Hello, my story is the following I am Bulgarian, but I fell in love with a Turk (He is not a Bulgarian Turk). When we met he was engaged (5 year relationship). While he was with his girlfriend, he looked for me and said that he loved me and wanted to help him at university because he did not understand the language well. At first I was kind of happy, I started thinking about him, jealous of him for no reason from his girlfriend. Some feelings began to arise in me. I told him at the beginning to leave his girlfriend and be with me, he was silent and did nothing but tell me that he loved me. I blocked him on Facebook, we didn't have any contact all summer, in the fall I realized that he refused to follow and didn't record the following year. At the end of the spring he had broken up with his girlfriend, but at her request, as far as I could tell. He went to his hometown to look for her until the end and a month later he looked for me again. He invited me to see him, we went for coffee, he seemed bored as if he was doing something like that. We wrote invitations to your home, we had intimacy, but we did not reach the end at my request. I knew he wasn't trying for anything. He was depressed and told me that he felt bad and that spending too much time with me worked well for him, that he just wanted to be happy and calm. I blocked him after I told him one night that I would travel, he didn't even send me to the station. After two months I unblocked him, he wrote again, we met again, it was an idea better until my next trip, I almost begged him to come, he didn't come, he told me that he was late (he was at work), he even broke flowers from some garden, which he subsequently showed me that he kept them in a book. He also showed me some candies, which I had forgotten in his home 5 months ago. My problem is that I am sentimental and I am attached to this kind of thing only in words for a year and I believe something in the lie that this person loves me and has not proved it with any actions. And I, the fool, fell in love to the ears for nothing and nothing, when I'm with him I am tormented by numerous doubts I love him I make many compromises with myself, but I realize that he does not love me and hurts everyone tells me I'm a decent girl and I deserve something better, I realize it and it hurts me even more, you can't imagine. We were intimate again, we asked if I wanted to do it, but I refused again. He accepted my decision again and fell asleep in the morning. I had to go to work. He sent me again only to the front door, which was the last slap in the face. in the evening. This morning I decided that it's time to say no to this nasty situation for me once and for all, and despite all the misfortune, I blocked his phone number and blocked him as a manager. Please give advice on how to cope and make it easier for me. For me, he only wanted to get rid of the barracks, he told me about marriage, children. Nova ruined me how I was able to fall in love with a liar for the first time, now I am very sad and hard, but I hope to overcome it and move on I can not spend my life waiting for it to change, it will never happen.
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Not all men can predispose a woman at any time. He doesn't try, he just doesn't know how. You don't expect much from him, but you will always be eaten by the feeling that it is not enough. If she takes one step, you will wait for the second ... Tell him what you would like from him. If you don't like something, tell him. Bad manners can always be fixed, unless it is his character.