Hello, I am 17 years old and I live with both my parents, we go on trips, on vacations, in a word, at first glance we are a very nice family. Dad's job is related to trade, ie we have our own shop where Daddy works and is completely dedicated to his work. Because our store is open from 10 to 20 in the evening during the week and I don't see him all day, but the store doesn't work only 2 days a week and then we spend time with the whole family together. But in the last 4, 5 years, Daddy has often started to be late with the excuses that he still has work to do, he has to go to the warehouse, or refuel, go to the store to shop, etc., and instead of coming home at 9 p.m. returns at 22, 23 hours. Mom and I are waiting for him for dinner, but he is not there and so we stay waiting. I've talked to my mom on this topic that sometimes my dad really gets late because he closes the store later and has a job, but I'm worried about something else. I think he's going to another woman. Mother and she think the same that she goes to another, I talked to her why not divorce or something but she does not want to divorce because I would suffer. I love him very much but what makes us cheat hurts me a lot. Help me and give me advice what to do?
1 mylenekush answered
I understand how you feel, my parents also break my heart by screaming. Yes, it is very likely that your father will go to another woman, but almost no one leaves his family for a lover. Maybe he's missing something in your marriage to your mother, or he's just been misled temporarily. Divorce is a difficult procedure, mostly emotionally, I think it may not get there. I think your mother should sit down and have a very frank conversation with your father.