More About Starting After Marriage And Children

   There is a big difference between weight and alcoholism. At least the fat man won't beat and harass you just because he eats, and he won't give the last penny of the family for food, and they won't fire him from work and lose all his friends over food. In addition, the fat can lose weight, and alcohol is to the grave. Alcohol is also a lack of self-discipline, while weight can be a hormonal problem.

   Why is no one talking about diseases, but about external problems? Why do you define weight as a huge problem? What if the partner gets sick? There are much more terrible things than weight.

   Като мъж, чиято жена изглежда супер след две раждания, и който сам тренира и се поддържа ( спрях сладкото, пърженото и алкохола), съм напълно съгласен с всичко, което казваш... честно казано, подозирам, че жените, които подскочиха срещу горкия човек, са на свой ред дебели и с влошена самооценка, а мъжете - инфантилни глезльовци. И едните и другите смятат, че им се полага внимание, без самите те да са старателни. Не сме ви майки, искаме адекватни партньори! Преди време, като бях тийнейджър баща ми ( интелигентен, начетен, атрактивен и много деен мъж) се принуди да прибягва до крайни грубости спрямо майка ми ( иначе всеотдайна и много сговорчива, но си имаше своите бесове ) за да се вземе в ръце, докато е относително млада, и веднъж бях там, като направо й каза: “Ако не се стегнеш и не отслабнеш, ще си намеря любовница! Няма да те гледам как дебелееш, и да се тревожа как ще те търкалям по болници след 10-15 години - кръвно, инфаркти, инсулти, подлоги, това предстои, каквото искаш прави! ...”. Не че тя се промени значително, а и тогава той ми се стори прекалено груб и невъздържан. Но сега, след като аз самият съм женен, си давам сметка колко много го е боляло, за да формулира чак такъв словоред. А на всички, които ще оплюете мен, или човекът с предишния коментар - много е лесно да съдите и да използвате популистки лозунги, че любовта, видиш ли, когато била истинска, не се влияела от външния вид. Влияе се от всичко !! Знаете ли какво е да обичаш някого, и да го/я гледаш как бавно и сигурно, ден след ден, се превръща в свиня. Да, СВИНЯ ! занемарила се СВИНЯ ! Не се надебелява за един ден, то е първо в мозъка. Айде вземете си живота в ръце и не обвинявайте все другите. Не сме ангели, не очакваме и останалите да са такива, така че не ни подлагайте любовта на чак такива изпитания !

   Това с безусловната любов са глупости. Ако любовта беше безусловна, щяхме да се влюбваме в първия човек, който ни мине пред погледа. Не, влюбваме се в конкретен човек, с конкретни качества, и ако тези качества се изменят драстично, е нормално не просто любовта ни да се разклати, но и да се чувстваме измамени. Жена съм и разбирам колко притеснително е за всяка една жена изведнъж да наддаде много килограми. За много жени това е борба, която водят цял живот. Но обвинявайки мъжете, няма да решим проблема. Проблемът ще се реши с разбиране и взаимни усилия. Сигурна съм, че ако една жена в такава ситуация полага усилия и дори да не успее да свали, продължава да се грижи за външния си вид, най-малкото би получила много повече разбиране от съпруга си.

   Oh, I got really nervous about such topics! Look, dear, first give birth, and then develop theories - how. And yes, there is a difference between someone getting drunk, beating you, raping you, torturing you mentally and physically, or just making a person ... overweight. If you don't make a difference, woe to you! It is clear to everyone that after pregnancy and childbirth you gain weight. Some manage to lose weight fast, others slowly, and still others cannot. Whether it's from a weak will, from an illness, from hormonal problems, or stress / depression, too many commitments and little to no help from the husband - we can't say. But when I read the author on that topic, he hardly helps his wife and thinks that parenthood is only her concern. I start from the fact that he thinks that his wife drinks coffee all day and throws herself on the sofas, and their child is not 2 years old and is with her. I imagine what a role he took, so that his wife can pay attention, but otherwise claims to space. And I even guessed from those who described how he abandoned his wife with 2 babies at the age of 1, because she did not remove the rings for 12 months! Abe people, haven't you heard about breastfeeding ??? A woman who is breastfeeding is not healthy (for her and the babies) to keep a diet! Of course, you need to eat healthy, but diet - absurd! She can stop breastfeeding, she can also stop from stress (when they give you an optimum or you gain 45 kilos and I dump you with 2 babies and you think about how to take care of them!) Do you consider this to be masculine? Why not say it before the woman gets pregnant, put the cards on the table and decide what, how and whether there will be a pregnancy. But then you are scared and silent like beaten ass, and then it is very easy for you to kick and crush a vulnerable person with a baby in his arms! I'm just screaming about these women. They are, in fact, the victims, not the pretentious gentlemen who do not touch anything at home and do not participate on an equal footing with their wives in housekeeping and raising a child, but otherwise their claims are to heaven. And read a little about pregnancy and childbirth so you can at least have realistic expectations. That someone might want his wife to be with the figure of a model on the 2nd day after the birth of a baby!

   Here, attacking is a common practice. After all, that's why we read - because it's spectacular :)

   I am disgusted by people like number 3, where the training thinks that it brings them closer to God and they deserve a model who does not change for life and becomes super demanding and incomprehensible. Think about it, it was bullshit that this woman overdid her hormones for your child. Do you measure its value in kilograms? Did he take her because of the weight? Is this the most important thing? Do any kilos erase all its value as a person and your whole past, that you are ready for rudeness and betrayals when you gain weight? You trainers are superficial and cover up complexes. When you train and you are already perfect, right? And should she bless you? Is this your criterion for people? And for intelligence, acceptance and values, why not a trainer? Or do muscles compensate for selfishness and arrogance?

   It strikes me that people who are not able to love unconditionally do not believe in true love. And these are usually people whose feelings depend on a lot of material and external things / traits. I am happy to have found someone to love unconditionally and to love me just as much. To be with me when I was weaker than I should be, when I trained regularly and had a very well-groomed body, when I gained weight after the birth, when I took them off, when I gained weight again from the second one and when I lost weight again. He has always been by my side, always helped me with decisions about these things, and always supported me after I took them. He never commented, never looked at me askance, was always aroused by me and never disturbed our sex life (except 2-3 months after birth, but for other reasons). Accordingly, I have never had complexes about my weight, I have not measured myself, I have not complained that I have gained weight or lost too much, I have always liked myself. Even the obviously stretched skin on the abdomen, the stretch marks, have their history, their beauty that my husband sees. There is true love, but few people find the right person, and even fewer are able to truly love. Because when you love, you do not love because the person is beautiful, but he is beautiful because you love. So it doesn't matter what it looks like. Of course, if we are talking about a lot of weight, you can not worry about health and do everything possible to reason with your partner. But I think it's unlikely to get there, because everyone will watch the other eat healthily and not lead a sedentary lifestyle. Of course, that doesn't mean we don't eat less sometimes, other times much more that we do not have different hormonal phases in our lives. Each of us changes the weight and that's how it should be. Because if it doesn't happen, then the weight has become a fixed idea.

   My body is mine and I decide whether to drink / gain weight or not. If someone doesn't like it, it's the right way. I don't have to support anyone but myself. If instead of depression or reasons that only I know / feel because no one lives exactly my life, I decide to drink and gain some weight, then the choice is mine! I was also very thin and fuller and ... so what? What affects others, your body is Mine. Those who make remarks to their loved ones about how they look, no, you do not do it out of concern or love, but out of insolence. Because I know how insolent I would feel if I started openly criticizing someone for their appearance.

   For women, things are a little more complicated. After birth, certain hormones skyrocket, others are suppressed. Hormonal imbalances, elevated prolactin, hashimoto, thyroid problems and others are more common in women. We men can only imagine what things a woman in labor encounters, so we don't have to judge. My mother was overweight. Years ago, she was diagnosed with a problem and had her thyroid removed. From then until today it is skin and bones. He lost weight drastically, precisely because of the hormones. Separately, he must take medication for life. My wife was found Hashimoto a few years ago. She can't lose weight if she doesn't take metformin every day.

   But obese people and alcoholics do not raise a child in their womb, so their body is not chewed, spit out and torn. The children don't watch around the clock, they have time to sleep, train, go out, eat and have been a lilac all their lives. Then from where to where do you and that next parasite ganjo compare the abandonment of women and men? !!! There is a difference between the two, to put it mildly, between the Earth and the sky. Ganyo stinks and swims cleanly and simply, because he is like that and he is lazy and impudent, who imagines that they have to put up with him. While the woman throws her body in the trash with inhuman pain and discomfort for nine months, not only during childbirth, to fight the hairy breasts that she had a child, nothing that once he did not stay up all night, once he did not feed him . Do you feel how inadequate and pathetic the comparison of launching between a woman and a man sounds ?! Only Ganyovets is capable of such brazen moronism. Do we know that you are not a woman? ;) I don't know if they approved my comment there, but I will say it again - it is no coincidence that more than half of the people from Ganiv are absolutely rejected by all women of all nationalities. There are no other drones on this planet so brazen.

   All this drama with the weights seems absurd to me. People do not marry for products 55 kg and as they are not so-complaint (divorce). The meaning of marriage is for "good and evil". I do not think what they would do for their spouses, if they get sick, they have to look after them, endure ?! A woman has to constantly balance between her work, her child (children) and her family commitments.

   In my opinion, alcoholism is treatable, but it is easiest to lag behind the person next to you and find another who is not an alcoholic. However, most people would leave the person next to them instead of helping him.

   I'm a woman and I also don't understand why he was attacked so fiercely. It smells to me of some false morality and pseudo-values ​​that make them feel more valuable and good people. But this is an anonymous site, it doesn't make much sense to stand out and pretend ... they know. I do not argue that they love their halves and hold on to them, but I am absolutely sure that 95% of the same moralists, their eyes are painted in a strange way and sigh at various beauties and matchmakers when the "cute" does not look. Here we are talking about purely physical attraction. If after birth you automatically become asexual and impotent - ok, but I doubt it. Marriage is trust, love, respect, but also attraction on a physical level. This is complete, this is normal. A combination of many factors, not just moral or just physical beauty. And, as far as I understand, it's just laziness and running, and not for diseases, which is quite different. Extremely many women, including those in my circle, became gucians when they caught someone safe. Apart from the appearance, such a start-up also speaks about the attitude you have towards your partner - you have already trapped him, you have done your job and he has nowhere to go, what should you try for if you have a secured boyfriend? This is pure disregard and underestimation, I would be offended. The same as men who get used to a woman cleaning, cooking, taking care of them, etc., and they don't move a finger because they have taken a lifetime of servitude. It is not a problem with the hernia and sagging abdomen. Whoever expected something else after birth is very dumb. The problem is running after you have tied someone up and the attitude you show by letting yourself look like a pig. As children grow older, they also cease to be an excuse. Yes, you will respect the woman who has worn out your sons and daughters, but that includes not salivating on tight babes, but being completely OK with her appearance and still wanting her 100%. How proud can they be of that?

   The woman gave birth whether it didn't matter 1, 2 or three years ago. It is important that looking after the child may not be able to lose weight immediately. It is important to exercise a little, to eat healthily. But everything is required of her, maybe she wants to be weak. It is assumed that she does almost everything at home, but it is necessary to look only at what is not weak. Why immediately talk about lovers and not about love for women.

   You are the author of the other topic, we know. As well as countless others. You stumble on one topic, and flood the site with various stories and nonsense that have nothing to do with reality. Stop now because we are sick of the same topics.

   You can't expect confirmatory comments on the subject of the poor little man, because over 80% are written by ugly, fat, neglected aunts who think that to decide a child is their only goal in life and that's it. everything can now look like barrels. P.S. I am a woman.

   Oh, yes, men do not realize that a pregnancy leads to 15-20 rings and many times even make a remark to their pregnant women that they eat, which is absurd. Uzkim should be loving and understanding in the moments when their child will appear or will appear, and not to grumble about their work, to cling to mom and dad and to tease how the woman was lying at home. When they need to be understanding, to provide comfort and tranquility - the coin turns. Very strange moment. I will never understand. And yes, a breastfeeding woman should not follow a diet. And tomorrow, God forbid, the person next to you will get sick, will there be again - off, hospitals, examinations, this, that. And people - these are your children.

   13, I have never seen or heard of a cured alcoholic.

   Ladies and gentlemen, don't you think that you will be forever young, attractive and healthy? When you have a heart attack at the age of 40, there will be no woman next to you to call your ambulance and take you to hospitals. Neither children.

   I do not understand why gaining weight is now considered almost the end of the world. Even to equate them with alcoholics, even if it serves to justify infidelity. Well, fat women are beautiful too. Mine at 19 was 48, now at 33 after giving birth a few years ago she is 66. Well, she is beautiful again and I still love her. Normally, at 33, after giving birth, she can't look like she's 19. I've loved her since I was 14, so now, because of some weight, can I suddenly stop loving her? I did not make a remark or threaten her. On the contrary, as it is, so it is. I myself see that the metabolism is not as before. He ate the same, even before he ate more sweets and was still 48 kg. The woman struggles, limits herself as much as possible, but if she does not eat sweets for 1 week, she begins to turn black. Take off 1-2 pounds, then one day eat 1 slice or one waffle and return them. Even when he tells me " when you look at her? Or not to say "hey, look how covered he is, that he's leaning against this fat girl". Total nonsence. All these ridiculous demands create mistrust and tension in the relationship. I bet on acceptance. Of course, if he becomes a drug addict, for example, I will not accept it, but the weight is nonsense for me. There are more important things. when you look at her? Or not to say "hey, look how covered he is, that he's leaning against this fat girl". Total nonsence. All these ridiculous demands create mistrust and tension in the relationship. I bet on acceptance. Of course, if he becomes a drug addict, for example, I will not accept it, but the weight is nonsense for me. There are more important things.

   Ugh, mine ruined your figure too. And does not take any measures to recover. He thinks that when he lets me from behind, we are even.

   Number 14! How old are you and what difficulties have you gone through in your life ??? There are people with a very favorable destiny and their opinions cannot be taken as authoritative!

   Do you know how many factors play a role. They marry two Bulgarians, their parents are on both sides, they are often financially dependent. Both women and men often do not have basic skills for independent living, because mom and dad do everything. The woman, according to Bulgarian tradition, ignores the man after the birth of the child. It starts with a crazy hygiene, sleeping in the other room, kneading the family in breeding. The man is not present at the birth. This wonderful moment unites the family, the two go through it. No independence at all, alienating and difficult relationships are created. Weight is a problem for both sexes, in Bulgaria all children are villains, bad habits are created from childhood to consume large amounts of food, then change is very difficult. In general, relationships, upbringing, Perceptions are all a problem and contribute to such relationships. Not obese due to health problems, hormones, etc. it's all about food, movement and habits.

   I fully support number 14. In my opinion, in most cases, permanent weight gain is a consequence of "obesity" of the soul.

   One monk had said that happiness is better not to be based on material things because they are impermanent and your happiness becomes like a stock exchange chart. It should be based on inner harmony, which is less influenced by external factors. It is the same with love - it must come from within, and not be inversely proportional to the weight. Everything material, resp. what is based on it is changeable and false. I am aware that this is an idealistic view and it cannot be 100%. That's right, I'm not saying you tolerate everything, but there are nuances between the idealistic and the materialistic conception. If it's not idealistic, it's not a problem, it can't be. But from one nuance onwards, it becomes too ugly. If at the first weight gain he is ready to fuck her, cheat on her and the like, then this is love, based entirely on physics and there is nothing real in it. He doesn't even admit that he may have a health problem and at least be curious about what could be due to it and possibly help. He has taken the man as much as you are a woman and wants so much and he is not interested in anything else.

   It would be best for the "poor man" who spat on the previous topic to get a chalga singer-type muffin, if there is money for one. And after she dice him a penny, she beats his jester.

   № 23, I am 31 years old. As a child, I was bullied and beaten at school, my mother lived with her brother (my uncle), who was an alcoholic, parasitized on her back, raised scandals, beat her regularly, and so on. I'm not very pretty and I've often been rejected by men, and when I was "lucky" I came across poor people who used me to kill their complexes and insult me ​​about how bad I was and how nothing would help me. I have had dysthymia for years, I visit a psychologist. I don't see any meaning in my life, I hope to find the courage to end it. Is it that good, do I have more when I need it? Your logic is that with starving children in Africa and native retirees barely making ends meet, no one else should complain and his problems are ridiculous and ridiculous to last. I repeat, it is not so much the problem in appearance, as much as in relation to the person next to you. One way to show it is by taking care of yourself - to be good to both him and you. Of course, miracles can't happen, but just sitting and mashing onions while pickling why they don't want you ... it doesn't happen.

   What if the other half falls and breaks a leg, an arm? Didn't you take her like that? Will you watch it? What if he catches a cold? What if they find something incurable? Didn't they take her like that? Will you leave such a person?

   Even if she smokes, if she smokes like most Bulgarian women, at the age of 30 she already has wrinkled mackerel, and at work the 25-year-olds are also old. Only in BG so much is smoked by women!

   So I may not have eaten chocolate for THREE YEARS, I can push and run every morning, no problem, there is even fit shaming, but you see, if she doubles her weight and starts to barely breathe, it would be bad to offer her to take off some rings ...

   Greetings for 14, very objective opinion. My wife and I have been married for almost 20 years. When we met she was about 50 kilograms, now she is 73. We have a 7-year-old child. The birth itself had such a big effect on her weight. And before that it was about the same weight. I myself have gained about 6 kilograms in these 20 years and I try to keep my weight at one level (about 80 kilograms) through light diets and sports. She herself has no particular desire to lose weight and somehow gave up ... and no, there are no hormonal diseases, just does not have the necessary will and eats sweet-sweet :) We are a very healthy and close-knit family and it does not occur to me to we separate because of weight or appearance. I love my wife very much, I support her for everything, but ... I felt that I was gradually losing my sexual attraction to her. Precisely because of its weight. I'm not a bad person and I don't do it on purpose, just biology. Number 14 is right - I look at thin and slender women and get aroused by them. This is the bitter truth ... I wouldn't cheat, but I'm watching them. I don't want to raise the issue with my wife because it would offend her, I just hope she decides one day that she needs a change. In short - the truth is out there. Some love their partner unconditionally, others like me have remarks, but prefer not to share them, others raise scandals and threaten .... a wide world, people are very different. Reading morals and sentences "what should be" and what is "correct" will not change human biology. Male of 41 I wouldn't cheat, but I watch them. I don't want to raise the issue with my wife because it would offend her, I just hope she decides one day that she needs a change. In short - the truth is out there. Some love their partner unconditionally, others like me have remarks, but prefer not to share them, others raise scandals and threaten .... a wide world, people are very different. Reading morals and sentences "what should be" and what is "correct" will not change human biology. Male of 41 I wouldn't cheat, but I watch them. I don't want to raise the issue with my wife because it would offend her, I just hope she decides one day that she needs a change. In short - the truth is out there. Some love their partner unconditionally, others like me have remarks, but prefer not to share them, others raise scandals and threaten .... a wide world, people are very different. Reading morals and sentences "what should be" and what is "correct" will not change human biology. Male of 41 others raise scandals and threaten .... a wide world, people are very different. Reading morals and sentences "what should be" and what is "correct" will not change human biology. Male of 41 others raise scandals and threaten .... a wide world, people are very different. Reading morals and sentences "what should be" and what is "correct" will not change human biology. Male of 41

   Men are a strange thing, they want an ideal woman to cook for them, to be clean, to be sexy. My husband falls for women with big breasts and says he wouldn't take me without breasts. Now he tells me that if I listen to the music I listen to, he would find a mistress. That's how far the requirements go. But let's say there are other men. If he goes looking for one, he will hardly easily find another one, rather the fat woman may find herself with a new man before him.

   If you constantly tell someone how fat he is, how he is not good enough for you, how he should tighten, how you will dump him, then judging by my observations there is no chance that this person will tighten. On the contrary, you will ruin his self-confidence and you will block him completely and he will even eat even more to compensate for the complex you have given him. Separately, he will not feel this closeness, love and trust in you. In general, this approach is the most wrong for the person and the relationship as a whole. It's the same as many parents say to their children for years, "Look at that child learning, how lazy you are, when will you get smarter, why are you so stupid" in the hope that the children will be ashamed and take it hard, but we see the result - such children, even then as adults, are massively depressed, complex, without self-confidence.

   My 65-year-old mother-in-law fell ill with cancer, incurable, she was given three years, thanks to her husband and children, their support, all their efforts for good clinics, she spent twice as much and a normal life (except for chemotherapy) , but still did not get wet and did everything herself). My father-in-law did not separate from her for a moment, they stayed as they were the previous 40 years - together. She was not young and not slender, she was the mother of his children, she was the one who supported him and guarded his back all his life, with whom they built a house and drank wine on the terrace with which he danced, which was tight. took care of their children. Which looked at him after surgery because he had operable cancer. This is a family. Is there mutual support, people overcome a lot, and you can't support your wife by a few pounds.

   I, too, had lost weight and gained weight after the birth of my first child. I think I have reached 70 kg, and I am one meter and sixty-two meters tall. In the winter I pushed her away somehow, she goes out less, with her coat and things don't show anymore. However, when summer came, it was only when I went out and saw the chicks that I felt terrible. It was difficult, but I took matters into my own hands. In the morning only coffee with a cigarette, at 2 at noon a salad without salt and oil, with a piece of cheese, and in the evening I just took 2-3 bites of what I cooked. I did this diet for 2 months. I was in no hurry to change my wardrobe. When I felt ready I went and bought great pants and a sexy blouse. I cut and dyed my hair. When I opened my husband's door in the evening, he literally froze. The look with which he looked at me was absolutely worth my two months of effort. Because, absorbed in the hard everyday life - it is most difficult to be a housewife and look after a child - we choose the easy way, downhill. And excuses-believe excuses are always there.

   Number 14/28, you contradict yourself! You say, "I repeat, it is not so much the problem in appearance as in the attitude towards the person next to you." Well, let's see what is the attitude of men who complain or have abandoned their wives 1-2 years after the birth of THEIR child, under the pretext that women are fat. 1. In your opinion, these men have read, or at least asked a doctor, gynecologist, obstetrician, why their women have a problem with weight 1-2 years after birth. Is it normal what to do to avoid this? 2. Are you aware that breastfeeding a baby (which is actually best for the little one) should NOT be a diet. Eat healthy-yes, diet-NO! 3. Do you really think that the man takes enough care of the home and the child NE after determining that his mother lies all day on the couches, and the child is not 2 years old? Lying down and being lazy with a 1-2 year old child are incompatible concepts. Don't you imagine the child as a statue that you put in a corner and dust from time to time? To put it this way, a man means that he hardly looks at his home and his child, but he wrote everything in the column "WOMEN'S OBLIGATIONS". 4. It does not occur to these men at all that their wife may not be able to lose weight due to health reasons / change in hormones, etc. Or you can download them, but within a longer period. 5. Why are "pitching" or constant muttering and dissatisfaction considered the best motivational methods? And keep in mind that all this "attitude" applies to women who are very vulnerable after giving birth, without completely normalizing their hormones and their normal biological processes. 6. Do you think that there is no fear, tension and stress of these women, whom their "lovers" threaten to leave and quite logically the woman wonders how she will cope alone with a baby in her arms? For postpartum depression (medically diagnosed problem) and a word I do not open. Yes, with such an attitude to fall in love again! Wasn't that the important thing?

   to 22. Familiar picture. And mine blackmails me into buying her expensive things with the pleading 'come on, darling, buy it for me! You'll have special sex tonight, I promise. ' She keeps her promises, we do it from behind, but she likes it. He takes my fire. It turns out that I buy what she wants and have fun in bed. It's a big fox!

   To number 14.28 of 23 Did I read well! To end your life! You know, you have the same big demands as all our women, and that escalates the relationship between the sexes. The fact that you do not meet certain criteria probably worsens your condition. Why do you have to meet any criteria? Since when has being with someone a man / woman become a constant race and proof of it - starting from physics, through money and profession, to the incredible intellect that almost no one has ...? It's about CAN YOU LOVE AND LET YOURSELF BE LOVED, and nothing else There are two sides to a partnership. You're always wrong somewhere. And yes, a huge problem is to meet the right person !!!! This job is not easy at all ... And there is nothing worse than taking your own life. It is better to find someone to fuck you *, and not to think nonsense

   and I tried to say what 38. If you see in your wife only weight and vision, to pee on your "love". And if someone is ready to cross out everything built so far because of some weight, then he sees nothing else in it.

   I'm napping about how thick it is ... now if there are ankles like a baton and infantry calves ... sorka. Brother.

   Look now, let me give you my opinion as we all set out to line up. I was 40 kg until I was 25 years old. Believe if you want. That was my gene. I ate but did not gain weight. They asked me if I was anorexic, well no, I wasn't. When I turned 25, life fell on me. At the same time, I was diagnosed with thyroid problems, diabetes and stomach damage. That broke me. I continued to eat exactly the same way I ate before, but diabetes decided that it would fuck my body and in just a year, I am currently 26 and weigh 65 kg. How do you sound? The people around me were just amazed, they didn't know me when they saw me. I used to be called a pig, stop eating, but in reality I eat salads twice a day. I'm vegan, so I don't eat cheese, meat, cheese, or bread. In reality, I have nothing to stop from gaining weight. I consume less than 1000 calories a day. I train hard, but I don't lose weight. I talked to the doctors and they said that the drugs I take will reduce the weight gain, but they can't make me thin and apart from hunger and training, they have nothing to say. I'm hungry and fat. Fortunately, I have a friend next to me who was terribly fat, but lost weight with training, had no illnesses, but understands me and loves me. If he gains 120 kg now, let's say, I won't judge him, I won't make him become a mannequin, I'll just give him advice to stop certain foods so that there are no diseases. For drinking, if a person drinks a beer, a glass of wine is okay, but if he drinks 500 grams of vodka, whiskey, brandy, every night and gets drunk to insanity, then if he does not want to be helped, it is very clear that he will dumps. Will my children watch drunkenness and fighting every day? Stop judging people by their weight. I don't eat anything and I'm still fat. What to do??? I tear my ass in the hall, sweat like an animal, and the dumb scale shows no less. To commit suicide, what ?? I decided that maybe that was my destiny, I said goodbye to the little clothes and found sexy, nice clothes for my weight, I walked the streets with my head held high and I said who accepts me, accepts me. Who does not, ayideee way. I'm tired of these Bulgarian understandings that if I'm not 40 kg then I'm a pig. Not to mention that it's fashionable in America to be fatter. Everyone enjoys Jennifer Lopez's big thighs and big ass. You will enjoy me too. To commit suicide, what ?? I decided that maybe that was my destiny, I said goodbye to the little clothes and found sexy, nice clothes for my weight, I walked the streets with my head held high and I said who accepts me, accepts me. Who does not, ayideee way. I'm tired of these Bulgarian understandings that if I'm not 40 kg then I'm a pig. Not to mention that it's fashionable in America to be fatter. Everyone enjoys Jennifer Lopez's big thighs and big ass. You will enjoy me too. To commit suicide, what ?? I decided that maybe that was my destiny, I said goodbye to the little clothes and found sexy, nice clothes for my weight, I walked the streets with my head held high and I said who accepts me, accepts me. Who does not, ayideee way. I'm tired of these Bulgarian understandings that if I'm not 40 kg then I'm a pig. Not to mention that it's fashionable in America to be fatter. Everyone enjoys Jennifer Lopez's big thighs and big ass. You will enjoy me too. Everyone enjoys Jennifer Lopez's big thighs and big ass. You will enjoy me too. Everyone enjoys Jennifer Lopez's big thighs and big ass. You will enjoy me too.

   Interesting topic ... after 15 years my husband wants me as before ... but I always knew that he likes skinny and tits :) .. If I was full, we would hardly be together .. I'm lucky to be weak for 50 years :) But he took care of me when I was sick, I took care of him too ... Well, men are on a primitive level ... he is not handsome, I did not look for handsome .. But they are such:)) Whoever comes across and with his luck ..

   That's why I don't want to give birth, because instead of the man appreciating the woman's sacrifice, he bragged that she was overweight

   37, and how do you propose to have the conversation in question with the person, so as not to offend him, but to motivate him? I ask quite seriously, because my father, his light finger, for probably 40 years never managed to make my mother at least try to lose weight. Not to mention his whims, but at least from a health point of view. It's not as if he hadn't tried for good, for bad, for explanations, and for scandals, it doesn't work and it doesn't work. My mother is greedy, there was no talk of sports and movement, so it was absurd and now she is even trying a regime. If someone wonders what happened - now he is 78, probably 120 kg, with terrible joint pain, 2 steps can not do without a walker and without roaring in pain, complains of high blood pressure, heart problems ... should I continue? While a person is young, the body somehow copes, as he gets older, it becomes difficult. So on this topic, the problem is not only appearance but also health. And if someone thinks that it is only his personal problem, I will only remind you that this greatly affects his relatives, because it leads to health problems, and serious ones. So, dear overweight people, take matters into your own hands and force yourself to limit harmful foods, as well as the amount in general, move at least for yourself, if not for your partner and children. The opposite is very bad, believe me. move at least for yourself, if not for your partner and children. The opposite is very bad, believe me. move at least for yourself, if not for your partner and children. The opposite is very bad, believe me.

   Do 37 Helped me! It made me stand up and stop being weak !!! "It's not the problem with the hernia and the sagging belly. Whoever was expecting something else after giving birth is very dumb." Tell it to my stupid 39-year-old sister, who has 3 children and weighs 53 kilograms, because she finds time to take care of herself, and not just to sit at home and whine!

   Up to 43 Mometo has a beat more than a few pounds, dude!

   We are not talking about unconditional love, but simply about love. Let him complain, let him seek advice, but to describe her as a "fat and ugly pig", "anti-woman" ... I just read and do not understand how a person who claims to have ever loved is able to use such words in the specific situation.

   Until 29 Mii ... not to tell you.

   41, So you don't have a girlfriend, you have a prostitute by your side. You confuse a prostitute with a boyfriend.