Hello dear child, I will tell you what I said to my sister and you will probably not like it ... I also went through this ... My father started drinking, at first we did not pay attention to him, because we all know that in Bulgaria men like to turn 1-2 cups for dinner .... But soon he lost his job ... He started to lose his contacts little by little, because when he drank he became picky, little by little the hours of drinking displace. She started to change, to harass everyone, to insult my mother, to be jealous of her and to blame us for everything ... I can tell you that for a long time she stayed at home because of my sister, who was only 7 years old and did not want to to be a child of divorced parents. But over time, he began to live in his own world, refused to work and left everything in the hands of my mother ... So here is the denouement, in a wonderful moment hit my mother,
1 dark_shine answered
Bad, but your mother is at least as guilty as he is. He does not tolerate it, because of you, please - he tolerates it from weak character, from addiction, from stupidity, but not because of you. There are just women who are addicted to such men. Talk to your mother and ask her to give an ultimatum to your father. Be ready to pick up your luggage if you have to. Even in a social home you are better. Laura