Hello dear readers, G21 writes to you, studies at a university in Sofia and works in foreign languages. My closest friend, with whom I have known since high school, for maybe 5 years now, had to go on a trip abroad together. I worked very hard, I collected money, I lost a lot of things, I took my vacation in a month when it is not very convenient for the company to do it. We have been looking forward to this holiday for almost 6 months.
This would be my first trip outside Bulgaria. Our time together as she lives abroad and we only see each other for the summer. She gave up at the last minute. There are 5 days until our departure. Reason: I didn't take a good look at the date, we didn't understand each other, I'm also distracted by PPC. Today I had to meet her at 3 o'clock at night and sleep with us. I didn't understand, I thought, that this was supposed to happen tomorrow, not today. I told her to order in our country, however, 24689 times she repeated that there was no problem. And she won't, told theirs that I've turned away kind of. Argument: I was too windy and that created too many problems for her. She accuses me of not paying as much attention to her as I did of the boys I've been dating lately. This is not true, I always listen to her, we write to each other all day, even that day I stayed with her until 6 o'clock in the morning to write to her to calm her down (because she felt bad). Not that I point it out as a fact and expect gratitude, no, but it just has to be noted as a fact. She wants me to look for another person to go with or to prevent her mother's trip. But not only am I not with anyone, but I also wanted her to be with her, to have our time together. I apologized to her. She does not accept it. This is not the first time he has used the trip as an ultimatum (?). But this time it sounds really serious. I have a birthday soon, I don't want any presents, I just want to go on this trip with her. How can I pardon her? Is there any chance? What to do? I want to go with her!
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I am already a 27-year-old woman. I live abroad and my ex-best friend lives in Bulgaria. We have been going on excursions for several years. I will describe our relationship to you. We wrote to each other every day about almost everything, the same sense of humor, etc. When I came home in the summer before each trip and saw each other, the attitude changed radically. He was silent most of the time, and the explanation was "you know I don't like to talk." For almost everything I offered, I was in opposition. My expectations were completely different, given that we get along very well on the phone. I couldn't and still can't explain why. I've always compromised, and she was inclined sometimes, but it wasn't as much fun as I wanted. Our last trip was a month and a half ago somewhere and it will really be our last. I've been so upset since then that I couldn't write to her as much as she did to me. I think that's better. I'm writing this to make you wonder if it's worth squandering your savings and going through the fire for a manipulative person like your girlfriend.