I met a guy, everything was more than perfect, he smoked weed and took pico, but it was pretty rare, as I did, but I always had some limitations. I fell in love at first sight with him, he knew how to me off and how to make me the happiest girl in the world (at least that's how I felt)... he had to go to another city for a few weeks, when he came home I realized that this was not the boy I fell in love with and some man completely unknown to me had started to be a dealer. Over time, things started to get easier and worse, he started to ignore me because of this, more and more often he started to take, but I was always there for him, but he started to walk away from me, he did not sleep for days, he cared only about the shi*ans drugs, unfortunately, I had to leave for a month outside Bulgaria, during this time I could not forgive myself because I could not help him and be by his side... I came back, and it was too late to return the man I fell in love with, who was next to me, who is no longer there... then for the first time I had the feeling that my heart would burst into countless pieces, began the indifference, scandals, jealousy, and unfortunately, he cheated, which I forgave because I wanted the same happiness again, but it was gone, never to return. He chose drugs over happiness and life. I decided I didn't have the strength to fight anymore, . as much as it hurt me, it was the only way to stop ruining myself, and I decided to give myself a month's rest, however much it hurt, we gave it to myself, and during that time I could not sleep, eat, sleep and think about anything other than him, even as they kept me informed of it. Yesterday we saw each other for the first time in a month, when I saw him, I felt like I had countless pegs stuck in my heart, I was going to collapse, I didn't have the strength to say move, I told him I loved him and that I would always be there for him and I'd give him a hand to get out of the abyss and he went crazy, he said we couldn't be together anymore, and that he was fine on his own. I can't watch the person I love die, and the worst can happen... He didn't miss anything, he had everything, materially and no. But a distraction can turn your life around so that even if you haven't figured out when it's over... I just want someone to advise me what is best to do to help him, I do not wish even my worst enemy such a thing, Thank you in advance!!!
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jess_peach_pie answered · June 17, 2020
You can't help him if he doesn't want to, you better help yourself and leave him alone.
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bambi_weeb answered · June 17, 2020
But you both started by thinking "It wasn't a drug. It's harmless. We are the shamans of the 21st century. "
Well bad thrill dude :)
M20
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alexandrajameson answered · June 17, 2020
Hi, I am a boy of 28 years, I do not know you at what age you are, but I know that if you continue like this - a way of humiliation, swallowing everything only in the name of the continuation of your relationship you humiliate Yourself, and one person above all must respect himself most! You want to be different- another boy, you need another person, a person other than that INDIVIDUAL (haha) - once he's got to a drug dealership and distribute drugs -run away to 5-6- years of it will only be left with the bones and bones, if he doesn't come in for a year - two, god forbid you make a family... prepare to watch it yourself :). You look like a smart girl, so it's time to grow up and endure the time of the breakup, but believe it is painfully believe that how much more time passes without this person being around you so much stronger you will become, and in time you will even thank God for ridding you of this environment and lifestyle. because it's not gradation, it's the other way around. YOU'RE JUST CHOOSING YOUR WAY IN LIFE, AND NOW IS THE TIME. But you have to be strong, you say NO, and that's it, or you say YES, and you keep humiliating yourself. You deserve better, the bad news is that you're used to it and it's going to be hard to quit, like you're stopping taking a drug, the good thing is that when you look at how many different and valuable drugs than yours are. :) Good luck and head up. Don't fight for lost causes.
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sexy_adalin answered · June 17, 2020
What's that? You don't deserve sympathy, you choose it yourself, keep it.
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grebel14 answered · June 17, 2020
Don't pay attention to nasty comments, people like that don't understand exactly what you're going through because they weren't in your shoes.
If he doesn't want to help himself, you can't force him. Drugs make you a different person, think about it. even if you get together sooner or later, he'il start stealing you and reaching you out. Once upon a time, drug addicts were stealing, now they're killing for drugs. Remember that from an anonymous woman who's seen terrible things because of the nasty drugs. As much as you love him, I believe you love yourself more and don't deserve that. I advise you to end all contact with him and get a grip, because you force no one to help. Help yourself like someone wrote up and left it, you don't deserve that, I'm sure.
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letspartyhardcloudy answered · June 18, 2020
My ex was a junkie. But he didn't admit it. He had started with grass, I disagreed, but at least it was rare, 2-3 times a year. Eventually he went to Sofia to study. The first few days he smoked so much weed, he didn't even know about me calling, asking me how I was. We had a lot of arguments, but I never found the strength to leave him. I was a little in love. Once, he's already a student and he's immortal, he decides to go to a disco with friends, and they convince him that it's better to take one bite so they don't drink too much and still make it cool and don't give money for alcohol.. When I saw his picture. One bhad, with blue lips. And I talked to him and we were fighting, and I still couldn't get him to stop them, it was obviously more important to him than I was. The next time we broke up, he went to the disco again, smoked weed, snorted, bits, alcohol and ended up passed out in the toilet. And to think that this piece of I loved just...
Finally.. I'm having a fight again. I went out with the class. He and his friend, and he finally calls me to know that I was snorting. I failed my send-off to try to get him some brains out and explain to him that I wouldn't have a future with him if he continued with these drugs. He was not a junkie. At my prom, the same thing, a friend of mine, the gentleman, was a junkie, and she used him to smoke. A little later, I asked him if he was snorting, at first he wouldn't say, he said to himself at the end, and I was furious again.
I ended up working and living with him, but then I knew what kind of garbage I had in my life. There were no problems at first. Then he started gathering somewhere and didn't come home. He was disappearing without saying where he was going and he didn't mean it. Finally, we had gathered and I went up to the room for 10 minutes, and by the time I got back I was looking at it with the white on my nose. I'm shouting what you got on your nose and he's shouting nothing. I deleted it with my finger and scrubbed it on his t-shirt and said good night and again I wrote that I and a junkie would not have a future.. And behind my back, he snorted.
Finally, I find a phone in the room. I'm asking him who he is. It was his friend's. You gave him to charge him..!? In the end, he confessed to becoming a dealer. And you see, it's the movies that these people are going to help him a lot, and so much so.
In fact, they're getting different under this.
I wasted 3 1/2 years of wind. And I believed he was going to be human.
That's some sludge, and the most you're going to suffer from! They don't care about the people around them, they just care about making the quick money, pulling a line, smoking marijuana for fun. And by the time they know it, they're already at the bottom.
And you know what's stupid, I'd probably still be with him if my parents didn't make me feel like I was guilty, and he didn't stand up for me for a second - well, do it, but now that I'm gone. And I would have forgiven him for everything.
He even used to do casinos. He had thrown so much money that he could buy a license and a car with them. And when I told him he was going to get to the bottom, he slapped me. And guess what- after a while, I was right.
With people like that, you don't have any.
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bojackhorseman99 answered · June 18, 2020
Get away from him quickly. Far. Saving yourself.