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My Family Is Broken!

By hi_cut_cutie July 09, 2020 4 answers Last updated July 09, 2020

I am a married man of 25, my wife is only 5 years older than me. I found out she has a lover and I'm very sick, but I think I'm guilty too, so I didn't tell her I knew who she was dating. He is also married and has a child. I feel guilty because I had cheated on her with her friend, and on purpose, because we had quarreled, I had fallen into a crisis and so it happened. When I broke up with my girlfriend and told her that I loved my wife, she shouldn't look for me anymore and I realized that my wife had another one, to follow her, I sent people and I checked her phone.

 

And she behaves strangely, wants sex with me, dresses in sexy lingerie, but when I think about it and pretend to be asleep or tired and just do not know what to do. I love her and I have no right to judge her, I want everything to be as before, is this possible?

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creamiepeachandsir answered · July 09, 2020
He who goes to a gathering, his people go to the gathering. So you got exactly what you deserved. And she is in a hurry to get back while she still can - after a year or two, her parachute will not open.
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hessidy answered · July 09, 2020
It will never be the same as before. Once broken, sticking it together is not the same. You are guilty and now you are paying. She suffered before, now it's your turn. When you loved her, you didn't fuck another. Only from you how will you proceed from here on out. And will you find a way to each other. But it does not happen with silence and pretense. You are already even, if you find enough reason and strength you will speak openly and with respect to the other.
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kamus2 answered · July 09, 2020
So you had an affair with her friend, which is super mean and offensive to a woman, and then why did you go with someone else? !! Hey, this breakers will not learn! And no, it can't be like before, her trust in you is lost, you broke it first. If he had thought before you put him in another. It's too late for a wrist.
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bbc_carlos28 answered · July 10, 2020
You do even worse. You both love her and you are the first to start with infidelity and you are important. What will you achieve with your inappropriate behavior?
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