Hi, I'm a girl of 13 and I want to share my "problem". I honestly don't know if it's a problem. I always thought that my biggest fear was loneliness. And maybe so. Whenever I sit at home for at least 1 day without going out, just because I can't go out, I start to panic. I'm starting to think I'm terrible. That my friends have forgotten me. In fact, I realize that what I think is wrong, but I still panic. There is even a roar sometimes. I just think the exact definition of this is that I like to be alone, but not lonely (I know it sounds weird, but I find meaning in it). I want to ask you if this is normal and if I need a psychologist.
1 nessajkek answered
Do you happen to be a Pisces zodiac sign ?? / this is typical for us / I don't think you need a psychologist now, but if you get worse it may be useful for you .... Otherwise, try to repeat to yourself that your friends care about you, but they also have a life of their own. .. Loneliness is terrible, but it is even scarier when a person does not find time for himself. When you have to be on your own, distract yourself by checking out work - write your homework more carefully, help mom with the housework, go for example to a doctor, dentist and so on. Find your own hobbies - run, go to the pool, paint, read, write eventually ... It is a good idea to make a home spa, for example, with some natural masks for face, hair, nails ... Look in the floor, there are them a lot. Just find something to fill your time with and make you happy. It is also a good idea to go around the town / village on your own - you can meet new people, notice something interesting that you did not pay attention to when you are with other people ... I would write you my Skype, but they will probably delete it. .. ... a 15-year-old girl after all. answer if possible!