Hello You already understand my problem from the title. The situation is as follows: I have been a very good friend of a girl for a year. Indeed, she is one of my closest friends I will ever have. He supports me a hell of a lot. It helps me even more. She did things for me that made me cry. But, there always seems to be a "but". Everything was going very well, but I've been running out of money for about 6 months. Sometimes small amounts like 10-20 stotinki, but it also happened 10 levs. Most often my money disappears at school. When I first told her I was missing money, she told me she was missing money too. Then there were a few more times when, after sharing it with her, she told me she missed it. One day I invited her to join us. I had to take a bath and went to the bathroom, but I had forgotten something and went back to the room. Guess what I found. She standing over my purse, with ten leva in hand. When I saw her, she was startled and started muttering things like "your money will fall and you will lose it, take it away". It seemed strange to me then, but I told myself it was possible and went to the bathroom again. Yes, I'm an idiot. I know. But I had complete confidence in this girl, and it never occurred to me that she could do such a thing. That's why I accepted it as something normal and soon forgot it. I kept running out of money at school. Today 20 stotinki, tomorrow 50 and I no longer want to think about how much money they took from me. Nor who did it. Before my mother was a night shift and during the day she slept. I dressed in the bathroom because my girlfriend was in my room so we wouldn't make any noise in the living room, which is close to the bedroom. My mother got up to drink water and heard someone running from the living room to my room. When she came in, she saw my friend putting something in her jacket pocket. A few days later, I told her I suspected her, and she told me to stop going out with her. I kept blaming, along with her, a classmate. We constantly watched him to see if he would step on the wrong foot, and if that happened we would betray him to our lady. But it turned out that while I was waiting for the wolf in front of the henhouse, I locked the fox inside without counting the hens. And they kept shrinking, and I wondered where the hole was. He recently came home again. I had left my bag with her purse inside. I left the room for no more than three minutes and came back, opened my purse and instead of 10 leva, I saw only 5 inside. I was literally dizzy. I was so sick I had to sit down. I sat and kept looking at the open purse, wondering where it came from. She noticed this and was a little startled. I didn't know what to do. I was so angry, but also five times more disappointed. I thought of asking her "Why !", shouting at her, raising a scandal, but somehow I just didn't have the strength. Even if I had asked her, she would have answered that she did not know what it was about. He would not admit it. And who would? Once you have the weakness to steal, you don't have the strength to admit ... We left us, I tried to look normal, but everything brought me back to this purse and her guilty look. I hated her because I felt guilty. Yes, I feel guilty. That I saw her. I thought, again, that I was mistaken. That I did not put 10 leva, but only 5. I denied. The days passed and I got used to the idea that I put only 5 leva. We were at school and I wanted to go to the toilet. I asked her to hold my bag and jacket, in which I had 2 levs and yellow pennies. When I put on my jacket again, only the yellow pennies were left. This time I was determined to shout at her. I had just opened my mouth and two girls entered the toilet. I didn't want to raise a scandal in front of them and at school, so that I wouldn't end up taking it. But more and more I think I have to tell her. But I have to be 100000% sure. And I'm not even after all this. What do you think? Is this her? If so, how do I tell her? But I have to be 100000% sure. And I'm not even after all this. What do you think? Is this her? If so, how do I tell her? But I have to be 100000% sure. And I'm not even after all this. What do you think? Is this her? If so, how do I tell her?
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You immediately stop hanging out with this person, then go to the parents with yours and explain to them what their daughter is doing to take action. You raise the issue in front of your class, as well as in front of the principal, you tell everyone in the class what kind of product it is to protect themselves from it. Today you may be different tomorrow. Years ago I was friends with a girl from the neighborhood 3-4 years younger than me. The moment I learned that he was stealing and almost dragged me into trouble with my girlfriend, I stopped hanging out with her. Then she was 7 and she was 11. And only that she stole from the shops, but at that fragile age she lied and wrote. Then, at the age of 14, he stopped going to school and became a whore, changing his girlfriends like handkerchiefs. I don't think what it's like today, it's almost 23 years old. Cut this one and that's it, but you also made it impossible for other people not to get hurt.