There was a time, two years ago, a girl who waited for the prince to appear and be happy. The prince appeared, I fell madly in love and we started a relationship. We decided to try abroad and came here. There was a hell here that I don't know if I'm used to, but maybe I came to terms with. We work unskilled work, especially me, I work for very little money. We have enough to experience. This has been the case for almost two years. In the beginning, we had a lot of problems with him because of the money, because he kept lying to me that his money was being delayed. Later I realized that he either played them or lent them and so on at times. I decided I couldn't do that and left him. He apologizes, explains and I forgave him because I really love him and I believed maybe I still believe that he will change. Since last year, there has been a big change in his attitude and finances, perhaps as a result of the long conversations I had with him. But at the moment we still do not have and are entirely at my expense, this time the reason is that the employer had problems and delayed payment.
Nothing new for me, I know he's lying to me, I lost faith in him. Would you say why you are with him? I don't know love or habit or addiction I can't say. If I'm not there, I don't know what would have happened, I save his skin so many times, but sometimes he acts like he doesn't appreciate it. I almost have to endure it. in general, the problems with money and its nepukism make me think and I start to wonder. Why is he with me? For the certainty that if I'm late I'm on my way. Or because he is attached and loves me. In a fit of rage I told him that if he was rich and capable, he would not be with me, but with another type of woman. That is, I am an ordinary working woman. I'm not ugly or unsupported, but I'm not anything wow. That is, I have no money to pamper myself to get a manicure, to paint at a hairdresser. I support myself as much as I can, take care of the home, etc. I'm not saying that he doesn't show me love and respect or that he doesn't give anything for the home, but it's as if I'm the one who supports everything and keeps it as tight as he can. I just wonder if he was better and calmer, would he be with me or just with me, because I give him a sense of security and stability.
I just have the feeling that I have these masculine qualities that I have always wanted the man to have and I always quarrel with him because he is irresponsible and I try to almost re-educate him. I know it's not right, I'm not his mother, but I can't reconcile, that he doesn't worry as much as I do and isn't enthusiastic about saving to achieve goals, he just talks. I'm just tired of misery and poverty. I don't want to be rich, I want to have enough and not worry so much, but I want him to take on his responsibilities as a man as head of the family. I want to get out of this cycle. I would like to read your opinions and advice, thank you in advance. For the record, I am a woman of 28, he is 30. thank you in advance. For the record, I am a woman of 28, he is 30. thank you in advance. For the record, I am a woman of 28, he is 30.
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Say that they are slowing it down for you too, they kept half of it for you. And even if they delay it, he takes it. I think it's so easy for him.