I want to ask mainly men - is there such a thing as "Sex in this place is boring" My husband and I have sex quite rarely. Once a week or sometimes less often. We always have sex when he wants, but when I want I am repelled many times. He wants us to have sex on the couch, on the table, etc., and when he decides he wants it in the light, and if we are in bed at night and I want him there, he says that it is boring to have sex in the bedroom and that the bedroom was intended for sleeping. Then I tell him that the table is for eating, and the sofa for sitting, etc., and he falls silent. It was dark in the bedroom, I wanted it in the dark (which is pure lie and deception) and when we did it in the dark it was like a meat handle. I tell him we'll turn on the light, etc., but he won't. And the problem is not in the bedroom, it must be an excuse, because I hung him on the couch and in the kitchen and he pushed me away again. He just wants to be when his urge is so strong that he has nowhere else to go and has to release the tension. Men, tell me now - is there such a thing as a boring place for sex or rather - in this case the partner is boring? Because I think it's the latter, even though he denies it - but he wouldn't admit it, as well as many other things. I remember in the beginning how crazy he was about me - he wanted me 5-6 times a day and even at night he woke up to make love. Now zero desire. I'm tired, I'm not a sex doll to satisfy a need only when nature gives a sign. I have feelings and I will no longer have sex with him and will ignore him until I judge that he wants sex, not because he is already in pain from detention. You can attack me, but I don't know any other way to solve my problem, I tried everything. And he doesn't want to hear about erotic lingerie - he didn't want to pretend to be a prostitute. It would repel him.
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You're right, author - not the place, but the partner is boring. And instead of pushing your husband away, catch yourself letting him go without problems when he wants and be sure that he won't let you down either. Someone has to take the first step. Otherwise - in the bedroom you can change the light, for example - there are table lamps in red, to put different furniture such as an armchair, where you can also have sex. Mostly diversify the program - classic lingerie also helps, but in general men want to have more often a blowjob, spontaneous sex (quicks), sex in different positions and why not - in different places. Men don't turn around, they say to themselves, what do they want and I don't see why you have a problem fulfilling your husband's desire to have more varied sex? Your pride will not fix your sex. It's all literally in your hands, lips,