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My Boss Takes Me Down, But He's Like A Woman And Annoys Me Like Hell, Give Me Ideas!

By mustboy99 July 09, 2020 14 answers Last updated July 09, 2020

I have had a new boss for 3 months, I work in the marketing department of one of the telecommunications operators, I will not say who. So 3 months ago we were hit by a costumed little boy, a protégé, for the head of the department. He is 38 years old, but such a fragile man, he is not even 60 kilograms, his face is smooth, shiny from a lot of creams, and he is often splashed with foundation. Gentle, like a woman straight. I was convinced that it was not only a metrosexual male cocoon but also a clean pedal. Ethereal scarves to the suits, and his manners are exquisite and gentle, that you have a pedal from 100 meters. I was convinced he was gay until he started courting and taking me off after the first month. I call it a joke, but the female is definitely serious in her intentions. I told him that I was engaged, that I had a boyfriend, but he was impudent and even pointed out that he was a far more appropriate and promising party for me than some simple pizzeria - that's what he allowed himself to call my boyfriend on several occasions. hints in various ways that he is a simple pizzeria and I am not for him.

 

Well, he's a pizzeria, as such he works in a pizzeria, but he's a dude on the spot and I like him. And to be honest, I'm getting quite annoyed by the boss's dumps, he's arrogant and impudent, he acts like he's convinced he's going to take me down, even brazenly as if we're already like boyfriends, he whispers and in front of colleagues sentences like we're a couple and such slimy basics which just make me angry. I feel like slapping him. And for now, I refrain from telling my friend about the dumps and talk about him, that if mine catches him and, to put it mildly, shakes the powder and the t-shirt off his face, he will make up his cosmetic face for weeks to come. I think I can beat that pamper, let alone my friend if he catches it.

 

This guarantee will stop the crib from behaving like that, but I will be fired if it is a mistake to find out that we are boyfriends. Another option I think of a signal of sexual harassment and violation of privacy and comfort in the workplace, there are such things, I can complain about human resources, but I know that it is a protégé and I do not know if I will subsequently lose my position again. He will calm down if he complains, but I may be released in a month or two for some reason.


I don't know what to do, how to act, and to make this pathetic semblance of a man stop pretending to be like me with his stupid dumps and insults. Even colleagues are already talking nonsense and joking that we are boyfriends, but I don't like these jokes. They talk a lot with him, so do I - big fucks straight and comments, nicknames popped up in the second week, behind his back very clearly - the powder, dandy-pandy, scarf, scarf-pedal and handkerchief we named him in the office - the handkerchief because he constantly uses handkerchiefs, but those made of fabric embroidered with lace and embroidery as from the Victorian era - hahaha.


Give advice, if you have ideas, I will appreciate useful advice that there is almost no day when I do not get nervous several times with my mold dumps.

Answers 14

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fatcock0123 answered · July 09, 2020
Tell him that if he doesn't stop, you'll sue for sexual harassment.
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mrg1nger answered · July 09, 2020
How old are you? At 22? Powder, foundation, scarf, muzzle, face, cream, face ... Disgusting manner of speech. Go check the reality in the mirror and stop talking like a liar. If your boss is there, he'll realize he's not wanted. Tell him the nonsense you wrote here and he will give up. If you don't like it, leave and you're done. He will even file a complaint of sexual harassment ... What if you're not in the United States? You live in a male world, as I said, go do a reality check and don't bother people with nonsense.
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cupcakezxxx answered · July 09, 2020
Ask your dude, he will give you the right advice. He's a real dude man, he knows how to unravel such complex love knots. And a friend in need is known, if not someone else will help you.
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lisa_thi answered · July 09, 2020
I will give you advice on these cases that you plan to file. You are small and you look at things a little naively. Litigation should be a last resort in resolving a problem. The outcome is often vague, unpredictable and potentially frustrating, and you only fill the throats of lawyers. Especially for something as difficult to prove as sexual harassment.
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horny_3some answered · July 09, 2020
lol, number 2 may be slightly recognized in the 38-year-old fragile boss :) :) Seriously, people like this usually just refuse to accept reality, and live with the attitude that anyone who rejects them does so because they are ashamed or something. They think that everyone they target will be theirs, just because they have some more money. They are very pathetic and funny. Instead of praising the girl for not being a whore and holding on to her boyfriend, even though he is not an aging dude with money, but an ordinary working man, you are writing some nonsense to her here.
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ashe_silver_ answered · July 09, 2020
Either you keep an icy attitude and you last or you call his boss and explain the situation to him.
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daddysnawtyqueen answered · July 10, 2020
In my opinion, you do the following - you go to the Fat Man and tell him to stop, because you don't like it, and if he doesn't stop, you will complain to your boyfriend. You can tell him in front of others, have witnesses. If he continues, you go to the Czech Republic and say that he is bothering you, to talk to him and if they do not take measures, you will want a meeting with the executive doctor. Believe me, high-ranking bosses do not tolerate such things, the Czech Republic knows it and will become more active. From there, there are not many options for development - the question is whether you have the strength to go through them, or to let yourself be crushed. It is possible that he will try to do the trick to you, so it is important to be flawless in your work, not to give him a reason, and on the other hand it will be a plus for you, because whatever he does against you, people will say it is because that you cut it off. Arm yourself with firmness and do not give up, not like those in the West - 20 years ago she bowed to him because of her career, and now she is roaring that he took advantage of it.
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ingridmoreira1995 answered · July 10, 2020
I hope this 'pedal' (because I'm like that) hits your clown. You seem to be getting more attention. Women are always like that. Plus, what you're saying doesn't have to be the truth. You love to beautify. Not to mention that this is your perspective, not his. If there is sexual harassment, there are policies. You go to HR and that's it. No wonder you're one of those intriguers who just gossip and gossip with others.
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bidibombom answered · July 10, 2020
To number 2 - I'm not 22, I'm older, but I don't think it matters how old I am. And my boss is obviously out of place, isn't it clear from what I've written? And I'm not in the US, but so what - should I last? And I used the diminutive words because it is diminutive of a man - it is feminine and the meat of a brother-in-law. To number 5 - thanks for the support :) To number 7 - I'm more about telling my friend than the Czech Republic, because he is a liaison, and we know how things are in BG and with the protégés. To number 8 - What do you mean the pedal beats my jester? We are not boyfriends, and I do not knit the intrigues, but the pedal does it openly and brazenly.
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aitthen12 answered · July 11, 2020
Many men felt affected by the author. Especially No. 8, try to explain more calmly what you want to say, because as you froth, you don't understand anything. Where to get rid of her, from work? Is he with her in any way to get her out of his personal life? And should she be flattered and immediately rush to him, because he was a prospect? Oddly enough for many people, normal women fall in love with real men, not powdered metrosexual men. The other, what is the problem with the author's speech? Everyone here is an associate professor and professor, so should a strictly official way of speaking be followed? Come on, enough nonsense .... The author, just tell him that you like men, and he does not fall into this category, if possible in front of other colleagues. He will certainly give up after that. Good luck.
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dick_demon_1 answered · July 11, 2020
From the author To number 10 - you're great, he spoke very accurately, I also had a hard time understanding number 8, but I think I understood what he meant :) :) :). And as I already said in my previous comment - I spoke in a diminutive way, because the boss is a diminutive little boy, his subway pedal is straight. And I don't want the subway men to be offended if they read like that, but to me he's not a man. And it also has some acceptable limits for metrosexuality, as I accept to some extent, the man must be supported, but with people like him he is far beyond the acceptable limits and somehow this, not only I do not like, but even disgust I feel. It is obvious everywhere that in the morning an important attribute is the make-up brush and the sponge for colored powders and foundation, and his face shines all day with flint - it's rubbish, but it's not just a subway, it's feminine, and for a man his word is pedal. She is more tender than me, and I am not a man, like a country innkeeper, I consider myself a woman. Remember what a gentle pamper he is. And I don't know, didn't you pay attention when I shared that almost everyone is already making fun of him behind his back and inventing a bunch of gay nicknames for him. That is, it is not only my opinion that he is mega tender and feminine for a man, but it is a mass attitude towards him. And as he advised me to tell him that I like men, and he is not like that for me - I happened to burn him a few times for his feminine manners, but not to make fun of him, but because I already got on a lot. head and forces me. He regularly hangs his wrists and blows his palms as he walks, or as he speaks 2-3 times, while he was explaining various things to us, I also hung my wrists on purpose and looking at him. But he didn't even move, he obviously enjoys being pasta and he is still confident in his intentions towards me. I understand why at the age of 38 he doesn't have a wife, so who would take him? Well, it won't be me, this woman. She would neither feel masculine next to her, nor could she receive protection and protection. If someone touches her, what is she doing, will she blow her wrists and will she powder herself !? Hahaha.
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alaskawaves answered · July 12, 2020
I myself am very much against the feminist model in the West, in which a smile is accused of sexual harassment. But here we are obviously at the other extreme and we do not do it even when necessary. And this is clearly the case. Author, in my opinion, speak directly to your boss, explain to him in plain text that you do not like it and if it does not stop, you will complain to Human Resources. And if he doesn't change his behavior, do it. Explain to them that you will blow up the case and see how quickly they will solve the problem. No wonder the boss flew out.
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sweett_coco answered · July 12, 2020
From number 13, I forgot to add. I witnessed a similar case in which a similar liaison harassed a colleague. She complained. True, she was finally forced to leave. But when she was released, she was paid a large compensation, 5-6 salaries, so as not to disclose publicly information about what exactly happened and not to damage the company's image. Also consult a lawyer if necessary before going to the Czech Republic.
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lucybond_ answered · July 12, 2020
There is a development - I left and I have been at a new job since January 20, and my friend in turn slapped the powder 6 days ago. Not seriously, just humiliating slaps without hurting him, that the female would easily be damaged by a more serious fight and will judge later. I made an appointment with him, he kept looking for me on the phone and viber, so I made an appointment with him, and when he came, my friend appeared. He took the bouquet of flowers given to me a while ago from my hands, asked him - will you leave her alone, pedal ..... he repeated the pedal several times, and the litter got very scared and with his typical feminine manners he started to stutter and stuttering. Mine shook him with a bouquet across his face and then three slaps, and after the second and after the third slap the powder fell to the ground, started screaming for help and jealous like an absolute girl, I tell you, hellishly pathetic and funny - with a roar he promised that he will no longer look for me, mine shouted for him to disappear on the run, told him to disappear on the run until he disappeared from our sight, and the slapped little man ran and stumbled to escape in tears. Hahahaha - I'm not a bully and I don't like violence, but I tell you that I liked it and it gave me pleasure to see mine slap it and tear it apart with ease. All his impudence and self-confidence that he was someone and my pizzeria was nobody, had evaporated and the pampering almost shit with horror ..... and I don't know, in fact, he may have gone out in his pants while running torn.
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