I am a 26 year old woman, my friend is as big as me. Fiancé already, because on my birthday in the spring he offered me. The summer of 2020 will be the wedding. I never gave him reasons to be jealous, nor is he obsessively jealous of me. That is, it gives me all the freedom in the world. And I appreciate the fact. He doesn't stop me from going out with girlfriends, he doesn't care about me, I don't care about him, he isn't jealous even of male friends. He is also a very good host, we share everything at home. He is not a lazy, very intelligent and curious person, has a special and refined sense of humor and is one of the most attractive men I have ever met. It's the best for me. We have literally given ourselves a lot of freedom, but we are monogamous and have no eyes for others. And here comes this "but". In rare cases where another man has had or has feelings for me and hasn't given up or we've had a story, unlocks some devil in him literally and wants to crush this man. He hates my exes, especially one of them. The first one lives abroad, in England, and that saves him, mine from being jealous of him, by just telling me "how a beautiful woman can let such a crooked man go" and that she is a "male muffin". We do not keep in touch, as our relationship ended in infidelity on his part. However, my other ex and I were together for a long time, but we were on very different waves, and I just told him, and later he tried to contact me several times. I removed it from the networks after all, precisely because of such a situation, when and if I have a new partner.
So my current friend knows my two exes only by face and from social networks, because he insisted that I show him and tell him about my past. Don't judge me, it doesn't matter but at the same time he has, because he has a strong hatred for the second ex. He spits at him with various names, follows his profiles and recognizes me in every second post of the man, he had written threats to him several times, such as "if you plan to return to her, I will crush you, she loves me and you are dead. for her". He told me that he would forgive my infidelity with everyone else and leave him for everyone else, but if I went back to my ex, he would beat him. I emphasize that he has never shown me any form of violence, has a lot of love and respect for women and is not a hot-tempered person. However, if a man hates a man, he will drive him crazy. It's not a mutra at all, so I don't understand this mutra behavior. I tell him to stop, he just repeats that it is a man's question and that I should not mow, it was not just for me, but a matter of honor. It dramatizes simply. You will tell me to leave it, but I love him and repeat that he has never been rude to me! But that doesn't mean I like treating others like that. I have no feelings for my ex, but I wish him all the best, we have long since forgotten and I do not know why my fiancé digs so much. The past is the past. There were uglier scenes. In the middle we met the ex and my friend shouted "hey garbage" and waved his middle finger.
We gathered our eyes. Another time we ran into Vitoshka in the evening, we were drunk, and my ex was just walking and mine started targeting him with papers from his pocket, which was extremely rude and immature. Yes, we were teenagers, I understand, but big people in their mid-20s who are planning a family soon. I warned him not to do that. It is a shame for a man about 2 meters to be exposed in this way. And unfortunately, my story is 100% true. He has not had such manifestations recently, but he does not stop monitoring the profiles and pouring fire and brimstone on the former. I'm not jealous of exes who don't interfere in life. The past is the past. What is this behavior? If it matters, I am from Veliko Tarnovo, my ex-boyfriend is from Sofia and my current one is from Pleven. He didn't know me at all before, nor did they know each other to be at war. Everything is inexplicable.
1 naiarazevedo answered
Your fiancé is not a tincho, but he is dumber than that. It's obviously a complex, you better not commit to one, it will make your life miserable!