Hello! I'm 20 and I've had a friend for almost 3 years. In the beginning everything was great, but gradually we started arguing over small things. He has financial problems, and I also do not have great opportunities, and this creates difficulties for us. He is quite nervous at work and we hardly share anything anymore. I love him very much and I want things to get better. When we are together, things are better, but we can't see each other every day for the moment and that weighs on me. Give me advice on what to do to make things as in the beginning, to get better. I am very sad when we act as if we are not close. I forgot to mention that his family is talking to him against me simply because they don't want him to have a boyfriend so that he doesn't spend money on him.
1 anasbee answered
I can't explain why his family is of this ugly opinion ... Obviously it will be difficult to share it, not to mention building a family ... Think carefully about what you want? Inevitably, problems from any point of view reflect on human relationships, but this should not be a reason for alienation, quite the opposite! I hope things get better, but my advice is to support him emotionally, show him that you are by his side in every way! Maybe his financial situation weighs on him, and he would certainly like to provide a good life for the people he loves. Be patient! Success!