My friend wanted a child at the very beginning of our relationship, there were no 4 months, now we have been together for 11 months, I am a student for 3 years part-time, I work and study and it is quite difficult for me, and what is left for 1 child. I love children very much, I like to take care of them, but I am afraid that 'our child' will not have a home, the necessary conditions, and our parents do not agree with our relationship, they are even afraid of getting into trouble. !! What to do I am often tempted, but I think I would not be able to cope for now. We talked to my boyfriend, but he wants to become a father and does not accept my opinion ... and I still think that one day he will 'spill' in me without realizing it!
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Is your friend also a student? I wouldn't trust him. I have a feeling he wants to bother you. You know things best, but that's what it looks like from what you've written. My advice, if you want one, is: keep one thing in mind and don't listen to anyone. Follow yourself and what you decide and judge. Even if you make a mistake, it's not scary ... it's scarier if you make a mistake under the influence of someone else.