I've been plump since I was little. Not quite from a young age, but from the age of 7-8 I started gaining weight. Besides everything else, I am tall - 176. Last year things got out of control, I was almost 5 centimeters shorter and I weighed more than 80 kilograms! I know you will say that I deserve ridicule. I know that too. The question is elsewhere. I stayed. A lot. I now weigh 63-65 pounds, but the taunts continue. I don't have a belly, I have a waist, I have an ass and breasts. My body shape is an hourglass. Nevertheless, the ridicule continues. My self-esteem is low, I can't lift it. I have friends, the jokes themselves are like jokes, mostly from the boys. I have a boyfriend, a best friend and quite close boy friends, I'm not mean, that is, I get along with both sexes. Some of my friends even envy my legs or my ass. I have long legs - 106 centimeters. I'm beautiful in the face, at least according to the others. I know I don't look so bad, but the taunts ruin me. What do you think is the reason? Do I really look that bad? I play sports, I haven't lost weight with diets, because I know it matters. I am 14 and have been with my class for 7 years, that is, since the beginning of the filling. I hope you publish my story. Thanks in advance.
1 lilbabydai answered
In schools, unfortunately, such stories are commonplace. The problem is that a joke has already started for you. You grew up with these people, you changed little by little every day over the years. They probably already see that you have lost weight, but they can't get your fuller image out of your head. And it will pass, don't worry. If someone is joking with you and crosses your line, just tell him that you have lost about 20 pounds and have not been full for a long time. Keep in mind that you have a great body structure. Many women long for the curves of the hourglass. The bad thing about this shape is that you have to be very careful with the clothes, because the hips are a bit wider and visually you can create the wrong impression of being fuller. You lost a lot of weight, you did a miracle and only at the age of 14 without starving. You have a great body shape. Now you have a waist, but you also kept your butt and bust. You have no idea how the boys will look at your body in a few more years, when you are in later puberty and these things are looked at more. Don't think nonsense, don't go to extremes and raise your self-esteem. You don't have to look like a stick at all, it's great to have curves. Don't whip yourself. I'm older than you, really these things escape you a little at the moment, but one day you will realize that you hit 6 from the lottery. You don't have to lose weight anymore. Train for tone, maintain your health and weight, but do not go to extremes. I chose the right clothes, that's all you can do. Your classmates will grow a little more, they will get used to your new body and no one will make fun of you anymore. It's temporary. And you're in 7th grade, you will soon move to another school and there they will directly accept you as weak and they will not joke with you because they will see no reason to do so. You are 176 cm tall and weigh 63-65 kilograms, you are exactly normal, don't worry.