Hello! I want to share a story with you. It's about my best friend. We have known each other for 6 years. We were boyfriends for 2 years. We are best friends now, but there is a very big problem ... he is still in love with me! I don't love him and I really only feel him as a friend. We've talked about this a million times. In every way I showed him that I wanted nothing more than friendship, but he didn't understand. I think he suffers from a sense of ownership. We get along very well, he constantly gives me compliments and gifts, he wants us to be together all the time and that kills me. Not for anything else, but because when I tell him (he's my best friend after all) that I like another boy and it starts with the questions: "Aren't you going to have anything serious with him" , "Aren't you going to fall in love ?!" and things like that. And when I started dating other guys: "I know you very well, you will go with him now, you will forget about me and you will ignore me ..." ... I started to like him. I've neglected the guys I'm with because of him a thousand times ... so I don't lose my only true friend anyway. I don't know what to do anymore, but I can barely stand not to scold him and lose him. He gets along very well with my parents and they like him, so he comes home whenever he wants. Yes, but I also need a little personal space ... a little freedom. He doesn't date anyone but me. He has abandoned his best friends, with whom he has known since he was a child, and with whom they were once inseparable, so that he can constantly monitor what I do. He had a girlfriend, but he dumped her so he could spend more time with me. I do not understand?!!! This seems to be a disease state of his. Please help me ... I really don't know what to do !!!
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So, I can say that I am in a similar situation, to a girl, I have the same fears and hopes for her. I'll just say, don't waste it, you won't be able to remove what is left with swearing and cursing and be rude to him, he will love you again ...