My parents have been together for more than 17 years, they have never cheated on each other and they have loved each other. Unfortunately, as we lived well over the years, my father started drinking brandy and eating salad every night, ostensibly for tone. In time, he started drinking half a bottle, then a whole, blowing music and arguing with my mother. His father died of alcoholism, and I don't know how he didn't startle him. Recently, the money began to decline dramatically and he went abroad. In the beginning he sent more money and my mother and I pampered ourselves and were happy. However, when he returned to Bulgaria, he raised scandals that we did not save anything and quarreled over money every day. He promised that he would send only for bills and that my mother would get the rest from her salary, which is not much. Ever since he returned abroad, he has constantly said that his employer is lying to him and not paying him, and my mother and I are wondering how to survive. The other day we were looking at each other on Facebook and he was in a pub, as always drunk, playing on the typewriters and saying that he slept for 4 hours, he looked awful, all swollen, tired and told mom that he wanted us to live together. , as before. Mom got angry and left the room, seeing him and refusing to go to him, even though it is a neighboring country of ours. She saw where his money was going, how he was drawing people, and we were exhausted and she seemed to be lying that they were not paying him. I have 1 year left to finish, and he wants me to take a break here, which will ruin my future. My mother can no longer tolerate drunken stories, a lot has changed, getting married was not like that.
She wants to change him, to take him to gatherings for alcohol addicts, but he refuses, saying that she is not a drunkard, and her mother is afraid that she may have a stroke because she has a weak heart. I'm afraid for my life, if something happens, there's no one to pay for my education, textbooks are expensive, and she's been talking about divorce lately, even though she loves him but doesn't want someone ruining herself next to her. She thought of telling him to startle her, but he would tell her to look after her work, and since she had a higher income, he would condemn her and take me to him to be a servant to the guests she draws and to soak in the pubs. . Please help me, how do I make him change, I scared him with something, I roared on my knees, he doesn't want to hear. He promises that there are no more and then I see bottles hidden in us, I am angry that he is working, he is not lazy, but he wastes his life. Should we move in with him and fail his school to start learning you first in a new language there, in order to control it or to abandon it and somehow get better? I love it, but it's not what I expected, I'm disappointed. What to do? I ask the editors to publish it, because we will burst with nerves and anxiety with my mother.
1 little1world answered
You better dump him, people like him have no fix. Most of all, you have to finish your education, you only have one year left. :) Then go abroad and find a lucrative job. :)