Hello, I am 17 years old and first of all, I want to say that this story is completely real and I do not make anything up. It's going to get a little longer because I'm going to tell you in a slightly shorter version what happened until yesterday. This is my second story on a similar topic, and after all the advice you gave me last time, I decided to let things go by myself to get better, but things have gone too far. It all started in May, when I took my mother's phone to take a picture (with her permission)and saw a former colleague of her writing "I pick it up" and at first I thought he had the wrong chat anyway. I didn't say anything to my mom, and I gave her the phone back. I doubted it and, going to my room, I checked Facebook, and if she answered it. I'm sorry I opened it because I saw her send him pictures of her breasts and he says "Can you take down a little bit? " and all sorts of stickers and emojis in love where I went into the living room and she came from her room and the question "Mom, why do you send such love stickers with [his name]? (I kept quiet about the photos and told her she left her profile open and when I wanted to get into mine I saw it) Where she got angry and said it was something normal and when I asked her what was normal as you were both married and having children (I know because when I went to work and saw it). She didn't just keep accusing me of deliberately digging into the profile where I would defend myself and that I would tell Dad where she got even angrier and said that if he found out and left her, she'd kill herself and that was it. It's been a while and just a few days after the sea we were waiting for my dad to come back from the village and going to the toilet I hear she whispers on the phone and occasionally she's talking about work, especially when she hears me going into the toilet and ends with the words "I'm on vacation until Monday, I'm going to take advantage but now I have to hang up because there are a lot of listeners" and after five minutes she came to me and my sister and we talked. with my father on the phone. Nothing more happened until yesterday, when my mother under the influence of alcohol (it was a birthday) playing romantic songs was explained in the love of Dad (she does it while she's sober) and after five minutes I saw her filming the glass of wine and sending the guy with text cheers from below and sitting 2 meters away from me and Dad. How can a man who, until five minutes ago, explained himself in love and kissed the love of his life to be such a hypocrite and a liar? I don't know what to do. I have 3 options: 1. Tell Dad everything, risking dad leaving us and mom killing herself. 2. Keep quiet. 3. To tell my mom that I know everything risking our friendship and being mad at me for life. I ASK YOU FOR ADVICE AND THANK YOU TO ALL WHO HAVE READ THE STORY TO THE END. P. S. Before you accuse me of anything I want to tell you, this isn't the first time he's been cheating on him. At least I know about one more time. I was 7 years old and she even started with him, but I didn't understand anything at the time, and I came to my sister, who was 4 at the time. For us, he was just a guy my mom was seeing and buying us toys and treats and so for a few months. My father also loved my mother very much and even made him a crazy scandal when he had a Facebook and added people from the village who are friends of his ex and he deleted it because he didn't want to risk their relationship and took advantage of the fact that he wasn't very good with technology.
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