So some time ago my best friend fell in love with a boy and so gradually we gradually started to get together with him and his company. However, he constantly took me down how to say it, but I didn't even pay attention to him, because I know that she likes him and I didn't notice at all what he was saying to me, etc. But time has passed with him, that is, I, my girlfriend, and he continues to be good, Fr. , but I'm starting to like him, she tells me that she hasn't felt anything for him anymore, but it's obvious that she doesn't, and I understand him. At the moment, this boy has a girlfriend, but he continues to treat me as before and I still like him. He has already begun to understand this and is starting to behave even more strangely with me (he calls me, we're going out quite friendly, but ...). I am currently arguing with my friend, that I'm in love with another boy (a nice boy from the neighborhood), but inwardly, I like him. I do not hide anything from her. I always tell her when we go out, where we go, what we do, and in fact we don't do anything that is not normal, that is ... (you understood me;)). We both know and see how things stand. But in spite of everything, he is looking to turn the subject to his girlfriend, what happened last, what they quarreled about, how they broke up. But ... in fact, we both see that things are not like that and that they can't go on like this, that something has to be done, but we cover everything up, as if neither I know what it is about, nor he. we both behave the way we try to do things. I do not know what to do. Should I tell her (she's my best friend after all), whether to hide (everything can go wrong). Nz ... But I know one thing that confuses me a lot - all the boys are the same !!! I don't know if you understand me exactly, but I really need some comment or advice or just something on the subject.
1 danisdressingroom answered
Hello lovely girl! As a kid, I was in a situation like yours many times, and I think you have to choose between your girlfriend and the boy you like. In no case do not share your feelings for 'her' person - if you do it you will become an enemy no matter how you say it or if he convinces you that there is no problem I guarantee you !! You won't be able to have both, because if you go with the boy, your girlfriend will feel betrayed (even if she doesn't show it). So you have to make a choice - to keep your friendship and end contact with the boy or go with him, but lose your girlfriend. The choice is yours! My advice is leave the gentleman in question to your girlfriend, there are a lot of guys, it's not worth losing her for someone you probably won't stay with for long.