Hello .. Now I will tell you my story .. I am an 18 year old girl and I had a serious relationship with a boy who is 21 .. So we were together for two years ... We had small quarrels and things like that, but because I wanted me to remain friends we decided it would be better to separate. I broke up, it took me about a month and my birthday came .. I invited him .. And this friend of mine in question too ... In the middle of the party my girlfriend started dating my ex .. And she knew very well that I still love him .. I decided to make her come to the kitchen with me to help me and talk to her and say that what she is doing is pretty nasty, but she had swallowed a solid amount of alcohol and obviously not at all she understood what I was talking about and kept pushing my ex-boyfriend ... I felt very naughty, but what else could I do ... After a while, about a week, maybe my girlfriend and I had arranged a meeting in a neighborhood cafe. When I went to the arranged place she was with him .. With the boy I love .. I was surprised, I entered the restaurant and sat down with them ..
She pulled me aside and told me that they decided to try if he would go between them .. Then I felt super bad, But what could I do ... I tried to limit my contact with them .. Because my girlfriend was happy with him ... And I could not stand the sight of hugging and kissing .. I was in a nasty pain ... My heart sank every time I saw them together ... I wanted to tell him how I felt about him, I wanted to admit to him how I still loved him ... One Saturday after about a month since they were When I left, I gathered courage and called him ... I told him how I was feeling ...
I told him how much I missed him ... but I was afraid to hear what he was going to say ... Wouldn't he laugh at me? So I quickly hung up my phone and turned it off .. After about an hour the doorbell rang ... he opened the door and the moment I looked him in the eye .. he smiled at me and I blushed .. He asks me if we can talk and of course I agreed .. He told me that his feelings did not subside and that he wanted to meet again ... For a moment I felt really happy, but for God's sake he was going with my best friend. .. I couldn't refuse him, but I didn't agree ...
I told him that we could get together, but we wouldn't tell my girlfriend for a while ... He told me that he would explain to her that he wanted to get together and he can't walk with both of us at the same time, but something like that happened ... I'm dating my ex-boyfriend, who is my best friend's boyfriend ... I wonder how to tell her? !? !! What to do? If anyone can advise me I would be very grateful :)
1 va1dis answered
You are not angry, but you have acted very hypocritically. 1st - you were separated when the other girl went with him. 2nd you suggested not to say anything to her. I'll tell you what the trick of the boy here is - he doesn't love any of you, he just fucks himself in a variety of ways - he likes you, he likes her - he fucks her in various ways. A very humiliating situation for you, because you offered yourself to him ... cheaply. Otherwise he doesn't respect you and doesn't love you - otherwise he wouldn't have gone with the other one. He just likes having two babes. Not bad. To him, he's a dude. In front of his friends he is probably the biggest dude, they are bursting with ridicule at you - the gums. However, your relationship has no future and you are 100% wasting your time. In the end, the man will meet a third person who will really love and will dump you both - both cheap, easy babes who offer themselves ... cheap ... and become a laughing stock. Understand that men don't like them in the long run - especially traitors and hypocrites, liars and similar women who don't respect themselves the most.