Men, Don't Get Married!

The Story

Finding the meaning of living married (or even living together) with the average woman these days is an extremely bad idea for any man with at least a little opportunity and self-confidence. Pros of a possible marriage: love, sex, someone to do the housework, and "not to die alone." Love is a good thing, but it is rare. The best kind of love is self-love, because no one can take it away from you. The woman will not give you the meaning of life, you have to find it for yourself. Sex is a tragedy in most families after the first few years - either it dries up, or the man must have an iron will to continue to want sex with 80 kg of depressed fat. As for housework - there are laundries, there is affordable and varied food, and even if you hire someone to clean and cook for you, it will be much cheaper, and it is much easier to change the wiper, or the place where you order food, than the woman. And yes, old age and death are unpleasant and inevitable facts of life, but in the end everyone dies alone - you will not take anything or anyone with you. And no, a little light last years of life certainly do not compensate for the sacrifice of 50-60 years. The disadvantages are innumerable: lack of freedom, independence, and free time. Lack of sex (or low-quality sex with a woman you would normally never want). Break from work to feed not only yourself but also your eternally dissatisfied wife. Constant mental harassment, because even the most meek women try to step on her husband's neck, and you need constant effort to keep her under control. We often have extra "extras" like a messy house, monotonous and unhealthy meals, the "pleasure" of becoming your wife's driver, or financing a second car, for which you will again take care of everything. All hobbies, interests, and even friendships will be put to the test. You will often not feel good in your own home because your wife knows best how to furnish it, how to decorate it, and your belongings and tools will be unceremoniously moved to the basement or garage. But, assuming you are a masochist, or your wife is not like the others, she is special and has not changed drastically in behavior and appearance a few years after marriage. When you turn 40, you will just relax and watch with hope that the moment is approaching for the children to grow up and become independent. Your still attractive woman will begin to feel the first signs of old age, and how male attention begins to decline sharply. Guess what is the easiest way for a woman to raise her self-esteem? Congratulations - you already have horns, and maybe divorce papers. Thank God, in Bulgaria the maintenance of the wife is still not obligatory, but there is a 95% chance that you will lose your home. If you think that such things rarely happen, just look at the opinions from the last few topics here - it is obvious that most women consider gaining 40 kg after a few years of marriage to be quite normal, and you should continue to love and desire her. as if nothing had happened. On the other hand, if you lose your job and spend a year or two on the couch in front of the TV with a beer in hand, let's see how many of these same women will be willing to stay with you and support you. And not aging,

Last Updated
August 31, 2020
Author:
arifahlubai

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