When I look only women write, and again we men are peasants and idiots ... yes, many people say so, but you have to understand that male nature is like that. we flaunt, prove ourselves constantly, and have to stand out from other males. this behavior is inherent in cavemen. we seem to live in a time of tolerance and understanding and acceptance of differences, and here the prejudices are there ... to be objective, I can look at it from another angle. the expression does indeed indicate to some degree disrespect and subjection of the subject to a kind of influence. but, 'mine' may not only mean that she is 'mine' (as possession) but as my friend. I want to tell you from a very personal experience that when a man starts to express himself correctly (I am referring to myself) people start looking at you strangely and slightly nodding ... you may reproach me that this is not the case.
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My husband does not use such words for me (at least not in my presence), but I have always been impressed and uncomfortable when a man speaks like that about his girlfriend (wife). They hardly do it on purpose. Habit, maybe. I don't believe they have a sense of ownership or disrespect for their spouses. My father always says "the woman this, the woman that ..." It's also not pleasant, but once my mother is used to it and accepts it, there is no point in making dramas. If someone has claims for this, it is right to make them in the first such cases, before the habit is created.