the majority of the male population on this planet. How come none of you looked for the problem in yourself? It is easier to shift the blame to the other than to seek a common solution. But in order to have the will for such common actions, there must first be feelings that make things happen. And with you, as I mentioned above, I do not see such feelings. Not to mention that 5 minutes is not a short time, especially if the sex is intense. Above, some have given an example with the acts in porn movies, where men last much longer. But at least according to my observations (and they are not small at all), the average duration of a porn movie / video is no more than 45 minutes, maximum 1 hour, I'm talking about modern movies. The actual sexual intercourse there lasts no more than 15 minutes (maximum), and in not infrequent cases much less. So, together with the foreplay, they gather for about 30 minutes of sex. So once the porn actors are done for the time being, draw your own conclusions about how bad your partners are in bed. I'm not saying that you can't have about 1 hour of sex if you want to, but that can't happen every day, especially in longer relationships when the partners are oversaturated with sex. In conclusion, I want to say that the "women" who wrote above should not be considered a representative sample of Bulgarian women, because it would be unfortunate and shameful for our society to be such. But still, for better or worse, I know there are. I'm sorry for the angry comment, but I'm upset by such men and women, for whom sex is a basic and most important value in life. :(

   Above I read some nonsense that a healthy man had cummed in 3 minutes. This is the biggest nonsense I've read about sex. We are not like animals (rabbits, for example) to "push" quickly for 3 minutes and ejaculate in the female to fertilize her. People invest in sex and feelings and see it as pleasure rather than fertilization. Normal sexual intercourse should last an average of about 20 minutes. If there is something extra like a love game, caresses are added to these 20 minutes and are not included in them. If you love each other enough and you are aroused from each other, 20 minutes are enough for the woman to cum 2-3 times at least before the cum ends. If someone can't finish in 20 minutes, then he has a problem, not his partner. Either he is not aroused enough or he no longer loves his partner. And that, that some men cum for 3 minutes to see him I will not believe it. This is not a joke. When I get aroused enough, I give pleasure to my girlfriend in advance with my tongue, kisses, fingers and everything and when she gets aroused enough (even sometimes she finished during that time) she is already wet enough and penetration follows. I caress her, I caress her, we change a few poses, I move slowly, at times I speed up and in 20 minutes (on average - sometimes more, depending on the mood we have reached an hour but she gets tired so long physically, sometimes a little less, but not less than 15 minutes) already oversatisfied and we both finish for the last time together. This in 3 minutes and as a sewing machine to do it again I will not be able to finish. If there really are such men - it is not normal. This is certainly not normal and something is lame in them. M28 When I get aroused enough, I give pleasure to my girlfriend in advance with my tongue, kisses, fingers and everything and when she gets aroused enough (even sometimes she finished during that time) she is already wet enough and penetration follows. I caress her, I caress her, we change a few poses, I move slowly, at times I speed up and in 20 minutes (on average - sometimes more, depending on the mood we have reached an hour but she gets tired so long physically, sometimes a little less, but not less than 15 minutes) already oversatisfied and we both finish for the last time together. This in 3 minutes and as a sewing machine to do it again I will not be able to finish. If there really are such men - it is not normal. This is certainly not normal and something is lame in them. M28 When I get aroused enough, I give pleasure to my girlfriend in advance with my tongue, kisses, fingers and everything and when she gets aroused enough (even sometimes she finished during that time) she is already wet enough and penetration follows. I caress her, I caress her, we change a few poses, I move slowly, at times I speed up and in 20 minutes (on average - sometimes more, depending on the mood we have reached an hour but she gets tired so long physically, sometimes a little less, but not less than 15 minutes) already oversatisfied and we both finish for the last time together. This in 3 minutes and as a sewing machine to do it again I will not be able to finish. If there really are such men - it is not normal. This is certainly not normal and something is lame in them. M28 fingers and all and when aroused enough (even sometimes and ended during this time) is already sufficiently wet and follows penetration. I caress her, I caress her, we change a few poses, I move slowly, at times I speed up and in 20 minutes (on average - sometimes more, depending on the mood we have reached an hour but she gets tired so long physically, sometimes a little less, but not less than 15 minutes) already oversatisfied and we both finish for the last time together. This in 3 minutes and as a sewing machine to do it again I will not be able to finish. If there really are such men - it is not normal. This is certainly not normal and something is lame in them. M28 fingers and all and when aroused enough (even sometimes and ended during this time) is already wet enough and follows penetration. I caress her, I caress her, we change a few poses, I move slowly, at times I speed up and in 20 minutes (on average - sometimes more, depending on the mood we have reached an hour but she gets tired so long physically, sometimes a little less, but not less than 15 minutes) already oversatisfied and we both finish for the last time together. This in 3 minutes and as a sewing machine to do it again I will not be able to finish. If there really are such men - it is not normal. This is certainly not normal and something is lame in them. M28 depending on the mood we have reached an hour but get tired for so long physically, sometimes a little less, but not less than 15 minutes) already oversatisfied and we both finish for the last time together. This in 3 minutes and as a sewing machine to do it again I will not be able to finish. If there really are such men - it is not normal. This is certainly not normal and something is lame in them. M28 depending on the mood we have reached an hour but get tired for so long physically, sometimes a little less, but not less than 15 minutes) already oversatisfied and we both finish for the last time together. This in 3 minutes and as a sewing machine to do it again I will not be able to finish. If there really are such men - it is not normal. This is certainly not normal and something is lame in them. M28