I'm not even good at both subjects, I just don't like them, I'm not interested in that. I hate just imagining that human life can depend on me, being a doctor is a big responsibility, I can't bear it on my back. I don't think my psyche would last. I recently had a serious conversation with our people because of that, they didn't even want to hear me. For them, only medicine brings income and is a normal profession. My father made it clear that if I did not comply with their wish, he would expel me or he would deny me and such talk that hurt me terribly. How do I explain to them that "not every tree blows a whistle"? I love them both very much, they did everything for me, but their mania to be a doctor has brainwashed them, it has become a fixed idea. They hurt me terribly, they don't even consider it necessary to hear what I want. I don't want to learn this in time, just because they want to. I don't want to make the mistake one of my cousins made. He was eager to become a doctor, and when he realized it wasn't for him, it was too late. Since then, he hasn't even kept in touch with theirs. :( I'm sorry if I bored you. Please give me advice, now I'm only 15, and when I turn 18 what kind of AD will it be ... I don't want to spoil my relationship with ours, but I also don't want to be a doctor. I want my dream !!! Help !!! but I also don't want to be a doctor. I want my dream !!! Help !!! but I also don't want to be a doctor. I want my dream !!! Help !!!
1 cyrilramaphosa answered
Don't worry, let a teacher or relative SERIOUSLY praise you. Explain this to your parents. If they don't understand you again, just keep quiet ... And sooner or later they will understand that. Another option is to write something like this in your diary: Dear diary, My parents want me to draw, I've won awards, but they just can't hear me. This is my dream! I'm sad ... I put myself in their shoes, but I still want to paint. I need advice :( One girl